The key is always don't take anything personal stay focused on the good and think about your own country in the toilet drowning in red tape and and legislation ,people judge you by your actions and how you handle adversity they have a saying here( somthing bitter somthing sweet )good things come out of adversity
After you survive the first ordeal go and make sorry with the person and move on you will win a lot of respect ,,,be strong and firm with a open heart ,,and everything will be ok ,,there is always a test to see which way you jump ,,,thank the man and move on