How to get Married in the Dominican Republic
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@DominicanadaMike I have actually used my original wedding certificate for my wifes immigration. It has one stamp and the US State Department found it fully legal so i dont know of these multiple stamps you refer to.
This thread is old, but it's certainly still relevant today. I will definitely seek legal counsel in the DR and the US on this, but I wanted to see if anyone here has personal knowledge or experience with this.
I'm in a relationship that will likely lead to marriage. After reading through everyone's comments here, I am now concerned for my military pension in the event of a divorce. I am retired US Air Force. This pension is deposited into a US bank account. As I understand it, if we divorce, he will gain access to or have control of my pension even if we have a prenup and with the money being in a US account. We can do a prenup, but it seems a DR court can overrule that. This is the part that has me worried.
So, how do I protect my military pension? Anyone have personal experience with this or something similar? I need to speak with some attorneys here and get the hard facts, so if you have recommendations for good marriage/divorce attorneys, please let me know. Also, you can PM me if you don't want to discuss personal matters in public.
And please come back and tell us what you find out.
As I understand it Dominican law is territorial and has no say in overseas assets or income. I absolutely could be wrong so this is interesting to me.
@SandyS_retired
Greetings Sandy - I too am a retired Air Force & Army pers - Canadian - that married a lady here in Moca. We did a civil ceremony in Mar 2018 as I was led to believe it would be an asset in my quest for Temporary Residency which it had no effect at all. In Aug 2018 we had a church wedding with my siblings & spouses plus about 100 of my wifes family & friends at the reception. I did not check legalities prior to getting married but have since learned, from my "Godfather needed for the church wedding who is a lawyer, as Planner stated, the Dominican law cannot touch foreign income such as pensions. From my end, the only way my Dominican wife can access any benefits from my pension is if I coord with my Veterans Affairs. I'm sure that operates much the same for you as well. After 5 years, she can receive a Survivors Benefit that I'll be arranging when I return in a couple of months as we await my wifes Permanent Resident application for Canada. The house we are building in Moca will be hers and there are only a few things that will be kept to pass on to my children after I'm gone. My share of the property can potentially be deeded to someone other than my wife such as my children but I plan on keeping things simple and my wifes daughter has agreed to see that my list of items - mainly military items such as pictures. medals etc are given to my kids. No problem, no worries!!! Best of luck to you!!!
@mocaman67 thank you for that response. I'm feeling better about this but would still like to speak with a marriage/divorce attorney, just to make sure that is 100% accurate today.
If anyone can suggest an attorney/lawyer, please do.
Thanks!
@planner
Hello, do both parties have to do the Sworn declaration (statement of being single and able to marry)? Also, can I do mine in DR instead of u.s.?
@planner
For the birth cert. and the divorce decree, do I get it translated then apostilled; not get the original apostilled?? Because I was going to get paperwork ready today and get that part out of the way. I was going to send the originals in to be apostilled. I'm not yet sure where to get it translated however. Do they need both the original and the translated one? Both apostilled or just translated one?
I am sorry honey I am not a lawyer and cannot walk you through this process!
An apostille is to legalize a translated document. The original is already a legal document. They need the translated legalized document because they cant read the original legal document.
And I bet you can you use an online translater like google docs, It will not change the layout of the document, only the text so it still looks official.
Some places do not accept online translations. Most require an officially authorized translation!
So you need an official translator registered by court or another legal institution and the translated documents must be stamped or accompanied by a document as prove the translator is official. Just getting the facts clear.
dismiss my previous post.
@Papito NL
Hi. Thank you. I know this part, but wanted to know do I apostille then translate, or translate then apostille?
And the other question about declaration of being single. Can I do do that in DR? Or must I do it in u.s.? Do we both need to do it.
Apostilles are done in the language of the country issuing the document and providing the apostille. Only original items can be apostilled.
Also remember that your birth certificate and divorce decree must be apostilled by the state issuing those documents.
@Shestheone
Every document in English will need to translated by an approved or certified source just as needed for Residency paperwork.
Yes, but translate 1st or apostille first? Please.
I had mibe translated & then stamped by a lawyer. Of course this was all done at home in Alberta. Official translation here if that is what you plan/want might be clarified by Lushali, the Immgration lawyer you may know or have heard of...
Apostille first - because if that can't be done, there is no need for a translation.
Thank you. My gf is being told that the 2 witnesses that cannot be related has to be 1 man and 1 woman??? Would that be accurate??? Can't be 2 women?? I didn't see this anywhere prior when I was reading up on the process.
Mine were 2 women
@bryankieronlynch
Thank you. How long ago was that, if you don't mind?
Apil 5th 2022
@bryankieronlynch
Definitely close enough! Thank you!
Does anyone know how (while waiting for this marriage then request spouse path I'm taking) how my partner can come to the u.s. to visit me in the meantime, since the process is long? She just got a passport or renewed it, does not have any kind of visa currently. Is there no process we she can do that will allow her to come visit soon enough?? Or is every single darn thing a long process when it comes to anyone coming this way?? While it's good we can go to other countries easier, it's not so fair, really, for the other way around.
Any way you look at it, it's a long long process!
You can come here or you can meet up in several countries. That's it
Thank you, that's good advice, a good idea. The only thing is of course being in the DR, my partner does not make nearly enough money at all to do such traveling especially since after reading your post I checked the countries that are between the US and the Dominican Republic and also looked at the countries that allow them to travel with just a passport and of course the two don't coincide. So I guess I'll be the only one traveling, looks like it is what it is. But thank you for the information.
I am sorry the system sucks. Sadly it's due to past behaviors.
@Shestheone It is not possible. You just have to wait for the process. If you are lucky it will be 15 months. I am just completing this process now. It is long. If you love them it is worth the wait.
@bryankieronlynch
So sad that you had to wait so long. Is t it crazy...? How did strangers ever gain so much co lntrol over our lives? Tell us when we can be married, divorced, if we can move, when we can live together, etc. etc.
I'm happy you made it through and are either finished or on the next step now. Congrats! And thanks for giving the time frame.
What is the best suggestion when I make my trip, for currency...to maximize my return and lessen the expense; exchange inside airport, use an atm somewhere (any suggested reputable ones), do the exchange somewhere else I am unaware of, or do it here at home it is possible, which I think I have seen recently in passing...?
IT is no consulation but it takes about as long in Canada. Our attempt for a "Visitor" Visa was denied in 2019. We are waiting for Permanent Resident status & have a visitor visa application at the Cdn embassy that processes those. All very frustrating & time consuming. Kinda like getting used to extended DR lifestyle...
@WillieWeb
Why Willie? The cost/fee of the exchange? Which would be my only and obvious guess. Any other reason.
Use your American card at an ATM and you get the best exchange rate. But make sure you understand if your bank charges fees! Otherwise western union is always competitive.
The airport offers crappy exchange rates
Lately I've been sending US dollars online and receiving US dollars through REMITLY at Caribe Express. I pay the online fee and receive the money in US dollars then exchange to pesos to get more. When I send US and receive directly in pesos they give a lot lower exchange rate than what Caribe Express is offering to walk-in customers. The only issue I have is I have to send it in someone with a Dominican ID because online they ask for the City and Province on the person's ID and I don't have a Dominican ID. I might be able to get away with using my US passport with my US address as long as I have the reference # with my name but I haven't chanced it yet.
@drlover1962
Caribe express closes at like 2pm though doesn't it? I sent money twice there and that's what I was told. The money was ready but it couldn't be picked up.until the next morning. Sound about right??
Using your method, how much are you saving or gaining, etc.? I like the cleverness btw;)
@planner
Just came across worldnomads website and they mention only atms inside banks shopping malls. Amd for exchanging money, your hotel, reputable money changer in a shopping mall or bank. Any objections to any of those? And u.s. dept of state says to not use your card at all...?
Wow such bad information out there.
Your hotel will offer you crappy exchange rates just like the airport.
Generally use ATM wherever you feel safe. Meaning don't go to isolated spots at night.
There are money exchange companies all over. Good grief in some parts of the country there are no shopping malls!
ATM's inside a bank are usually safe places.
US state dept would rather you carry wads of cash????
Let's get back on topic. This thread is about getting married.
@Shestheone I am just waiting on her embassy interview in 2 weeks. In my wildest dreams in never though the difficulty level would be this high or expensive.
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