Relocating to a neighboring country or moving to the opposite side of the world are two distinct experiences. With the radical changes in climate, food, product availability, and cultural practices, preparing for Christmas becomes an adventure in itself. And let's not forget about family members back home or spread across different countries… How do expatriates stay organized in such situations?
Facing the new climate
It could be the expatriates' first experience in the host country. Those from the southern hemisphere discover the climates of northern lands and vice versa. In either scenario, be prepared for surprises. If you're relocating to a country with a similar climate to where you come from, adjusting to the change might not be so difficult. However, if you're moving from Chile to the far north of Greenland, brace yourself for an extreme contrast. Similarly, departing from the temperate climate of Belgium to central Australia and its dry weather is sure to bring about a few moments of discomfort.
Christmas brings its share of surprises as well. Will it be a beach party or a gathering in wintry plaid? If you come from a country in the southern hemisphere, you're likely used to a sunny Christmas, with barbecues and summer fruits. In the South, it's summertime during the holiday season, so it's only natural for residents of these countries to celebrate Christmas under the warm sun. However, Christmas is rarely discussed when moving to a northern hemisphere country.
However, you soon realize the weather isn't as you remember it. Coolness, even cold temperatures, have replaced the softness or warmth you were used to. You find yourself bundled up in ten layers while others walk around in sweaters. Yes, winter is here, bringing the chill and perhaps even snow. Now, you're ready to experience your first Christmas in line with the widely depicted imagery. Practicality (clothing, decorations) and psychological preparation are crucial in both situations. Christmas in your host country will differ from what you've known before. It's important to note that every country, whether in the northern or southern hemisphere, has its unique aspects, and Christmas isn't celebrated everywhere.
Getting used to (or not) postcard Christmas
Snowflakes, biting cold, wood fire, fireplace, red and green plaid, hot chocolate, and the countdown to Christmas – the entire scene is set. This iconic image of Christmas has captured the world's imagination. Therefore, it's no wonder some people are taken aback when Christmas in a sarong is mentioned. You might also be surprised if you leave a country in the northern hemisphere for one in the South. The seasons flip, and temperatures climb where you're used to them dropping. The effect is particularly striking, especially during the festive season.
You expected to bring out your cozy blankets and slippers, but instead, you're dealing with the heat and stocking up on tank tops and shorts. The adjustment might be more challenging than you anticipated, especially if you're someone who loves the idea of a "postcard Christmas." It's tough to project yourself in tropical celebrations when all your past Christmases were spent amid the snow.
The shock can be so overwhelming for some expatriates, in both directions, that they prefer to return home during the festive season. This way, they can reconnect with their roots and spend time with their families. The desire to rediscover Christmas traditions also serves as a means to start anew in the coming year. However, this process is not exclusive to expatriates; on the contrary, it's pretty common. Locals, too, often switch hemispheres for Christmas, seeking either sunshine or, conversely, the cold.
Adopt the local look
Having the right look is a crucial step to planning Christmas in a foreign country. Since your arrival, you've likely acclimated to the fashion trends of your host country, which generally don't deviate too much from what you're familiar with – be it work attire, casual wear, breezy summer outfits, or snug winter ensembles. In this regard, you're covered. Whether you're marking the year's end under the sun or in the midst of a blizzard, your wardrobe is sorted. However, adjusting to diverse temperatures doesn't automatically guarantee that you'll have the perfect look.
Observe the people around you. Are there any popular Christmas outfits in your host country? Has your workplace embraced the "ugly Christmas sweater," or do you risk standing out if you wear one to the office? Should you lean towards specific colors or accessories? How prepared you are will depend on how much you want to celebrate Christmas per the traditions of your host country. Keep in mind that you may have nothing to do. Traditional Christmas celebrations are mainly observed in Christian countries. The atmosphere in Buddhist or Muslim nations is quite different, with other festivals marking the year (such as the spring festival in China, for example).
Getting used to the new shopping basket
You can't discuss the holiday season without bringing up the menu. In Germany, roast or stuffed goose replaces pork, accompanied by zesty vegetables and fruit. The festive motto is "Vollbauchabend," meaning "New Year's Eve with a full belly." The menu also includes charcuterie, cakes, and sweet breads. And let's not overlook Christstollen, the classic Christmas cake stuffed with candied fruit.
However, Vollbauchabend isn't a thing in Bulgaria, where the meal will be simple and vegetarian, accompanied by a bogova pita, a festive round focaccia. Now, the question is: Which menu should you choose? Are you going all-in on the local experience, perhaps learning from the locals or, better yet, securing a spot at their table? Will you bravely maintain your Christmas traditions, even if it means importing numerous items not readily available in your host country? Or, will you choose the "resourceful Christmas" route, adapting your homeland's dishes with local ingredients?
It's not always easy to do things "the way they're done at home". After all, the setting has changed, prompting adjustments to the dinner plate. Take the Philippines, for example, where bibingka holds a special place. These small rice cakes, filled with coconut cream, are traditionally baked in palm leaves in clay pots or in the oven. Meanwhile, in Venezuela, the traditional Christmas feast requires meticulous preparation. Hallaca, a cornflour-based turnover filled with meat and vegetable ragout, requires a whopping 3 days of work, spanning the preparation of the ragout (the day before), the dough (the same day), and the turnover assembly (the following day). Trying to rediscover the flavors of your homeland through those found in your host country is one of the keys to a successful celebration.
Extra tips for a merry Christmas in your expat country
The initial preparation begins in the mind. Christmas in your host country will be different from the celebrations in your home country. After all, not every country celebrates this holiday. You might hail from a place where December 25 is just another day. Conversely, you might be headed to a country that has embraced only the commercial aspects of Christmas.
Manage your frustration
Once you've gotten over the "shock" of the festive season in the sun or the cold, you might feel frustrated. This is particularly true if it's your first Christmas as an expatriate. You may discover that nothing quite meets your expectations – the streets of your host city are either overly decorated or lack the festive charm you're used to. Perhaps you're not a fan of the local products or the overall atmosphere. These reactions, both from yourself and those around you, might be surprising. Isn't it clear that you're not feeling at home? Why did you choose to move abroad? Be easy on yourself. Culture shock may not be over yet, or you might be going through a new adjustment phase. Don't hesitate to talk to someone you trust to eliminate those negative thoughts.
Ask for help
If the holiday season is getting you down, ask for help. Reach out to a doctor in your host country. If the language barrier is a hurdle, consider consulting a doctor from your home country or one who speaks a language you're comfortable with. The rise of telemedicine has made cross-border consultations more accessible. Remember to check with your health insurance company to determine how you will be covered.
Be curious
Observe, question, learn, and push your limits. Moving abroad is a journey of humility. And just as well, the Christmas holidays revolve around these universal values: sharing, humility, and solidarity. Allow yourself to be captivated by how your host country embraces the year's final days.
