Another One Bites The Dust

Cherryann01 · 2022-12-31T16:02:13+01:00

I have been pondering whether to put this out there for sometime but I think now, being the end of the year and with the New year just round the corner, this is the appropriate time to do it. Firstly I would like to thank one member of this forum who I did reach out to via PM for his support and advise on the subject, it was much appreciated. Secondly, I do know that many of you are either living with your partners in the Philippines or have visited many times and have established trust between you so this post is meant for people in the early stages of a relationship or people like me who maybe could only visit occasionally. My Ex (now) tried to play a sick prank/scam on me using her sister to deliver the news. My Ex did loose money and was in debt, posted under LFC INVESTMENT SCHEME. Out of desperation I guess, she got her sister to message me and this is roughly how the whole thing happened. Sister - I have some bad news. Sister - It is very bad and sad news. Me - what sad news. Sister - Ga (my Ex) the depression beat her Me - What do you Mean. Sister - Sad and tragic news. Me - I will have died of old age before you tell me. Sister - Ga, may she rest in peace now. Me - What do you mean, what happened. Sister - She committed suicide. Obviously I was in complete shock, denial, sad and confused but I guess there was a part of me that simply did not believe what I was being told so I asked questions and probed and contacted other members of my Ex's family and even emailed my ex, obviously hoping it was not true. Maybe it was a suicide attempt that failed, maybe she was in hospital at that moment. I also felt guilty about my comment about being dead before the sister told me. This all happened on a Friday and messages were being exchanged between me and the sister for the next 3 days and also messages to other family members of my ex and friends. I was asking them if they had heard the news, if they could confirm it was true. But then came the one message from the sister that really set the alarm bells ringing. She simply said (There is a problem). I was thinking, yeh I bet there was. You aint got money for a coffin, for the service, for flowers, for a shin dig after, for transportation for people to attend the funeral, etc. I finally found out the truth on the Tuesday. My ex emailed me and guess what, still alive, claiming it was Fake News. Sure it was started by you. An exchange of emails followed, mostly with me telling her she was a sicko and that I never wanted to see or hear from her again. I messaged the sister to tell her that also. My ex blamed her sister and the sister said she was told to do it by my ex. I later found out from the sister that she was no longer communicating with her sister (MY EX) because she had asked her to do other things she was not happy with. I bet this has to do with the money she seems to have borrowed from family and friends back home and trying to cover for her. I myself felt bad because I had spread news of the suicide to other (innocent) family members and friends although I did message each of them to tell them the news was false and that I had been duped. My ex emailed me twice to wish me a Happy Christmas and yesterday to wish me a Happy New Year but I cannot go back, cannot forgive this. By my reckoning, there were only three possibilities when she started the process. Either I am dumb and pay money to the sister and the relationship is over, I pay up and sometime down the line my ex contacts me again with some sort of explanation why she suddenly rose from the grave or I do not pay. Either way she must have know spelled the end of our relationship. I chose wisely and did not pay but did look for the truth. Either way it is time for The Hammer to Fall on this relationship and maybe just maybe I will find Somebody to love. There are three titles from Queen songs in there to lighten the mood, one in the title and two near the end so if anybody wants to add more in their responses, that is fine by me. Bonus points available if you can get Fat Bottomed Girls in there haha

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kristopherryanwatson Philippines Advisor

Member since 14 November 2021

kristopherryanwatsonPhilippines Advisor11 January 2023 11:24:16

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@Cherryann01

You know of the sentiments I share of your Ex. she is a malicious leech, who i'm sure will meet her fate soon enough from how she has treated others and what she has at this point got away with. One of these days she'll cross someone she shouldn't have.

Focus on your new 'interest' and i am sure all the great things you deserve with this new woman will come to frution for a substantial, meaningful relationship.

Don't let one bad woman leave you with any judgement that all are like that. for every one less than desirable such as herself, there are 5 really fantastic woman waiting to be found and loved.

Cherryann01 ViP

Member since 19 October 2018

Cherryann01ViP12 January 2023 10:23:05

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FilAmericanMom said. . .
I don't think a DNA test would be necessary, especially if the timing of the birth (around 40 weeks) is right and the girl does not work in an industry involving multiple partners / short-term relationships.
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Sorry to disagree with you on this one.

A DNA test will save a lifetime of anxiety and solve any wonderment. Given the tactics this Filipina has used against Cherryann01in the past nothing would surprise me.

You're assuming a lot when you say if the timing is right and the girl does not work in an industry involving multiple partners / short term relationships.

Forget her Not being a working girl/or having multiple partners/ or short term relationships as she has proven to be a skeemer, totally untrustworthy and untruthful.

Yup she is a model of a virtuous citizen.
-@Enzyte Bob

Precisely. This ex of yours Cherryann is a real pro. Make no mistake. In fact it would not surprise me that both she and the biological (assuming he is) father have both been playing ‘away’. He’s probably got a ‘bit of stuff’ stashed away in each of the 80 Barangay’s that make up the city of CDO. God knows where his ‘pecker’ has ended up.

Given that you went ‘bareback’ with your ex I would suggest getting an STI test as well as the DNA test for your daughter.

Maybe there is a clinic there that has a special offer on given the January sales: you know a two for the price of one deal?
-@Lotus Eater

Boots may do 2 for one, they do 3 for 2 at Christmas on selected gifts haha but I will not be doing the DNA Test. The STI Test may be sensible though. Maybe I just get a free cup of tea with the one though. I do have a loyalty card with Boots though so maybe I could use the points to buy a pack of condoms.

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