Hello,
I need some advice I meet this Jordanian man 3 weeks ago. I decided to meet him for coffee after he asked me 2 days in a row. When I meet him he got super close to me. I ended up meeting his cousin (as he has family that lives here). I talked to him every night after our meeting and even spoke with his family on the video chat. I met him at his family's house a few days later and met his family in person and had dinner with them. His aunt talked to me about my interests. His cousin said that he was happy to have a friend in the USA since he went through a lot with his ex-wife. His aunt also told him to slow down the courting because it's not fast in American culture. She told me that Arab men (especially him) are quick and direct about what they want.
He was deciding whether or not to stay in the States and work on getting his CPA. The next night over video chat, he asked me to marry him. I was in complete shock! It was an emotional phone call. It was confirmed by family later on that he was not marrying to get a green card.
Since then we have had some nice chats and some arguments. He already said he loved me. He had to go back home to Jordan. We kept in touch while he traveled and after he got home.
We had an argument Sunday. He talked about how he can't concentrate at work because he is so far away from me. His said communication was bad between us. He begged me to marry him. I told him I wanted to get to know him better (as we agreed on after the first time he talked about marriage). We haven't spoken since Sunday.
Can someone be help me understand what is going on? It is cultural?