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Xin chao, can I have a chance to make friend with you?

Last activity 09 March 2012 by VidoDido

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Tycoi

Hi, I'm a new member. I sincerely want to make friends with you all.

Yesterday was woman day, and I found out that ... being alone is not happy anymore. I used to spend much time for working, studying, traveling, chatting, coffee ... and I enjoyed so much. But now, when I look back, i even haven't found my partner who will be by my side for every journey I join.

Can anyone share your experience, idea how you make friends with other and how you promote it to further step?

Cheers,

someoneilike

Happy belated International Women's Day to you Tycoi

VidoDido

Hello Tycoi and Welcome to the forum :)

As true good Friends are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to Forget; Making them nowadays is not an easy task and always require a lot of time if you are selective and looking for a real friend.

In my opinion, to make friends you need to socialize, go out, have a nice smile on your face when people are talking to you and be friendly as much as you can.

Friendships are like flowers, they grow with time and can stem into something very beautiful; If you don't take care of them they will wilt away; therefore to take any friendship to further steps, you need to be up for help when required, you have to be all ears when your friend wants to talk and you have to be the one your friend turn to when his/her spirit needs a lift.

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true Friends leave footprints in your heart; so take your time and enjoy making new friends :)

Regards,

Tycoi

someoneilike wrote:

Happy belated International Women's Day to you Tycoi


Many thanks, someoneilike
Have a nice weekend

Tycoi

VidoDido wrote:

Hello Tycoi and Welcome to the forum :)

As true good Friends are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to Forget; Making them nowadays is not an easy task and always require a lot of time if you are selective and looking for a real friend.

...

Friendships are like flowers, they grow with time and can stem into something very beautiful; If you don't take care of them they will wilt away; therefore to take any friendship to further steps, you need to be up for help when required, you have to be all ears when your friend wants to talk and you have to be the one your friend turn to when his/her spirit needs a lift.


I totally agree with you, it's a very nice comparison about friendship. I love it. Actually, I have some close friends (both guys and gals), who understand me, encourage me, and help me whenever I wish for, and vice versa. We spend and enjoy much time together. I can share with them many things, of course, not like only 1 story to tell to everybody.

I am such a happy girl to have such good friends like that. But you know, at the end of the day, as a girl, i will find and marriage to a man. That's my real problem. I can't find any chance to meet so many people while the majority of my company is female. I find it hard to express my feelings, can't say what i wanna do...

Anw, many thanks for take time to read my post. I will try to do like what you said... I really appreciate your comment, whereas we have never known each other before. ^^

VidoDido

Hi Tycoi ... Thanks for you response :)

Stay happy as you are and someday with no doubt you will meet your soulmate who can make you happier.

As there are associations like doctors without borders, reporters without borders, teachers without borders, I'm sure that friendship also can be without borders ... so don't hesitate to keep looking for friends from all over the world where you can be free to talk, share ideas and life experience.

Enjoy your life to the maximum you can ;)

Regards,

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