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Hallo Albert,

Im impressed that after 3 bad experiences, you still have a positive opinion about Filipina and Philippines.

I am also new here and just started reading blogs...I am very interested to know experiences of expats living in the Philippines. I hope you will share yours.

Bye for now and nice meeting you here in this forum.


Best regards,

Sharon

Welcome to Expat.com, Albert and Sharon

I had a similar fate with the ladies here in the philippines. But I think I find the right one now. I am married with one year and we still chat online. I am currently living in another country while my wife is in carmona Cavite.
I must advise you that a lot of the filipinos are sharks and they will take as much money as you will give. They have an unfortunate habit of telling remarkable stories but if you are witty you will see where they are going with the stories. One minute a girl will say........I must get money to pay hospital bill for papa. he is very ill. The next week the papa will vanish and will have never existed. But the foreigner beware.
Any way .hello to you my friend. I have been to germany myself in the 1966s

hi ther
i was reading it your in cavite
i am as well my girlfriend is still ther with to childrens
and sadenly i have news from her anty das she is living with a nather menn in the house i cand see wats going on ther we live in 333 molino hieghts 3 molino bacoor cacite i wish sam won cut sheck
wats realy gos on ther
she tels me she dasend have a boy friend
thins she is puting in her enolmend wat i pay and as well i furnisht the house ther and payt for her mothers house as well
now 1 of the childrens was in hospital and she says she is in as well wen i rang her mother
she was at home sadenly
is the tolentino funeral service st peter she is embalmer thins i got back to england
i am no longer shur wats going on ther is the first hous on the left wen coming in
i wont to go back end oktober
but i dont now
i am so frustretet
she alwes say trast me i now wat i do i got no won ther how can check and meaks frends with her to find out
sorry a bout it
Albert

If you have her Yahoo messenger ID then you can keep an eyes on your girl. But you need to have YM as well. Yhe filipino women are really hard to understand. The initially want security and they use the boyfriend to achieve this. My wife was living with her family and I told her to move away from them. They are very family orientated and its difficult to break them up. You should give them an alternative. Just dont keep sending money to them because they think you are a millionaire. Money is very precious to them as it is very hard to come by. The have the habit of saying that there is a problem in the family. Dont listen to that gossip. You are too soft for them. Have no mercy. Are they showing you any mercy?
Im going to Carmona again in September and if your lady has a yahoo ID I can check to see how often she comes online. When they go online it means that they are chatting to someone. For the same reasons they will beg money from who ever chats to them. This is where they get all the stories about family. Mother is sick, please help. The roof of the house is leaking. Please help.
Dont give any more money and they will quieten dow. They will begin to ask questions. This is what you need. They need to correspond with you in the fashion you need.
What part of germany you from? I was living there in the late 1960sI lived in Hereford, near Bielefeld

hi ther
yes i am from germany bremerhaven in the north
but life her for 30 years in england my lade wife was from manila and she become disabeld
but she dead in 20006 now i am 4 years alone
and i went to manila and found a new women we wer ok
at the begining
i mead her mother and the rest the not like the athers the got money but not she is a famely bissenes
funeral tolentinos
st peter chapel in molino so i left in oktober and went home after 9 month ther
and sadenly she come in februare lesser and lesser on the pc
wat i left ther for her to contact me
now thins may is only a bit she alwes say ow i am on my own clening the house and the childrens bringing to school and do sam work
wit her mother an till her anty rang and sayt albert she gotr a boyfriend lifing in your house he got no money and she as well he is not working
and her doerter as well and wen the hoert it the had fight ther
i furnisht the house for 80t peso pluse and payt her enolmend as well 50t peso i never had it befohr and now the child was in hospital
15t and she got ill as well 5t all i wont is to find out is it truh the ant says she is a lyer
and dasend deserv you your to good for her
thats all i wont so i canb find a new wife this house is to smal for me and is no life in here anymore
sorry
thanks for your replay
her yahoo and my won is
cristina malabanan      tintin cristina
my won albertschildt@yahoo.com
her email is 
barrytintin@yahoo.com won is tintin72580@yahoo.com
thanks i dit not here from her for the last 4 days
i wood like to save the furnishing ther then thats exspensif but if i am not that ok with me she tels me as well she wont to go to dubai to her cosen and then over to england
if she realz got a boyfriend
i thing i will in form the embarsy both of them and give her name and worn them not to ishu passport or visa for her
thanks a gehn
albert

Hello guys,

Im a new one here in this forum. I am a filipina from Manila and currently here in Munich Germany. I am not surprised with the stories mentioned but i guess this is not just with Filipinas.
Lets put it this way, guys looks for attention and blinded by the fact that chatting as an easy way to meet someone has a lot of consequences because at the first place trust is very hard to establish. So i guess just keep in mind that online relationship at least 90% could not work not only for filipinos i shall say.
This makes really a bad impression of filipinas, but lets all keep in mind that we all make our choices, whether you give money or not make sure you have good intentions also, and really really assess first if you would give your trust otherwise feel free to stop the communication. It would be glad to hear in the future that this impression has been gone because as they say, as long as you give, they will continue to ask and again this is not just in case of filipinos. I am sad to read this but no problem with me, i will take this as a kind of awareness and hope in my own ways could do something about this. Thanks anyway. have a nice day!

hi don
thanks for the e mail
i have to say das i was married for 23 years to a php and never had any problems with her an till she past a way in 20006
so i sort find a new won and i found in manila and we went then to cavite monilo on the beginning it was all ok
then i left and still ok
i trust her and she me so then the had a argument with the anty ther and thtas wer it all startet she rang me and sayt she got a boyfrient thins januare i got a shock to here that but wen i ask her she alwes say no she got non thins i am here in england i cand say wats happen or wats going on i send money all the time i furnisht the hous all of it
she works in the famely funeral and then she stopt going on line and never realy speacks
only wen she nose the money is in the card like to day after 3 days so wat you thing i shut do
i fly end oktober to manila
thanks
albert
i dont have anywon ther to meaks friends with her with out telling her the now me

I completely agree with Donn David.  Well said.