Hi
i have met a beautiful Moroccan lady a couple of months ago and we are going to marry soon. I am divorced with children and she has never been married. She is around 13 years younger than me. She will be living with my family when she comes to the U.K. and she is okay with this. We get along great and things appear to be fantastic and I am looking forward to marrying her.
however, a few people have warned me against this, they are telling me that she will have a problem living with my family when she gets here and that she may be after a passport/money. They are questioning why she would choose a man with children from another country. She has given me no indication that she's a fraud and appears very genuine. I haven't met her whole family just her immediate family and I'll be travelling again soon to finalise the marriage. I have travelled there a few times already to sort paper work out etc each time staying in a hotel. My close friends are saying that this is odd and her male relatives should have provided me with a place to stay. They find it odd that whilst I was there I was never invited to dinner at her family home but I believe this is because the woman is religious and we had not done our nikah yet. I am spending a lot of money on buying her gifts for the wedding which she seems eager to receive. She doesn't want to invite many people to our wedding ceremony and prefers a small do. Surely this is a good sign as she would have wanted a lavish wedding if she was just after money? Personally I have no doubts about her but other peoples opinions promoted me to make this thread, I'd be interested in other opinions. I don't think anything I've described would be an immediate red flag which is why I am quite positive that she is genuine