I'm new here

hyy hw u doing? im from nairobi kenya we can be friends? i understand how boring things can get in life. cheer up

Nice to make friends with u ! Actually, now I dont know what I do, I feel boring with all things.
But u said u can understand this feeling, so Have you met this as me before?? If yes, how you get out of this?

Just never lose hope and it will be fine

Thanks for yr all advice and care. I am trying everyday............

wt do u feel bring doing? all the things? then try changing your environment that can help as well, take a relaxing vacations. explore and do new tings, do things uv never done before or thngs uv enjoyd doing when you were small :p do it and it will be fun.

ur always welcome..

Hello, best i can advice is that you try solving all the cases/problems u have one-at-a-time. Dont try making everything better at once,that might not work and might actually worsen things. Good luck.

be optimistic and know this as a fact that every prob has a solution,
make ur decison to solve it, and be ready to take the consquences
cry rfor god and ask for his support,
talk old ppl without going into details with them.

try and  hang up with good friends, try and think and think in an optimistic manner. dont talk to thoes in ur age abwt problem , as they will give short term solutions.


think in the long term

may god help all
and finall my advice is get a quraan book and read on it , it really includes secrets on it

Everyone here is so nice, I feel better after some days. Now...........I will learn how to stop worrying and start living.
Thanks lovely guys a lot!!!!!!!!!!

hi girl...Welcome to EB,,you're in a good site!
Be happy! Enjoy your life to the fullest,we only have one life!  Study hard,do your best,..believe in yourself,,
I must say,you should read books too,probably a self-help books,you know what i was like that before but you know after reading a good book:(The Power of Your Subconscious Mind) It changes my life,,
Just Be happy all the time,think positive! As what they say: "YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK"

Regards,
edvilyn

HI jjk.
I'm going through that point at the moment. I'm now taking 'ME'time. Going up town on bus just to look in shops, museum etc.
Also find someone you can trust that not family...just to talk to /get thier advice. Someone who has nothing to gain with what they tell you, but will be honest with you.
Put some sad music on and have a good greet. {cry}. What about volunteer work, till you find a job. Or start a new hobby.
Or you can just talk here.

life is what you make of it, sure it has its ups and downs, but as individuals we should strive for what keeps us up. lean on those you trust the most, vent in any way u feel comfortable - it could be artistic i.e. painting, singing, writing etc. or sporty - running etc.

do not succumb to depression, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you.

laugh out loud at every moment, dont worry too much about tomorrow.