why overseas peoples does not interest to inter racial friendship?

May be that they are not interested.
You must realize that not everyone is like you and seeking friends. 
We all have our own agendas.

stumpy wrote:

May be that they are not interested.
You must realize that not everyone is like you and seeking friends. 
We all have our own agendas.

This is very true stumpy. Sometimes many try to annoy me with their friendship invitations.     Some people like to bother others with sending a friendship invitation or a flirting pm. Mostly they are new comers and even without writing to any thread first of all they try to invite members to be friends. But to be friends we must know the person first, then we must have some 'like' for that person. Otherwise why we need friends?? Why people can not get this???

I would speak to friendlier people if I were you, and avoid the angry people.

sweatheart4u: If you are talking about people you meet in real life - there are some who are not interested in (or maybe even afraid of) having friends from other cultures, but thankfully they are in the minority in most places. You can easily ignore them and socialize with the more open-minded majority. Sometimes, however, you need to realize that they are a little shy, have other important things in their life or are simply not waiting for you to show up. Some dedication and being pleasant goes a long way in finding friends!
If you were talking about contact requests on this forum: As Mal wrote above, we get many such "instant friends" requests and I personally find them inappropriate to distasteful - some guy (who hadn't even posted anything meaninful on the forum, neither replied to any of my postings) recently sent me a PM asking to be "best friends forever"!!!

sweatheart4u wrote:

I noticed that whenever I offer friendship with other countrys people,but why they dont accept? Because friendship does not believe in countrys border,race,color,religion. so why?

Hi there, 
If you need to get something, you must also have something to give in return.

Sometimes funny situations occur when Greek talks to Chinese or when a salesman tries to sell something to people who have no money to buy.
Correct yourself sooner than later.
Focus your time, energy and cash or success, instead of coming to you, will go away from you ... 

One wonders if he tries to make friends with ladies but his username puts them off.

mas fred wrote:

One wonders if he tries to make friends with ladies but his username puts them off.

  Mas Fred,
You burn like acid. 

When I went to India I met nothing but friendly people.  Except for the drunk cricket hooligans who wanted us to stop existing.

yes he wants to have friends with women.   His profile name can kick him away for thousand miles far.
Funniest thing guys,,,  even just after giving my above comments, he has sent me a friend's request. Guys, have I asked him to send me a request by above comment...?? you see some invitation in my writing??

sweatheart4u wrote:

I noticed that whenever I offer friendship with other countrys people,but why they dont accept? Because friendship does not believe in countrys border,race,color,religion. so why?

maybe it's nothing to do with race but rather culture. i'm a white-skinned person living in a country with a lot of other white skinned people, so technically friendship wouldn't be "inter racial"

however, the cultural differences between how friendships evolve in my new homelands vs where I was raised can be quite big. If you are outgoing and friendly, people here can think you're being weird and throwing yourself at them. It's nothing to do with skin color.

mal wrote:

.... even just after giving my above comments, he has sent me a friend's request. Guys, have I asked him to send me a request by above comment...?? you see some invitation in my writing??

Oh Mal, you are one hot lady? 
Your saree is guilty of men assaulting you more than you bargained for.

Now, are you saying that you are not ready for interracial friendship? 

MiaCulpa wrote:

When I went to India I met nothing but friendly people.  Except for the drunk cricket hooligans who wanted us to stop existing.

I would love to visit India, mostly for a food holiday.
I have a special love for Indian food and, back in Blighty, I was lucky enough to have a mate from an Indian family who knew a few very nice restaurants. The dude has a brain the size of a planet and a sense of humour that keeps you laughing through many a long conversation; we still chat on skype when possible.
The excellent Indian food is one of the things I most miss about the old country.

As for drunks, that's universal; they're always a pain.

John C. wrote:

mal wrote:

.... even just after giving my above comments, he has sent me a friend's request. Guys, have I asked him to send me a request by above comment...?? you see some invitation in my writing??

Oh Mal, you are one hot lady? 
Your saree is guilty of men assaulting you more than you bargained for.

Now, are you saying that you are not ready for interracial friendship? 

I will change my profile pic J. 
But if you want to start a relationship with me... why do you wait yet?

mal wrote:

John C. wrote:

mal wrote:

.... even just after giving my above comments, he has sent me a friend's request. Guys, have I asked him to send me a request by above comment...?? you see some invitation in my writing??

Oh Mal, you are one hot lady? 
Your saree is guilty of men assaulting you more than you bargained for.

Now, are you saying that you are not ready for interracial friendship? 

I will change my profile pic J. 
But if you want to start a relationship with me... why do you wait yet?

Hi Mal,
My lame excuse is: I do not want to start relationships on my own thinking. (edit added: It's just too tempting ... ) I wait for Anil to comment on your new attire. 

stumpy I offered you first friend request.I could not understand your appealing. okay I am a divorced man interested to marry do you marry me? letter me mohammadsameer167@yahoo.com
                                                                                                              Md Sameer

sweatheart4u wrote:

stumpy I offered you first friend request.I could not understand your appealing. okay I am a divorced man interested to marry do you marry me? letter me mohammadsameer167@yahoo.com
                                                                                                              Md Sameer

I'll marry you, but you pay the rent and my wife must stay with us.

ahahahaha.... Fred.. in our language it says... 'your taking him for a  bite' (Here bite is some follow ups for a drink.)
So we will have a party soon...?? Fred & his family is going to marry a 'guy' and this may be the first 'gay' marriage in expat.blog. Where is this stumpy guy??? Hiding??   

P.s. He has sent me the friend's request again even after changing my profile picture. So Fred, John, Stumpy he is not only interested about guys

I am not gay...
















Just not fussy.

mas fred wrote:

I am not gay...
Just not fussy.

First this "sweetheart" wanted international friendships.
Next he has sent me non-stop invitations
Then he has decided to marry another guy-stumpy  
(Next thing is we know your 100% straight   )

I have reported this guy to the forum managers.
His marriage proposals to women and men (he also posted a classified ad for this), PMs and contact request SPAM, claims to be relocating to Russia AND China, and his claimed professions software tester, fashion designer and English teacher (given the language of his posts, I pity his students!) is just too much to be considered serious.
I hope they will stop him!

Thanks a lot Beppi. He made me annoyed and today I blocked him. See his waggish name!

mas fred wrote:

sweatheart4u wrote:

stumpy I offered you first friend request.I could not understand your appealing. okay I am a divorced man interested to marry do you marry me? letter me mohammadsameer167@yahoo.com
                                                                                                              Md Sameer

I'll marry you, but you pay the rent and my wife must stay with us.

Fred,
That one line promoted you to the Humorist rank, above ViP. 
There is a risk for your wife staying with the two of you, isn't it? She is in danger: if Sameer attacks Mal (and maybe other expat women here in the forum) right from the start of his forum membership, can you imagine what he will do when he is at arm's length to your wife, not you his rightful "wife" but to your wife? 

mal wrote:

First this "sweetheart" wanted international friendships.

To be fair, mal, his nom-de-plume isn't "sweetheart", it's "SWEAT heart". I don't think that's very romantic...

Yes, overseas people are interested in interracial friendship (dating, marriage, business). 
Many people even adopt children of other races.

See opinions at https://www.expat.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=333296

Humans evolve also through mixing races. 

It was just a matter of time before someone reported him.
As interesting as it may be having the likes of sweatheart4u on this forum it gets boring answering his shallow posts, we can all see through him and we can really do without the likes of him.
Thanks for reporting him beppi.

OK dear I accept ur friendship. Please proceed!

Gordon Barlow wrote:

mal wrote:

First this "sweetheart" wanted international friendships.

To be fair, mal, his nom-de-plume isn't "sweetheart", it's "SWEAT heart". I don't think that's very romantic...

Yep with that awful, senseless face, he was introducing himself as a "sweetheart". But since very first I have decided he had not a sweet 'heart'.
Everyone never born as a liar. Until someone will grow and build bad qualities in himself, he can not be named as a liar. However, Liar can not live longer.
He was the one who has missed a very good and decent blog filled with quality people

Hi,

this thread isn't going anywhere ... and the author is not a member anymore.

I close this thread