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How to travel legally with your minor child following a separation

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Written byAsaël Häzaqon 04 December 2024
Translated byVeedushi

The justice system is increasingly detailed to enhance the protection of minors. To ensure peace of mind when traveling with your child, familiarize yourself with the relevant regulations in both your home country and the destination. Here are some practical tips.

Traveling or relocating abroad with a minor child can be complex, especially after a divorce or separation. You may wonder if you need to inform your ex-spouse, how to comply with legal requirements, and whether you can leave without explicit consent from the other parent.

Both you and your ex-spouse have parental authority, which ideally benefits the child by maintaining connections with both parents. It also indicates that you have reached some agreement on co-parenting.

Under shared parental authority, traveling with your minor child is typically permissible. The legal system often differentiates between 'everyday acts' and 'significant acts'. Everyday acts, such as short trips, usually don't require formal approval from your ex-spouse. However, significant acts—those that could have a major impact on your child's life—require the consent of both parents.

While it's generally not required to obtain permission to travel as it's considered an everyday act, you are still obligated to inform the other parent. This duty to notify applies regardless of whether the travel is domestic or international.

Exceptions to the general rule of shared parental authority

The general rule allowing travel under shared parental authority does not apply if one parent holds exclusive parental authority. Additionally, if the divorce decree includes a clause prohibiting the child from leaving the country, this rule also does not apply.

It's important to note that the principle of shared authority doesn't override the requirements of the country you plan to visit. If the destination country requires specific documentation, such as proof of the child's identity, you must provide these documents regardless of your parental authority status. Compliance with the host country's regulations is essential for smooth travel.

When planning to relocate abroad for an extended period, the dynamics of traveling with a minor child change significantly. Unlike short stays, long-term expatriation requires legal adjustments to existing custody arrangements. You must petition a family affairs judge to review and potentially revise shared custody terms, focusing on visitation rights and the child's living arrangements with the non-relocating parent. Additionally, consider the impact on your child's education.

The review process is collaborative; the other parent's consent is essential. They should be fully informed and agree to the new arrangements. The family affairs judge will determine the child's new primary residence and adjust visitation rights, always prioritizing the child's best interests.

It's crucial to discuss the relocation openly with your ex-partner. They should know the proposed new city, planned dates of departure and return, and how they will maintain contact with the child. Negotiating a compromise that considers the feasibility of visits—whether the location is geographically and financially accessible—is key to supporting the child's relationship with both parents.

Since legal requirements vary by country, it's important to consult the specific laws of the country you plan to move to. In the event of a dispute, the local courts will have jurisdiction.

Considering the child's voice in divorce/separation and relocation decisions

During divorce or separation proceedings involving moving abroad, older children nearing majority have the right to be heard by the judge to express their views. If a child voices a preference to remain in their current country, it can significantly impact the feasibility of the relocation plan. The justice system prioritizes the child's best interests and ensures their opinion is given without undue influence, coercion, or manipulation, particularly in contentious divorces where compliance with custody agreements may be an issue.

For younger children, whose discernment is recognized from around the age of eight, the court also provides an opportunity to be heard. A psychologist or psychiatrist might assist to confirm that the child comprehensively understands the implications of expatriation. This is especially important as many countries have implemented stringent measures to prevent child abductions. Not every country is a signatory to international agreements like the Hague or Luxembourg Conventions, heightening judicial vigilance to ensure that an expatriation proposal is not a covert attempt at abduction.

More tips for relocating overseas with your minor child

When planning to move abroad with your minor child, thorough preparation is key to ensuring a smooth process.

Be sure to carry all necessary documents that validate your legal standing and custody arrangements, including:

  • A copy of the divorce judgment, if applicable.
  • The family record book or other relevant documents that prove family composition and parental rights.

Discuss your relocation plans with the other parent well in advance. This approach prevents last-minute surprises and fosters a cooperative environment.

Keep in mind that it is illegal for the other parent to withhold or hide your child's passport and identity card to obstruct your plans. If you discover that these essential documents are missing or are being withheld, immediately contact the family affairs judge. This step is crucial to protecting your child's right to travel and your right to relocate, ensuring no unauthorized interferences disrupt your plans.

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I'm the holder of a Master's degree in Law - Political Science as well as a diploma from the Japanese Language Proficiency Test (JLPT) N2, and have worked as a communications officer. I have over 10 years' experience as a web copywriter.

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