10 challenges for a thriving life in a new country

Language immersion challenge

A common regret among expatriates is not learning the local language, even after spending months or years in a new country. It's undeniable that language mastery is a marathon, not a sprint. Success hinges on your approach: embrace the challenge by daring to speak, even if your accent and pronunciation draw smiles. Accept that your sentences may be peppered with grammatical errors. It's akin to jumping into a pool without knowing how to swim perfectly—a blend of exhilarating panic and pride when you realize people understand you. Dive in and seize every opportunity to speak the local language throughout your day, whether it's at the store, with your neighbor, or using an online service.

Find that friend who means well

It's somewhat akin to a first date: filled with hope and a touch of nervousness. It begins with an awkward "Hello!" which breaks the ice, followed by a jumbled mix of the local language, English, and gestures that seem like an impromptu dance. Then comes the invitation to share a coffee, a meal, or an activity.

When your local acquaintance starts to reveal their favorite hidden spots and personal stories about the country, you reach an important milestone: it starts to feel a bit like "home." So, take the initiative: aim to make a local friend within the next three weeks, or at least form a promising new connection!

Step out of the famous “expat bubble”

After the initial adjustment period abroad, you find yourself in your "expat bubble": you can navigate your neighborhood effortlessly; you've become adept at using Google Translate with your neighbor or for administrative tasks; you have a go-to local dish you eat every week; you choose organized "expat" travel packages. Essentially, you're living comfortably.

Why not disrupt this routine once a week? The benefit? You cultivate a mindset open to the unexpected and start questioning your usual habits. It's a chance to meet new people, deepen your understanding of the country, and discover a more adventurous version of yourself!

Master the preparation of a typical local dish

Do you have a favorite local dish? Then, learn to make it yourself! Let's face it: sometimes what we miss most from home is the food, but it's also through cooking that we can fully embrace a new culture, heart and soul.

You'll likely find a local cooking workshop or be able to study a recipe online on your own. Keep trying, even if the sauce turns out too thick or the flavor isn't quite right. Whether a triumphant success or a "glorious semi-failure", this initial attempt will bring a deep sense of satisfaction. It's not just about preparing a dish; it's a significant step toward cultural integration.

Visit a less touristy region

You don't always have to visit the most famous attractions in the country where you reside. While these places are popular for a reason, they can sometimes disappoint, overwhelmed by crowds, long lines, and overexposure.

Instead, embrace the joy of surprise and discovery in less touristy areas, where experiences aren't pre-shaped by countless reviews or star ratings. While this approach may occasionally lead to setbacks, a bit of research can enhance the authenticity of your experience, making any minor inconveniences well worth it!

Consume locally

Shopping at pricey expat supermarkets can strain both your heart and your wallet. You may want to avoid them but find it hard to let go of familiar products from back home.

Challenge yourself to shop locally at least once a week: visit local supermarkets and markets, try local dishes for breakfast, and experiment with ingredients you can't even name. Yes, you'll encounter some surprises, and it's wise to have a local guide you initially. Embrace the idea that you're also likely to make delightful discoveries that can enrich your palate and diet.

Explore a “typical” talent

Engaging with an element of the local culture opens a window into the soul of your host country. Consider trying flamenco in Spain, calligraphy in China, or pasta making in Italy.

Who knows where this journey might lead? Perhaps to a new passion. Locally, you have the unparalleled opportunity to learn these arts from the most authentic and skilled practitioners. Why miss out on such an enriching experience?

Gain a volunteering experience 

Volunteering locally holds profound significance. We often believe we lack the time or the perfect skills, but volunteering addresses several challenges previously discussed: it pushes you out of your comfort zone, helps you meet new people, and encourages you to communicate in the local language.

Through volunteering, you encounter realities that are often unseen and gain a deeper understanding of the values and needs of your new surroundings. In essence, it offers a unique opportunity to grow both as an expatriate and a person.

Boost your health through local sports

Have you ever thought of playing baseball in Japan, cricket in an Indian park, or practicing tai-chi in a Chinese garden? Like volunteering or exploring a local talent, challenge yourself to blend cultural discovery, socialization, and physical well-being through sports.

You don't need to be an expert; the key is to dive in, stay curious, and embrace the experience enthusiastically. Over time, this sport could transform into more than just a physical activity—it could become a cherished ritual in your daily life.

Set up an intercultural workshop at work

Interculturalism is often discussed, but its practical aspects can seem elusive. Instead of bogging it down with abstract concepts and theories, why not establish a tangible exchange space at your workplace once a month?

This would be a social and thoughtful occasion: sharing a dish or traditions, anecdotes, and discussing specific work-related challenges. Such an exchange could foster a real bridge toward team cohesion, enriching everyone's understanding and appreciation of diverse backgrounds.