When men shed tears thus this mean they are weak?

Men are by no means weak because they cry. I have seen grown men cry openly at the loss of a comrade in battle.

I have seen men weep at funerals.

It is not a sign of weakness but rather is an emotion of which we are all capable of showing.

men cried, yupp my dad when my grandmom pass away...

brother Emman..

in my opinion,since crying is not a measure of a man,it's okay for you to cry..but there's a different between being a whiny cry baby and crying at a deep personal response..

and cry,doesn't make you less of a man...

-b-

Men have always been pretty much trained never to show sadness of any kind. They had to be brave, hard, emotionally in control.
They are not weak if they cry. Sometimes it just has to happen it doens't make the man less weak or less in control with their emotions

aabie ryan wrote:

brother Emman..

in my opinion,since crying is not a measure of a man,it's okay for you to cry..but there's a different between being a whiny cry baby and crying at a deep personal response..

and cry,doesn't make you less of a man...

-b-

that's true, so many reasons why people cry. theres a baby cry, tears of joy, pity cry, cry of hatred, crying while pleasing someone, crying for forgiveness, crocodile tear, etc. whatever it is its a human rights.

emman...hahahaha...crocodile tear?? wow..

aabie ryan wrote:

emman...hahahaha...crocodile tear?? wow..

hahaha joke joke joke.....

Is it refers to a fake tears?

aabie ryan wrote:

Is it refers to a fake tears?

crocodile tears are same as back biter hihihi......

Aawwwww....

Hi Emman.

  Sheding your tears doesn't mean you are a weak person. It shows that you have a feeling, if you have a feeling then you have a heart.

Ash

Crying is not a sign of weakness in men by any means. It shows that they have emotions and feelings. When pain becomes unbearable men also cry, don't kid yourself.

My father was a very sentimental and loving person, he and I always talked about our feelings, our love for one another. When he would come to visit me in Vancouver we'd almost have to put the airport on flood alert when it came time for him to catch his flight back home. It was always the same thing, he'd pass through security and then we'd walk down the long glassed in corridor leading to the gates him on one side of the glass and I on the other, our hands pressed together against the glass, tears streaming down his cheeks and mine as well. His tears were tears of love and sadness at leaving, mine were because I would miss him terribly.

Yep, my dad was a cryer and I'm not at all ashamed to admit that I am too. My dad taught me it was not a shame or sign of weakness to show your true emotions. Here in Brazil we have a saying which is so very true...

Quando os seus sentimentos não cabem mais no coração, saem pelos olhos. = When your emotions no longer fit in your heart, they exit through your eyes.

Cheers,
William James Woodward - Brazil Animator, Expat-blog

ASHRAF 1 wrote:

Hi Emman.

  Sheding your tears doesn't mean you are a weak person. It shows that you have a feeling, if you have a feeling then you have a heart.

Ash

true.....

wjwoodward wrote:

Crying is not a sign of weakness in men by any means. It shows that they have emotions and feelings. When pain becomes unbearable men also cry, don't kid yourself.

My father was a very sentimental and loving person, he and I always talked about our feelings, our love for one another. When he would come to visit me in Vancouver we'd almost have to put the airport on flood alert when it came time for him to catch his flight back home. It was always the same thing, he'd pass through security and then we'd walk down the long glassed in corridor leading to the gates him on one side of the glass and I on the other, our hands pressed together against the glass, tears streaming down his cheeks and mine as well. His tears were tears of love and sadness at leaving, mine were because I would miss him terribly.

Yep, my dad was a cryer and I'm not at all ashamed to admit that I am too. My dad taught me it was not a shame or sign of weakness to show your true emotions. Here in Brazil we have a saying which is so very true...

Quando os seus sentimentos não cabem mais no coração, saem pelos olhos. = When your emotions no longer fit in your heart, they exit through your eyes.

Cheers,
William James Woodward - Brazil Animator, Expat-blog

this explain the kindness in you......

Most man don't want to be caught crying because they thought they might degrade their credibility as a man. Some stay hard on themselves and keep holding on to what they believed is right. Anyway its our right, God has purpose why men has this feelings.

Men who are afraid to cry are weak.

no

why are you asking rhetorical question?

Hericles wrote:

why are you asking rhetorical question?

Why are you answering the question with another Hypothetically question? anyway if you can't rely just leave the thread bro.

Hericles wrote:

why are you asking rhetorical question?

why not?

just answer if you want..and leave it if you don't...

don't sweat a small stuff...



-b-

aabie ryan wrote:

Hericles wrote:

why are you asking rhetorical question?

why not?

just answer if you want..and leave it if you don't...

don't sweat a small stuff...



-b-

hahaha nice sweet friend....... it will be more devastating if I said those words hahaha.....hey isn't that sarcastic hahaha

If you don't like the answers people give, it might not be a good idea to post them on a public forum.

Not everyone will answer the same question the same way.  Isn't that the point of asking such a diverse group of people?

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

If you don't like the answers people give, it might not be a good idea to post them on a public forum.

Not everyone will answer the same question the same way.  Isn't that the point of asking such a diverse group of people?

obviously he did'nt answer the question, he answer it with another question. Isn't that irritating, simple if you don't have the answer better not to give one cause Im like that. His guiding the thread out of the topic.

When men shed tears thus this mean they are weak?

rather brave, i believe.

brave enough to show the world the true emotions,
rather than hide those tears in the cowardice called conformity.

honey&lemon wrote:

When men shed tears thus this mean they are weak?

rather brave, i believe.

brave enough to show the world the true emotions,
rather than hide those tears in the cowardice called conformity.

JasfurJQ wrote:

obviously he did'nt answer the question, he answer it with another question. Isn't that irritating, simple if you don't have the answer better not to give one cause Im like that. His guiding the thread out of the topic.

Why is answering a question with a question bad?

it's okay for you to cry,Emman...

oops...

Some people are crying over this thread.

aabie ryan wrote:

it's okay for you to cry,Emman...

oops...

I told you I oftenly shed tears not as in baby cry hihihi.....

Well....Emman,explain about the baby cry..supposed not my name that you are talking

-b-

aabie ryan wrote:

Well....Emman,explain about the baby cry..supposed not my name that you are talking

-b-

hmmmp imagining what would be your look like if your doing baby cry, lying down on the floor with both feet and arms upward asking, "me pampers is so wet dadah", hahaha.

God...that's almost similar with my story last night,,
Another expats group in Jakarta had a pool night at one of Irish pub..and few of men there were asking if I need help for my nappy change...shit happens!
But I know they did it only for fun,,not for abusing or something...

aabie ryan wrote:

God...that's almost similar with my story last night,,
Another expats group in Jakarta had a pool night at one of Irish pub..and few of men there were asking if I need help for my nappy change...shit happens!
But I know they did it only for fun,,not for abusing or something...

yeah your right sh.. happens

Ever since I never saw or hear my father crying, is that mean his manly enough to face all the consequences and trials in life or maybe he realized that crying will not do any good.

He cried.  Just not when you were around.

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

He cried.  Just not when you were around.

I agree, Ive seen my father crying in separate room at nights, when my brother got ill

yeah I guess you were right guys we're not 24 hours a day seeing together then so I think he cries secretly,  specially now 24 years we have'nt seen each other.

if god didn't want men to tear up , he wudn't have created them with tear canal , being open & honest about wat u feel takes real strength & saves the energy you try to control it with ,

that was wat i was trying to say , being tough , fighting your emotions , it takes too much energy , wasted energy . energy that can be better used to do something useful , when u want to cry go ahead , get it over with then do sth else , don't spend time & energy trying to prevent it & carry out with psychological problems that comes out of bottling things up .