Making new friends and share experiences

A few things:

• Don't be overwhelmingly friendly/ smiley that is strange/ suspicious, only with the ones who are close/ for example who invited you into house
• If get invited inside left your boots in the anteroom/ near entrance, especially if there are a baby in the household
• no smalltalk/ generalities
• Don't use loud voice, nor make promises or oath if you are not perfectly sure that can or will keep them
• Don't criticise anything/ any progress/ leader: locals can do outsiders not,
• Be careful with the ones who especially seek the company of outlanders instantly, they are may semi-otcasts from local society - better the ones who are seem distanced first, when they open up after deeds/ after you prove yourself that is true/ real not fake/ profit seeking