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yassmin

if you return to the past will you marry the same woman or will you marry the same guy?

Saluda

I think you will find that your first choice is the right choice

Mechc

will like to see the options as life is full of choices and you have to be very clear what you want..

Saluda

I agree that life is full of choices. Some are very easy to make and others are very difficult. It is always wise to remember, and we often forget, that all choices come with consequences.

Albert Alsina

Probably yes, provided that somebody delete your memories before.

Tommy74

well we don't make choices, its fate.
I think everybody or most of you would say, I wish I have married someone else :) human nature.

devrim.sahin

Don't make a mistake twice. Take lessons from your mistakes.

J E H A D

It depends upon the nature of the person who I was with...If he was really a good person,Maybe I would.

Anarchist _E

NO

Guest34

well for me i like to change...so yes i will change a little bit...why not!! :)
i didnt see all the girls around the world...my choice was the best when i was selecting the choice...but now with all experiences that i got...mybe my choice will be different...

cheers,

legacy

what if the person you wanted to be with left you for someone else, and then down the line, a few years later, come back to you and say they still have feelings for you?

that is my dilemma

Fatimka

No .....

Yud

Fatimka wrote:

No .....


:/

teefa2011

why not to ask my self that question & try th get the answer it is very important to get it

olawole

No I will not like to marry the former In will like to go for something new........And not old face...

Guest34

definitely i would rethink it again and again until i come to a state of no marriage..

Demetres

sometimes yes and sometimes no, the life is so sort to wait!!

Guest34

i have though about it again. and probably i will put a condition for the marriage to be temporary until we get to know each other much better. then it will be easy to determine whether you will stay with this partner forever or just temporarily!!

lezah20

maybe yes and maybe no.

If my spouse happens to be a bad man/woman then maybe, I would  chose to marry another person in my pastlife.

But if the person I marry is a good person and that I really love him so then I would still do everything in my past life just to have that person again.,

digilar3

Agree with Mr. Albert Alsina's message...

Guest34

if only i can turn back the time.... i guess that explains everything

People make mistakes all the time unfortunately with partners its unreparable once broken

philipsteele

Its depends on that situation...

vallden

No...!!

rcmedina

Well I'm still single...
But If I will be be give a chance to turn back the time I will delete all the errors in my past and start a brand new life :)

marwikiv

You can never turn back time. But be sure to learn from your mistakes and try to never repeat it. Be brave to faces the consequences in life.

history1930

Relationships and a return to the past!   

ohh god ! very hard these days -in many countries  many are to ''paper money'' orientated and marriage crazy  ! they are two things best forgotton, it clouds the whole issue !

We need to turn the clock back about 30 years to a time where  nobody gave a s--t about asetts/ monies etc as a draw card to a person - they really did not care if the favourite person had 10 letters behind the name and 400k in the bank, or they worked for the local council on the dump truck and had never seen $300 in life he/ she loved each other just the same !

They were the ''real realionships '' anything else was false  - sad but true eh!

When we arrive back to those times, we will all be a lot better off ! i can't stand a woman looks at a man via his wallet! 

But sadly i think its about 7 from 10 that do that these days !
I went to 32 countries with my work in last 12/ 14 years  and at least 27 of those countries (I'D NEVER GO BACK TO THEM - I'M TO HONEST ''I DONT FIT YOU KNOW ''I'M A SQUARE PEG IN A ROUND HOLE LOL)
Every second word a woman spoke was ''money ''  sad eh !
In relationships -we really have lost the thread!! its all getting very very very shallow !

mobius1

The more learn from life, the better are your choices,,, If I went back in time with the same brains I have today, I will fight again and again for my first love...

hi2hello

Well it depend on the issue...But Yu can solve it so that very will fine only if you love the partner so much.

boueburn

It depends on the situation. What if the one you love was reborn  in the body of an animal or a girl?:lol: kidding aside, it depends.

Rashid7860

I wish that I would return to the past but it will not happened.

Solly

For me at the end of the day, it is all about fate

Rachel555

Hello,
It's a very good question !
At the time no, because I changed
Regards
Rachel

Indraneel 86

no...i wouldnt :)

yeah some feelings neva die,

but when i move on, i really move on.

gh_inx

but your experience helped to reveal WHO your true love really was, right?  I don't believe in too late wondering what you mean by that here.

LeeShane wrote:

Everyone once in a while women, such as myself actually choose the the guy next door over the flawless stone; what I thought I was doing was being true to myself by being with someone who shared similar experiences as me and was more like me; I only found out to late that my best friend and were more compatible than my ex and I could have even been.

gh_inx

It all depends on who you are and who they are when you return to the past.  Every person is shaped by the sum of their experiences, so if I return WITH my experiences that I have not shared with her then probably no, since we need to grow together.

But fate has a way of working these things out.

Guest34

Well We Fall in LOVE only Once in a Life and if i fell in Love with Some 1 She will be my choice for ever till Eternity. May be some of you dont agree with me that we fall in love only once in a life but i think if u can't differentiate between LOVE and LUST you should stay out of it. Love is for 1.............rest all is Lust or may be if we are lucky we get love but 2nd tym is just a compromise with life.

mero928

rcmedina wrote:

Well I'm still single...
But If I will be be give a chance to turn back the time I will delete all the errors in my past and start a brand new life :)


We all want this rcmedina but without errors ,no experience :)
Experience is the number of all errors we r doing in our life :)
so the more u try ,th more experience u get.

mero928

in my opinion, Im still single but I think that's why we have the idea of Divorcing. if u see that life together is impossible.

In other cases, I saw many couples they will die after their partner .it looks like they r created to each other , they cant be apart in spite all problems and obstacles.

Life has many to see, plz if u see then Share  :)

zeexpat

Id prefer looking to the past only to learn. the future holds much more than to repeat.

catpaws

what's all this rubbish about fate? What a cop-out! You make your bed and you lie in it or you get out of it altogether and stop looking backwards. As far as I am aware, I've got one life, this is it and I'm not going to be re-born or go to "a better place" so I don't look back and say "if only...." I just get on with what I have and try and enjoy things as they are.

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