Hi there,
I have been in Vietnam for the past few weeks and currently staying in a guesthouse I booked through Airbnb. I have been at this guesthouse for the past 2-3 weeks now and will be staying here over the Tet holiday.
The young couple who own the guesthouse have been exceptionally kind to me - inviting me to family meals, helping me when I was ill, and just going out of their way in general to help me while I am here. They have in a way become my "Vietnamese family".
I understand there is a tradition/custom during Tet where "lucky money" is handed out (in red envelopes) to younger people. The couple are probably in their late 20's and have a 2 year old son. I am in my late 40's.
I would like to respect as many customs while I am here, hence this question. Is it OK for me to give their son some "lucky money"? If so, how much? Is it appropriate that I give the couple "lucky money" too?
Also, are there any other customs (such as giving a gift such as fruit, alcohol, etc.) that I should observe over Tet?
Thanks for any advice you can offer.