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7 years ago
zooish

about to marry a jordanian man... by zooish

hi, i am american, and i would love to hear womans opinion on weather or not it is a good idea to move from america to amman jordan. ive heard many diffrent things, good and bad. but if any one else is in this situation, please email me, would love ...

deb568

Type0neg, Zarqa is not like Amman, even now. Quite conservative. A grainy, industrial city. Just my opinion but it reminded me more of Detroit than California. Don't go out unless you cover, whatever your religion, and preferably not alone, day ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
7 years ago
zooish

about to marry a jordanian man... by zooish

hi, i am american, and i would love to hear womans opinion on weather or not it is a good idea to move from america to amman jordan. ive heard many diffrent things, good and bad. but if any one else is in this situation, please email me, would love ...

deb568

Independent woman, O...M...G....! So you and he are married and he doesn't want his family to know? Why? Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
7 years ago
JO/EU

Doubts - Is moving to Jordan something that you regret? by JO/EU

Was your move to Jordan a sure thing, or was it accompanied by doubts? How do you see it now, what makes you stay even when you would rather leave? Or has it become your home sweet home ?

deb568

Moqu, it isn't just abut the price of cigarettes in Australia. It's the relentless television campaign by the government, showing truly gruesome stuff like the gunk in the arteries, and the colour of the lungs of a smoker, i.e. after he/she ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
7 years ago
JO/EU

Doubts - Is moving to Jordan something that you regret? by JO/EU

Was your move to Jordan a sure thing, or was it accompanied by doubts? How do you see it now, what makes you stay even when you would rather leave? Or has it become your home sweet home ?

deb568

Hey Moqu, I get what you mean about the smoking. I've lived in Australia where hardly anyone smokes (only 18% of the adult population) and the hostility to smokers is palpable. To me that's a good thing. Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
7 years ago
akthar

crime in amman - how safe? by akthar

is there a no go area? anyone experienced any violence or burglary?

deb568

The default position in any society is the dominant race. If you're white and a woman, then there will be a significant number of Arab men, maybe even in your own family, let alone strangers on the street, who automatically regard you as a ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
7 years ago
JO/EU

Doubts - Is moving to Jordan something that you regret? by JO/EU

Was your move to Jordan a sure thing, or was it accompanied by doubts? How do you see it now, what makes you stay even when you would rather leave? Or has it become your home sweet home ?

deb568

To answer the question : Do I regret? With my ten years living here I can truly say that Jordan is indeed a gem in all its aspects but it's not perfect. Just like any other country. Everyone who knows me better on this forum and in my social ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
7 years ago
JO/EU

Doubts - Is moving to Jordan something that you regret? by JO/EU

Was your move to Jordan a sure thing, or was it accompanied by doubts? How do you see it now, what makes you stay even when you would rather leave? Or has it become your home sweet home ?

deb568

Ain't that the truth! Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
7 years ago
TheRobinsons

Moving to Edinburgh in late June with young teens..help!! by TheRobinsons

Hello good folks! Any advice or recommendations would be so helpful if anyone is reading this :) We are a family of 4 and my husband is being relocated to Edinburgh for work and we are excited for our new adventure. I'm trying to find a good ...

deb568

For arts, dance and the like, make sure you are in the catchment for Broughton High school. They have the National Dance centre. Their catchment is mostly Stockbridge, Comely Bank, the arty area. Be real careful about the catchment. ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
9 years ago
eddiew

Planning to return to Scotland (Edinburgh) by eddiew

Hi guys Just signed up and hoping to get some advice and chat to some friendly people here regarding my plans to move my family from Hong Kong to Edinburgh. First of all, I am Scottish. I am from Aberdeen and only left Scotland after Uni, and ...

deb568

The most important thing is schools, adn in particular high school catchment areas. The way Edinburgh works is there tends to be a very good high school next to a neighbouring not so good high school. So, for example, on the north side, Trinity and ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
10 years ago
zooish

about to marry a jordanian man... by zooish

hi, i am american, and i would love to hear womans opinion on weather or not it is a good idea to move from america to amman jordan. ive heard many diffrent things, good and bad. but if any one else is in this situation, please email me, would love ...

deb568

And by the way, culture and tradition was not the subject. Marrying an Arab/Jordanian was the subject. If a foreign woman is marrying a poor Jordanian she will have a difficult time. It's way too different and too difficult. In most ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
10 years ago
zooish

about to marry a jordanian man... by zooish

hi, i am american, and i would love to hear womans opinion on weather or not it is a good idea to move from america to amman jordan. ive heard many diffrent things, good and bad. but if any one else is in this situation, please email me, would love ...

deb568

Expat.com team, May i suggest blocking any further discussion on this topic. I have been receiving an endless number of threads on the topic over the past two years and everybody is speaking about the negative image of Jordanian men. Topic is now ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
10 years ago
JO/EU

Getting married by JO/EU

What should one consider before getting married in order to ensure a good marriage relationship in the best possible way?

deb568

One more thing, if planning to marry an Arab, plan to have sons, not daughters. They are great for their sons' self esteem but a disaster for their daughters' self esteem.How does one plan to have sons, not daughters? :whistle: Biggest ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
10 years ago
zooish

about to marry a jordanian man... by zooish

hi, i am american, and i would love to hear womans opinion on weather or not it is a good idea to move from america to amman jordan. ive heard many diffrent things, good and bad. but if any one else is in this situation, please email me, would love ...

deb568

it depend always on the women ,if she want to bring with her her western way of living and all its illusions and conflects and manupolations she had in the west then it well be hard for her,but any way it is not allowed for me here to write nice ... Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
10 years ago
JO/EU

Getting married by JO/EU

What should one consider before getting married in order to ensure a good marriage relationship in the best possible way?

deb568

One more thing, if planning to marry an Arab, plan to have sons, not daughters. They are great for their sons' self esteem but a disaster for their daughters' self esteem. Read More

deb568 replied to a thread
10 years ago
JO/EU

Getting married by JO/EU

What should one consider before getting married in order to ensure a good marriage relationship in the best possible way?

deb568

Love is important, to be sure, but I would also add having lots in common AND the desire to follow those common interests with each other. Plus similar ideas about the religion, if you are both muslim, helps. If you want to pray 5 times a day and he ... Read More