As a family of 3 having just moved to KL just weeks before Covid began to rage and the first lockdown occurred, it is safe to say that most of our three years spent here were with our faces behind masks.
To your first question, almost three years later now health care facilities still mandate wearing masks. Taxi drivers have the onus on whether they want to insist that their passengers wear them or not. Many don’t ask and some still do. Malls, restaurants, cafés etc in general don’t require them anymore.
Post pandemic while there is certainly a big sense of relief amongst the population in the ease up of rules and health SOPs, there is still some anxiety even during the common cold, flu or other such mild symptoms of general illness. I suspect this is something that may continue for a while. Mask wearing also seems to have become a norm some don’t want to put an end to. But it has not deterred people from wanting to travel again and airports and flights have filled up at lightening speed.
People are also in general trying to spend more time with family and loved ones - something that had been a huge casualty of the raging pandemic days and the expat community bearing the brunt of not being able to head back home to be with ailing family members.
I am a Freelance writer at the moment and post pandemic with two kids under the ages of 5 - it is difficult to get back to a full time job currently. But as a writer the ability to be able to work in cafés, restaurants and other locales that are fodder for motivation and inspiration has been great to be able to do again post pandemic.
My Husband has now gone back to the office on a daily basis - something that had completely stopped for him during the pandemic days and he would work from home daily for almost 2 years.
Regarding the spending habits, since we had managed to save money on travel and shopping etc during Covid, we were able to splurge a little bit in general we are balanced when it comes to spending - health related expenditure has seen an increase and travel trips to family back home too.
Our future here in Malaysia remains largely undisturbed as we continue to work toward staying here some more years. Our next destination is still up in the air but we see ourselves here for some more years and happily so.
My advice for future expats and other expats here would be to embrace new friends and the expat community here - the friendships that can be forged as a by product of living away from our families can be life-changing and lifelong. We have been through a covid pregnancy during the height of the Delta wave and we only managed to survive that because of the unyielding help and support of our expat friends here who have become like family.
That sense of community and connections in expat life and more so as it was during a pandemic when loneliness and lack of social connections can become overwhelming, is so important.
Also travel as much as you can with your kids in this part of the world. The learnings, parenting delights and strengthening of familial bonds are priceless and travel can be the best mitigator and healer of strained relationships especially during tough times.