Love time

Hi siah,

Welcome to expat-blog!

Please can you write some lines about yourself and tell us how we can be helpful?

Thank you,

David.

siah wrote:

make sure u select someone who will never break ur heart

If you know how to do that, bottle it.

I do not buy your thoughts here.

Broken hearts are just a part of life sometimes.

Anytime we seek happiness in a person outside of our self we are going to be disappointed.

Cry, scream, do what you need to do, then move on.

You are practicing English right?

siah wrote:

When time comes for u to give ur heart to someone, make sure u select someone who will never break ur heart, cuz broken hearts has never spare parts

I'm disappointed as I thought there was an offer on when I saw the thread title.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=bK0Fe1oDqU8

Unfortunatelly nobody knows who is going to break his heart! That can be anyone a friend, a family member, or your beloved one, so don't dispair at all!

I know exactly who's going to break his heart.

ericwt wrote:

Anytime we seek happiness in a person outside of our self we are going to be disappointed.

I agree completely with ericwt. If we seek our happiness in other people then we are setting ourselves up for disappointment and being unhappy.

We must be happy with ourselves, we must recognize that our happiness lies not in some other individual, but rather is our own responsibility and our choice. For that we must have a good self image and a strong sense of self, an understanding that we are worthy of happiness that comes from within.

Brazilians have a great saying, which translated into English is... "You can't live only in someone else's eyes". You must be happy with who and what you are, other people are only a means by which we can expand that happiness. We're happy because we choose to be, not because our happiness depends on them. Otherwise when we end a relationship that has made us happy we become NOTHING in our own eyes, we've lost EVERYTHING because we never had ourselves in the first place.

  Cheers, 
  William James Woodward – Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team

I like that saying,wjwoodward.

But it one of of the hardest things for me to learn.

I had always thought the answers were in another person. I spent years looking for meaning outside.

Then I discovered all the answers I needed were inside of me. That was so empowering, it changed my life.

wjwoodward wrote:

Brazilians have a great saying, which translated into English is... "You can't live only in someone else's eyes". You must be happy with who and what you are, other people are only a means by which we can expand that happiness. We're happy because we choose to be, not because our happiness depends on them. Otherwise when we end a relationship that has made us happy we become NOTHING in our own eyes, we've lost EVERYTHING because we never had ourselves in the first place.

[img align=l]http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/flag/t67118.gif[/url]  Cheers,  [img align=r]http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/flag/t67054.gif[/url]
  William James Woodward – Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team

wjwoodward wrote:

Brazilians have a great saying, which translated into English is... "You can't live only in someone else's eyes".

Apparently Brazilians have never heard of eyelash mites.

we never know who will gonna break our hearts untill it happened.

Some psychologists say we always know when it's going to happen.

lots of us think we must be choosy and selective while giving the heart. Love just happens its not planned.If it is planned then its not called love.
A person may seem as a very suitable person to us initially as many of us conceal our selves initially or simply the situation of showing some of the true feelings do not arise. initially people compromise a lot for the other's sake.later the level of compromising diminish gradually. so many people feel hurt and mistaken. dear friends nobody is perfect and every one has ego and self respect, if we remember this and compromise a little, then we can be happy and our relationships would be strong.
The essence of love is Giving and forgiving,the more you give the more you love.
The more you love the more you will be loved.

but we didn't prepare in worse situation...
Loving someone without loving yourself first gonna losing yourself in the end...