american girl to marry saudi amd move to riyadh

ouch!

Bravo, Stretch! 


Personally I was too lazy for a lengthy, intelligent reply to this guy--so I resorted to short and sarcastic lol

Talwar - I would have welcomed you to the forum, but WOW!

Unfortunately, you would never make it in the west, or any other developed country for that matter.  Do stay in the ME for your safety! 

This kind of stereotype thinking emanates from a very poor understanding of peoples, cultures, rights, and generl ways of life around the planet. Its quite common in the third world where education levels are not what they aught to be, sadly, and whatever there is is tainted with similar stereotyped thinking. Its got to change if India wants to be a superpower, that is...

Musicman - It makes me sad to know there are people who think like this in 2010!   

can anyone cut short and tell me in brief wat the talks are abt? dont have time to read that all...CAF, you might know, i m really busy with work! I work a LOT!!!!!!

You gotta read that guy's post (it's priceless!) and Stretch's reply, shababy.  No short cuts! No Cliff's Notes

Jeez, Talwar. Are you for real? I'm at a loss for words at what you wrote, so all I can say is - yeah, what Stretch said!

Talwar,  Wow, I actually thought you were kidding and really pulling it off well, until all your anger showed.

I can only echo what Stretch said so intelligently, & what Allie said so succinctly. 
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Listening to you is like going in a time machine, back to the 8th century. Very "enlightening" except the opinions  are from the dark ages. So I guess I mean it's "informative".  [b]Sad, scary, infuriating, shocking, archaic, chauvanistic, but informative. 

Dear saynotoriyadh,

Your post made me cry. I'm sending you prayers and peace.

Shababy - Stop telling stories!  I know your boss!  lol:lol:

People who keep complaining that they do not have time for this and that, in my view, are exremely poor at Time management...

They wither have taken up more than they can hcew or they simply cant manage time...

period!

CAF wrote:

Shababy - Stop telling stories!  I know your boss!  lol:lol:

not stories...that was the message to be delivered to the one u know he he he

Alliecat wrote:

You gotta read that guy's post (it's priceless!) and Stretch's reply, shababy.  No short cuts! No Cliff's Notes

arghhh....i so wanna read it but really busy with work!

Wait, so what happened to amyasb? Did she go thru with the marriage?

belishabeacon wrote:

Wait, so what happened to amyasb? Did she go thru with the marriage?

lol...sounds like a story

we will never know until she gets permission to come online ad say so, herself, i guess?

As salmoalikum,

hope ur taking care of ur self!

just to understand that why you cant thinking about other nationalities and individuals ..am not directing U" tomwards me:)
but still u have any consireditions> keep in touch..

Sincerely,
Moh
KSA

y? she is in love...and love doesnt see any borders

i think you should go for it,
it is going to be hard but nothing comes easy in life, does it?

just do it if u want him

Everyone wants everything. Not everything you want is good for you. Its not a case of what one wants. Its simply a case of what is good for you.

Make the choice of whats beneficial to you.

"Just do it" might apply when deciding what restaurant to go to or what dress to wear.  But when it comes to MARRIAGE?

musicman wrote:

Everyone wants everything. Not everything you want is good for you. Its not a case of what one wants. Its simply a case of what is good for you.

Make the choice of whats beneficial to you.

I agree with mm... esp. when a bad choice can have such resounding consequences as this one can.

Allie,

you know "she" is reading this forum.. what are you trying to do ?

And how would I know that, habibi?

Well, whats the point in posting if she aint gonna see it?

Perhaps to influence someone else who is facing the same dilemma. 

I am pretty sure that the OP gave up reading this thread soon after it was created.

MisterStretch wrote:

Perhaps to influence someone else who is facing the same dilemma. 

I am pretty sure that the OP gave up reading this thread soon after it was created.

I totally agree, MS.  I'd like to see this thread die, myself.

yes, i am the op, and i do read it:)

hello, this is amyasb, i did not go through with the marriage....not yet.

lol. welcome back amy.

but allie, i meant the other she. lol

gr8 to see you still around amyasb. make the right choice based on your need, not the way the wind blows.

thx salman;)

try to get to know his backgrownd better like his family and their thinking. coz a man always do what he learn from his parents, specialy when making his own family.

i have decided not to marry him.  when he told his family he wanted to marry an american girl, they said no.  as an independent american woman, i cannot accept a man that is a puppet of his family.  i have appreciated all of the posted replies.  all of you had excellent perspectives:)

Best of luck with your future. may it be a bright one.

I like the DRAMA in this tread,

simply, Managing both sides expectations is the key to live happily wherever and whoever you are marrying!

HI
how are you, i hope you are doing  well, any way this omar from riyadh working and living here ,I am from jordan i will explain every thing for about Saudi if you want call me on my nu 00966590048343

isnt that a bit late?? if she has already married, she might have a small saudi son by now so she can explain u better

and by the way, Expat.com is everything ... but not a dating website !

shahab.ali wrote:

isnt that a bit late?? if she has already married, she might have a small saudi son by now so she can explain u better

hheheehhhee