Networking, professionally and personally, is an art. To avoid missteps and expand your circle easily in New York, here are a few tips.
Things to do when in New York
Get out of your comfort zone
By definition, someone who lives in a foreign country has already left their comfort zone, but the work does not stop there if you want to immerse yourself in your new city fully. In a city like New York, there will be many movers and shakers, dynamic people with potentially intense personalities; it can be easy to feel intimidated or overwhelmed. At a party or a social event, do not hesitate to be outgoing and initiate conversations. New Yorkers are easygoing. They like sharing and will not judge you for grammar mistakes or for being shy.
Make a good impression
“You never get a second chance to make a first impression”, this American proverb brilliantly sums up the importance of looking good when meeting someone for the first time. This is true for romance and friendship, but even more so in the professional department. If you have an interview, particularly with a renowned New York company, it is essential to make a good impression. Be neat and polite, wear professional attire, and avoid jeans and sneakers.
Use social media
It is almost a reflex among New Yorkers to exchange Instagram handles with someone you have just met and with whom you think you can connect. This can seem superficial, but you will not regret it when you want (or need) to reconnect with the person. It takes a few seconds and allows people to stay in contact in the long term without exchanging numbers.
Things not to do when in New York
Surround yourself with people of the same nationality as you
In New York, there are numerous opportunities to meet people of different nationalities. Nonetheless, many foreigners make the mistake, whether driven by shyness or comfort, to surround themselves with people from their own countries. It is great to have a community of people you are at ease around, but this can prevent new, enriching encounters.
Do not consume alcohol in a professional setting
If you are participating in a networking event in New York or a social activity among colleagues, try to limit your drinking to one or two drinks. Do not fall into the trap of drinking a few glasses to feel more comfortable. When tipsy, you are less focused and uninhibited and can seem unprofessional. Americans tend to stay in control, particularly in a professional setting.
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