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gringosuperstar

I lived in Spain for 8 years and I don't know any man who did this...strange eh!...

Moh'd Sam

women do that more than men, but it's normal.

syedkamran84

Yes i wouldn't mind infact I am ready bcoz I don't like my home country.

mestel

yup.its cool.my boyfriend is a chinese.but now moved to ghana with me.

Line Luna

mhm, i actually had a man move to my country once. It didn't work out in the end, because he couldn't get used to germany. i always wondered if it would have been different, if i would have been the one to move. But well, i will never know. Also i guess that's maybe not a problem of men in general, but really depends on the person?!

maihien1972

You seemed be right. The woman can leave their home country  even she has to give up her advantages   for the man she loves, but seldom man can do it for the woman. He may move out his country for another reasons that maybe for the advantages of himself only :)

stumpy

maihien1972 wrote:

You seemed be right. The woman can leave their home country  even she has to give up her advantages   for the man she loves, but seldom man can do it for the woman. He may move out his country for another reasons that maybe for the advantages of himself only :)


I disagree. I have many friends who have settled in the country that their wife is from and not the other way around. Some are looking into getting citizenship of that country, others have long term visas to stay and all of them have children born there.
So where is the advantage for them as you stated in the last sentence of your post. ??

aryavrat

syedkamran84 wrote:

Yes i wouldn't mind infact I am ready bcoz I don't like my home country.


If someone hate his or her own country cannot be loyal or lovable to any other country...because he/she is basically a oppurtunist.....if you leave though you love that woman is a genuine reason but just for country ....it shows the "hate" boiling in you and this hateredness will not allow you to love someone or some country....

maihien1972

Hi Stumpy,

It will be very interesting topic for discussion :). Of course people are not the same  and we just raised our own opinion and talked about what we have seen in practical life..

i have very good friend, she has foreigner boyfriend who is living  in Europe , their love was so beautiful and they planned about their future life together in Vietnam as they thought there are so many good reason to do so....  he started looking for a job in VN but after few months , it seemed be not easy to find a good job as he got in Europe , additionally because of his children and he changed his mind and his heart too...and he decided to give up the relationship even he thought that was his true love  and suggested to my friend just  stay as friends.... It made my friend down and broken her heart really...

With some other experience i have been seeing in this life,  I realized that only woman loves with all of her heart and can do anything for the one  she loves.  Love is just a part of man life,  His career and children are more important than the woman he loves  . That what i think ...Maybe i am wrong

:)

aryavrat

With some other experience i have been seeing in this life,  I realized that only woman loves with all of her heart and can do anything for the one  she loves.  Love is just a part of man life,  His career and children are more important than the woman he loves  . That what i think ...Maybe i am wrong

Hi Maihien,

No you are not 100% percent wrong but in wider terms it is visible and the reason behind this is from childhood itself we grow a boy to adopt this and finally he feels giving good life and luxury to family wife and children is love...

Regards,
Anil

John C.

Everybody leaves everybody, including countries, jobs, careers.  :)

aryavrat

One has to leave oneself  the day he/she knows the ALMIGHTY.

cinakuih

I got a friend from uk who move to Australia for her girlfriend. They are married now and look like everything is going well..

stumpy

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

Is there a man in that equation?


The mind boggles.... :o

venursky

[Moderated: no post about religion here pls]

aryavrat

venursky wrote:

[Moderated: no post about religion here pls]


No religion and no politics also...but saying almighty or god is not harm....

aryavrat

Oh really!!!!!!!!!!!!

venursky

yes if he fall in love

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