Stuck in female only compound!

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

Yobhtron wrote:

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

I go out all the time by myself (don't believe in having to travel in a herd ).  Of course you need to be smart; for example, I'd never go to Batha at night by myself but I have many times during the day with absolutely no problem.

People (not just women) need to take the same precautions as they would in any other country.

Hi Kat,

I've been here for 4 months and I must disagree strongly with some of the posts above, firstly I have found the ex pat community extremely generous, with their time, assistance on anything you want help on, and even in more material ways and the people I have met both in person and through various forums have never wanted anything in return and didnt care a hoot about my status. I couldn't find compound accomodation due ot the long waiting lists so I ended up in a private rental apartment, nice but a but isolated, nevertheless hardle a weekend passes without an invite to some function or other, whether it be a get together in a compound, or just freinds getting together.  You should try Internations as well if you haven't already, more groups and people keen to offer help and advice.  from using the forums I have found a good dentist, a Golfing group who I now play with regularly and a couple of guyd I play pool with regularly and that leads to other stuff.  Also be aware that it is not all straightforward for the guys either, many of hte best restaurants are family only so my colleague and I are often getting turned away from those, well we just don't try any more. Consequently from time to time we will hook up with some single female friends and eat out we provide the transport and they provide the pleasant company and door pass.  I'm sure there are loads of blokes in a similar position who expect nothing in return other than a bit of company for a nice night out. Good luck with your quest I am sure if you use the forums carefully you will soon start to improve your social life. By the way what are you doing two weeks today

Yobhtron wrote:

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

Can you specify why?

doubt it

Alliecat wrote:

Yobhtron wrote:

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

I go out all the time by myself

Yobhtron's piece of advice couldn't be more wiser especially towards female expats,
You Allie who are so far away from home brags about walking around by yourself TAKING CHANCES in
a foreign country, do you HAVE to learn it by the hard way?
Generally criminals "love" expats, why? Because they believe that expats are an easy target.
these traumatized female expats  tell us their story ...[sensored]

Which Witch wrote:

Yobhtron wrote:

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

Can you specify why?

kindly read this shocking stories of  expats women

Hericles wrote:

Which Witch wrote:

Yobhtron wrote:

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

Can you specify why?

kindly read this shocking stories of  expats women

I think this forum is about Saudi, not about Korea. I feel in Jeddah much safer than in any other big city I've been worldwide. Than male in Las Vegas for example: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article … s-Eve.html

this guy should have the punishment over there and if they don't punish him with a death penalty they should just send him here and he will get it the right way and thats scary  example of bad things happened  in the world we should just be aware of those bad ppl

Hericles wrote:

Alliecat wrote:

Yobhtron wrote:

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

I go out all the time by myself

Yobhtron's piece of advice couldn't be more wiser especially towards female expats,
You Allie who are so far away from home brags about walking around by yourself TAKING CHANCES in
a foreign country, do you HAVE to learn it by the hard way?
Generally criminals "love" expats, why? Because they believe that expats are an easy target.
these traumatized female expats  tell us their story ...[sensored]

Oh stop it.  There are isolated stories from all over the world and what?  I'm supposed to allow it to make me a PRISONER?  This is something I refuse to be.  I've been in most major cities in the world and you need to use common sense (as I said in my original statement) rather than to think, Boo hoo,  I can't go anywhere because I don't have ten people to accompany me!

Careful there, Hericles--you're gonna become known as a fear-monger

Besides, you've never even been to Saudia, have you?  I would say it's definitely one of the safer countries around, all things considered.

You want to know something really ugly that happened recently?  Have you been following the case of the 23 year old female student from New Delhi?  Now THAT was horrible and she was NOT an expat AND she was accompanied by a male friend.

Saudi Arabia is one of the safest country

Hi Kat - I really empathise. I'm having the same problem in Riyadh. I'm hoping to visit Jeddah when I get my Iqama. Perhaps we can have a cuppa when I visit.

Best wishes

Vicky

Yobhtron wrote:

I don't recommend a female to go out alone in KSA. Go out in groups.

When comparing KSA and USA news I would not recommend a male or female to go to any school in USA. Even in groups.

Kat2404 wrote:

Hi everyone,
Living in a female only compound makes it very hard to socialise out of work as everyone at the compound works in the same place. so just wondered if anyone was having any gatherings whether they could let me know so me and my friends can escape and meet new people
thank you

Pitch in some money, book a villa at one of those beach resorts such as Nakhil village, advertise the plan here, and get your people to go. Mixed groups are allowed at those resorts, and there are plenty of things to do. Since it won't be cheap to go there, only people with motivation and the money would agree to the plan. That'll be your filter to pick the right people. Once there, make as many friends as possible, and stay that way.

I also give career advice

Hi from a SA expat. In a way you are lucky to have people around you, but it can be claustrophobic. I am also looking for some entertainment in Jeddah. Been here 4 years and live alone in an Arab district. I live alone and always have work to do, but need to get out before I go crazy here. Keep in touch and we can arrange an evening out or a trip to N Jeddah where things are more laid back. Hang in there.

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It must be really hard for you girls here in Saudi in your female only compounds etc.  Madness isn't it.

Well... Did you find any fun places to chill???

Where the f*#@ are all the pubs???  (he he)

Sure you there is many places you can enjoy your time. every week ends. I hope if you accept me as afreind. may we can go around. see you byeeee

Sayed Shehata wrote:

Sure you there is many places you can enjoy your time. every week ends. I hope if you accept me as afreind. may we can go around. see you byeeee

That's very generous of you!

Lets all stop moaning and get a weekend planned !

I am ready, willing and able. All of you who want to join send a message. I have a place in North Jeddah which is like a Med resort. Women can wear bikinis etc. I want to break free.

PS who can give me any info on the Hashers in Jeddah?

Alliecat wrote:

Sayed Shehata wrote:

Sure you there is many places you can enjoy your time. every week ends. I hope if you accept me as afreind. may we can go around. see you byeeee

That's very generous of you!
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you always amused me with less words more meanings .

Hi everyone,

Hi there,

Welcome. I am also new to the site.

Richard

Most interesting comment was about the unfortunate seemingly universal married women's fear that meeting up with new girlfriends ,single or married- could lead to their habibis strayimg away...I've been an expat living all over for years.... That's the way it is sometimes, but eventually you meet good folks- regardless of money, power, influence.... Honestly, we've all chosen to work and live in the KSA for a plethora of reasons. We all are 'stuck' in certain work communities depending on what sector we are in... i agree, a change of groups at least after work os refreshing for the mind and soul! observe, adapt and conquer. I'm away travelling but perseverance on this forum  will certainly form a cool GURLZ meet up north end corniche w awesome views. We all need social interaction, im open to as many friendly peeps to keep my spirit positive and full of life. Plus, I love gerring out and about. i ramble so much and talk about everything under the sun...Keep in touch ladies... you copy Allie and others!? Keep the faith and always look ahead.

Hi Members

I feel we are all tugging on the same rope, but in different directions. I live in an Arab district and my landlord is a great guy. He has contacts to a resort in Far north Jeddah and assures me it is a great place. No hassles, westernized et al. The spring break is upon us and I will be travelling a bit, but on return would love to meet some expats. Villa with ladies sharing and men in a separate section. Nothing kinky, just time to relax, chat and get to know each other. If anything happens .... such is life. We are all mature people working our butts off and neglecting our personal lives. Well that's the way I see it?  I would like to hear from genuine people who have the cash, willingness and anticipation to meet others. Discretion assured. Peace be upon you!

1st weekend that i was in Jeddah, i got invited to a "battle of the bands", 5 rock bands, food and homemade drink, all for 100 Riyals. They were the fun days
As for the idea that women shouldn't shop/travel alone, I have no problems with my wife going shopping alone, or traveling alone, Jeddah is an extremely safe city.

sean

Hi All. Back from India with a broken foot!! Caught in a motorcycle chain. I wasn't driving LOL. I am sooooooooo bored! Lets set up a weekend group where we can go (I will hobble a bit!) I have access to a great resort for those interested. I have asked before but got such a luke warm reply. Come on!! Let's do something! I live outside a compound and would love to be invited to some of your functions. From what I hear through friends, Riyadh has a very active social scene. What's happening here? Maybe I am asleep? Thanks all.

If you are in Jeddah you can do what you need to do and be relax and happy Jeddha open city but open your mind

go ahead and do what u want it is ok

There are circuits with low profiles due to restriction Every one is there but no one wants to mention here

I am new in Jeddah but gotta info...oldies may active

I am not yet in Riyadh (coming soon - as from summer), so sorry for the question, but are there compounds with both single males and females ?

Hello
How are you
I recently moved to jeddah i used to work in canada in montreal. I am a senior project manager for construction projects lead by governments here.
I am looking to meet a nice girl here in order to socialize enjoy the sunny beach in saudi
Hope to hear from you soon

best

hey where you from??  are you in Jeddah??

selc wrote:

They should put a warning at entrance of Jeddah: "be careful here is Jeddah, you cant enjoy here. Only u should sleep, work, eat and drive car with many accidents "

Mate if you complaining abt Jeddah, you've got to come to Riyadh to see how bad things are here...!!

blue indigo wrote:

I am not yet in Riyadh (coming soon - as from summer), so sorry for the question, but are there compounds with both single males and females ?

Yes.. those are called Western compounds!  Also, the DQ is mixed.

sh3hryar wrote:

selc wrote:

They should put a warning at entrance of Jeddah: "be careful here is Jeddah, you cant enjoy here. Only u should sleep, work, eat and drive car with many accidents "

Mate if you complaining abt Jeddah, you've got to come to Riyadh to see how bad things are here...!!

True, but we've got it a lot better than smaller towns like Yanbu or Qassim!  No matter how bad it is, you can always find a place that's worse

Hey guys..just like kat,im stuck in a female compound..sounds like kat and i are in the same compound! Lol cos all i see is colleagues colleagues and more colleagues! Would love to meet people outside work..

I see you are in Jeddah.

Go hang out in my old neightbourhood..Rouwais District. You will meet plenty of expats from the consulates and other businesses. Explore the area well, as you will find shops and places to eat that cater for expats. There are also some good female gyms...The Zone.
Any food you can think of, is in one of the local shops.

Also the consulates have great evenings..try the Italian consulate..they are famous for their movie/buffet nights, where you can meet many expats. If you still don't have any luck, flick me an email and I will give you some contacts.

Thank you very much for the insights suzan..appreciate it alot..xx

Which country are you from? There is a very active social life in jeddah, but its nationality based, and unfortunately a lot of it wont be posted on an open forum like this.

sean