Why the marriage necessity?

specially in india , once u r settled with your dream job
the next thing is marriage .
specially the relatives .
unmarried guy like me might agree but married guys may not .
what say ?

If you need authorization for sex, you're doing it wrong.

gsgowshan wrote:

Please post your comments.

I believe this is a very absurd topic !!

saimans wrote:

gsgowshan wrote:

Please post your comments.

I believe this is a very absurd topic !!

Marriage not only love involved matter, It has involved in status, dowry, caste, community, religion and so many things.

You know many middle aged women are still waiting for marriage, what do you tell for them?

gsgowshan wrote:

saimans wrote:

gsgowshan wrote:

Please post your comments.

I believe this is a very absurd topic !!

Marriage not only love involved matter, It has involved in status, dowry, caste, community, religion and so many things.

You know many middle aged women are still waiting for marriage, what do you tell for them?

Please rephrase your question ???

for me the marriage must be between women and men and not more bc marriage of guys is a false relation...guyisme is a sick

Marriage is the completion of society? Need authorisation for sex?

If it wasn't for sex either married or unmarried, society wouldn't exist.

yes kiwiin u are right...

gsgowshan wrote:

saimans wrote:

gsgowshan wrote:

Please post your comments.

I believe this is a very absurd topic !!

Marriage not only love involved matter, It has involved in status, dowry, caste, community, religion and so many things.

You know many middle aged women are still waiting for marriage, what do you tell for them?

How old is a middle aged women then

Marriage is not life's necessity. For me it's just an accessory. The most important thing is love that we give and receive, which motivates us to live and carry on.

haggishunter wrote:

gsgowshan wrote:

saimans wrote:

I believe this is a very absurd topic !!

Marriage not only love involved matter, It has involved in status, dowry, caste, community, religion and so many things.

You know many middle aged women are still waiting for marriage, what do you tell for them?

How old is a middle aged women then

Most of the Indian women are only house wife, they are not allowing to work anywhere. So Indian women's ultimate necessity is marriage and more areas  parent are only selecting the marriage groom girls opinions are not considered this is very worst thing.
The women who crossover the age 30 this kind of parent arranged marriage also difficult. No one interest to look her. In her life no marriage no job career what she do…Then people simple told that is her astrology problem.

Humans, like many other species, have a biological (genetic?) inclination to form long-lasting couple relationship. This is natural.
Marriage, however, is an institution invented by society (and later used by political authorities) to control such relationships (e.g. by imposing a moral ban on unmarried sex, etc.).
The decline of marriage in more individualistic societies shows that this is neither natural nor necessary nowadays. A free person does not need his relationship controlled by anybody other than himself. But who of us is really free?

I got married last year in my late 40's. First marraige and hubby is 10 years younger
And if anyone called me middle age i'd skelp them

mislily12 wrote:

Because people fear loneliness

I was not lonley

i just say:

Family = Father and mother i love you.

haggishunter wrote:

I got married last year in my late 40's. First marraige and hubby is 10 years younger
And if anyone called me middle age i'd skelp them

Middle aged women often remarry.

Serious time.

I've seen a society where marriage is the norm and one where marriage is old fashioned.
While there are many other social factors involved, the former is far better.

yes, definitely. It's a sacred way.

The real meaning of marriage is bonding the two souls. It is the culture. Who live in  without culture, there are animals. so when unbelieves the culture  you are losing your human character!

sarapiping wrote:

The real meaning of marriage is bonding the two souls. It is the culture. Who live in  without culture, there are animals. so when unbelieves the culture  you are losing your human character!

I agree... Humans will have difference of opinions and to co-exist peacefully we need a common system.....

marriage is unnatural..lot of people get married because they are affraid.. afraid to be alone....

gsgowshan wrote:

I think marriage is society completion, that is only authorization for committing sex. In future this system completely collapsed.
Please post your comments.

This comment is a great example of different opinions dominated by culture and religion.
In the "West" doesn't matter if you have sex without marriage and in the "East", including Arab countries,it does: you can't have sex when you are not married.  But that does not mean it did not happen.

I seriously think marriage is done only for da eyes of society...Because in the past people feared what others think about them...But nowadays people are paying more attention to themselves than society and that is why people have started to live in 'concubinage'....
But it is also a matter of religion...And this one is just to be able to confront da family.. Coz otherwise elders might not agree dat da couple live wid them etc etc.. causing hard life!!
From what i have learnt..married or not,anyone can have sex if they want to!!..Nobody can stop them...

Sharez wrote:

marriage is unnatural..lot of people get married because they are affraid.. afraid to be alone....

I was not afraid to be alone. I had a daughter to bring up single handed and was not looking. I married because i was head over heels in love with the man. NOT because i was afraid to be alone. Everytime i hear his voice makes my stomach flip and i get butterflys.

What is wrong to want to wait till your in your 30's or 40's before marrying, by that time hopefuly you will have matured, and settled in your life to find someone to share it withand hopefully make it work.

Merriage is not only about legally and moraly permitted sex.Infact the bond gives you a life partner who promises to stand by your side in thick and thin.

The point is marriage is a good thing ....Its not abt sex all the time the love and affection is wat important ....can u be without a frnd in ur life ? cant!!!! certainly u can without marriage but wen u take things friendly between the couples it does goes a long way.....and in 60s and 70s u knw y there should be a partner....happy life cheerss!!!!

The Booo

I agree that a lot of people married not to be alone. but please listen up what do you think about the solution?
PLEASE EVERY BODY SUGGEST

Come on man, sex is not suiside that you commit!

If sex were suicide we'd all be salmon.

This I read a lot of people talking about "LOVE", Let's say "LOVE" is a fairytale, people don't get married? that's BS the reason why AIDS is not published is people getting married and sticking to each other for sex & I'm not saying people only get infected by sex no there is needles and other shit but sex is one of them and mostly people get infected by it through sex, Marriage is the solution for it. thats the best benefit and there is a lot of other benefits too.

Looking for solution? Read Quran and you will find solution for every problem you got or read the Hadiths.

Marriage is about, love, compassion, solidarity, companionship between 2 differents genders...in ancient times it was called initiation to permit people to ascend high in spirituality, to ascend you need to accept and live the difficulties that are within!

Hi Adim, very well brought out I maut say.

tanx Khan!