That is a good thing that your husband's job is paying for the moving expenses. Anything coming in to Barbados is subject to duty. Please ensure that your husbands job is covering the duties on everything. There are several shipping companies, but I used Laparkan, and they handled the agents, so I did not have to hire an agent to deal with my personal goods. If you pack everything before you leave, you can pack whatever you want. Of course this does not include guns, ammunition, gasoline, or any other harmful item. Toiletries are no problem, and the agents will go through your things and decide what the duty will be on everything, but in a collective box, it is bound to be cheaper, than if you ordered it on line and had it shipped here. Everything shipped should look like it has been used for some time. Things that look new and in a box will bring on an inspection. With your husbands job paying for everything, I am not sure if they are accustomed to shipping personal goods overseas, but ensure that they are paying the duties and shipping to your house here, as shipping companies only care about the shipping, The hiring of the port agent and sending it to your house here is left up to you, unless you bring it up, and get some sort of guarantee.