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thorny_rose wrote:

haha, you don't know. In vietnam, if the girls get married later, when they r at 26 years old like me, if still have got married, everybody will say : " she is preparation " ế chồng ";" ống chề"". 27 to 28 years old, if still can not get maried, "she is ế chồng"

I know vietnam girls marry very young. But why you care what other people say? As long as you & your future husband is happy, can already...

lostsouls wrote:

thorny_rose wrote:

haha, you don't know. In vietnam, if the girls get married later, when they r at 26 years old like me, if still have got married, everybody will say : " she is preparation " ế chồng ";" ống chề"". 27 to 28 years old, if still can not get maried, "she is ế chồng"

I know vietnam girls marry very young. But why you care what other people say? As long as you & your future husband is happy, can already...

It's not me la. I said about the girls in vietnam with the customs or conception of vietnamese old people. Sometimes, the young girls have to get married soon because their parent want to be that or theirself want to be that, because they r afraid of they will be " ế chồng ". Sometimes, the old people often have a joke words : " have daughters in family like same have a bomb burst slowly in family." I don't like. I think, live alone to old still be more than have a married not happy.

thorny_rose wrote:

It's not me la. I said about the girls in vietnam with the customs or conception of vietnamese old people. Sometimes, the young girls have to get married soon because their parent want to be that or theirself want to be that, because they r afraid of they will be " ế chồng ". Sometimes, the old people often have a joke words : " have daughters in family like same have a bomb burst slowly in family." I don't like. I think, live alone to old still be more than have a married not happy.

Old traditional Vietnamese would want their daughters to marry young, no doubt. But its the 21st century now. Vietnam is more modernized & many Vietnamese women are getting married at later age.

Of course you have to get married. If not, who will take care of you when you're old? You will be all alone in this world. Its a sad thing, you know.

Anyway, find a right man to marry & not because of parents pressure. Thats not the way.

lostsouls wrote:

thorny_rose wrote:

Old traditional Vietnamese would want their daughters to marry young, no doubt. But its the 21st century now. Vietnam is more modernized & many Vietnamese women are getting married at later age.
Of course you have to get married. If not, who will take care of you when you're old? You will be all alone in this world. Its a sad thing, you know.
Anyway, find a right man to marry & not because of parents pressure. Thats not the way.

I know, it's not good. And maybe, some the parents understand it, too. But, you there r some things haven't change yet. Because it's not just parents, it has brother, cousins... and some other things... I know on the world, there r many people don't like to get married. But vietnamese has not this opinion. You r right, if not get married who will take care of you when you're old. But if you have a married not happy. So, all your life will not happy. it has not say to that if you marry wrong a bad man, your life will "finish". I don't think i will not get married, but i don't get married a way so fast. I don't afraid of i can't marry husband, i just afraid of i get wrong husband. I will not find and choose boyfriend. I think, if my fate has not come yet, although, you have many tries to find, you can not find, too. But when your fate come to, you don't need to find, you can have boyfriend and get married,too. Important that, you live how to when you'r old, you will not have to be regret about your life. it's ok

thorny_rose wrote:

I know, it's not good. And maybe, some the parents understand it, too. But, you there r some things haven't change yet. Because it's not just parents, it has brother, cousins... and some other things... I know on the world, there r many people don't like to get married. But vietnamese has not this opinion. You r right, if not get married who will take care of you when you're old. But if you have a married not happy. So, all your life will not happy. it has not say to that if you marry wrong a bad man, your life will "finish". I don't think i will not get married, but i don't get married a way so fast. I don't afraid of i can't marry husband, i just afraid of i get wrong husband. I will not find and choose boyfriend. I think, if my fate has not come yet, although, you have many tries to find, you can not find, too. But when your fate come to, you don't need to find, you can have boyfriend and get married,too. Important that, you live how to when you'r old, you will not have to be regret about your life. it's ok

Agreed. A woman is not afraid not to get married, but afraid marrying the wrong man & regret for her whole life...

Fate plays a part too, mate...

we spoke to women, too many time, Now, i want to speak to men. what types women are women Singaporean having and what types are men Singapore liking, Henrry and Lee?

thorny_rose wrote:

we spoke to women, too many time, Now, i want to speak to men. what types women are women Singaporean having and what types are men Singapore liking, Henrry and Lee?

I rather not talk about Singapore women. I will get angry.

You better ask Henry...

lostsouls wrote:

thorny_rose wrote:

we spoke to women, too many time, Now, i want to speak to men. what types women are women Singaporean having and what types are men Singapore liking, Henrry and Lee?

I rather not talk about Singapore women. I will get angry.

You better ask Henry...

So, How Henrry? Lee was surrender now, hehe? Can u answer my question?

Ah, tomorrow, i go to Ha noi for 4 days, will come back at 18th of May. So, will talk to this matter later.

Hi Henry, by now you would have known this place better than me.  I work with a singaporean company here.  M malaysian.  There are many singaporeans working in my company.  maybe we can get together maybe you would know some of them....

Keep in touch.

pandamc1912 wrote:

Hi Henry, by now you would have known this place better than me.  I work with a singaporean company here.  M malaysian.  There are many singaporeans working in my company.  maybe we can get together maybe you would know some of them....

Keep in touch.

Hello. Nice to meet you. Henry is very popular in this thread.

IF you have any opportunity, please let me know. Im going there soon...

thorny_rose wrote:

lostsouls wrote:

thorny_rose wrote:

we spoke to women, too many time, Now, i want to speak to men. what types women are women Singaporean having and what types are men Singapore liking, Henrry and Lee?

I rather not talk about Singapore women. I will get angry.

You better ask Henry...

So, How Henrry? Lee was surrender now, hehe? Can u answer my question?

Ah, tomorrow, i go to Ha noi for 4 days, will come back at 18th of May. So, will talk to this matter later.

@Lee => Why, you have given up on Singaproe ladies ? Come on.....

@Rose, my opinion of Singaporean women. I think most of them are career minded, especially those of your age. But I think they are not too good in managing their finances , everything they want...  But I love my wife and son most, that's what "drive" me to work harder

lostsouls wrote:

pandamc1912 wrote:

Hi Henry, by now you would have known this place better than me.  I work with a singaporean company here.  M malaysian.  There are many singaporeans working in my company.  maybe we can get together maybe you would know some of them....

Keep in touch.

Hello. Nice to meet you. Henry is very popular in this thread.

IF you have any opportunity, please let me know. Im going there soon...

Hi Pandamc (panda having mc?), nice to hear from you. Which trades is your company doing in Vietnam? Business must be good, since you are having so many Singaporeans (how many by the way?) there....  Lee is currently exploring to work here, do give him a headsup if there is any opening

henrylamcs wrote:

@Lee => Why, you have given up on Singaproe ladies ? Come on.....

@Rose, my opinion of Singaporean women. I think most of them are career minded, especially those of your age. But I think they are not too good in managing their finances , everything they want...  But I love my wife and son most, that's what "drive" me to work harder

Career minded is not a problem. But most self proclaim independent, non-materialistic, non demanding, etc. They also like to compare their guy with her friends guy.

They like to use this slogan:

"If you love me, you must do this, that for me". Sick & tired of their craps. They are tired from working. Dont men too?

Forget it.......

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Pandamc (panda having mc?), nice to hear from you. Which trades is your company doing in Vietnam? Business must be good, since you are having so many Singaporeans (how many by the way?) there....  Lee is currently exploring to work here, do give him a headsup if there is any opening

Thanks for the help. I appreciate it.....

henrylamcs wrote:

thorny_rose wrote:

lostsouls wrote:

I rather not talk about Singapore women. I will get angry.
You better ask Henry...

So, How Henrry? Lee was surrender now, hehe? Can u answer my question?
Ah, tomorrow, i go to Ha noi for 4 days, will come back at 18th of May. So, will talk to this matter later.

@Lee => Why, you have given up on Singaproe ladies ? Come on.....
@Rose, my opinion of Singaporean women. I think most of them are career minded, especially those of your age. But I think they are not too good in managing their finances , everything they want...  But I love my wife and son most, that's what "drive" me to work harder

"career minded " is normal, Henrry. I understand. The Asiat women were disadvantage suffered too much in the past, they could not have autonomy of their selves. Now, in the Century 21, we often say that, it's century of asiat women.  They have
passion in career, they want to working to prove their selves, i think, that's think of modern women. And " not too good in managing their finances " is a disadvantage of women. There are a lot of women have this disadvantage, it's not just Sing women, Vietnamese women too, sometimes. But, if they used to money which they make it,it's ok. Me, sometimes like that, too:rolleyes:

lostsouls wrote:

henrylamcs wrote:

@Lee => Why, you have given up on Singaproe ladies ? Come on.....

@Rose, my opinion of Singaporean women. I think most of them are career minded, especially those of your age. But I think they are not too good in managing their finances , everything they want...  But I love my wife and son most, that's what "drive" me to work harder

Career minded is not a problem. But most self proclaim independent, non-materialistic, non demanding, etc. They also like to compare their guy with her friends guy.

They like to use this slogan:

"If you love me, you must do this, that for me". Sick & tired of their craps. They are tired from working. Dont men too?

Forget it.......

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Pandamc (panda having mc?), nice to hear from you. Which trades is your company doing in Vietnam? Business must be good, since you are having so many Singaporeans (how many by the way?) there....  Lee is currently exploring to work here, do give him a headsup if there is any opening

Thanks for the help. I appreciate it.....

Maybe, you are too heavy word, maybe, you had meet some girls like that in las time, so you don't like women. You don't like to married?

thorny_rose wrote:

Maybe, you are too heavy word, maybe, you had meet some girls like that in las time, so you don't like women. You don't like to married?

No, Im not. I've met many Singapore girls who are like that. Climbing on mens head & demand many things like branded bags, nice restaurants, etc. Sick & tired of their self proclaim craps...

I dont like Singapore women. I like Vietnamese women....

By the way, nice picture....

Hello, Lee. Your butt is still in Sg

And Rose, nice pic

lostsouls wrote:

thorny_rose wrote:

Maybe, you are too heavy word, maybe, you had meet some girls like that in las time, so you don't like women. You don't like to married?

No, Im not. I've met many Singapore girls who are like that. Climbing on mens head & demand many things like branded bags, nice restaurants, etc. Sick & tired of their self proclaim craps...

I dont like Singapore women. I like Vietnamese women....

By the way, nice picture....

Henry, where r u now? you were missing in a long time. This time, i couldn't see your post comment. Thanks, i photo it in Sai Gon. ^^ welcome you come back

Hi Rose, been busy lately, mainly on focusing on my personal studies (not Vietnamese language), but something that worth my exploration. My exam will be in next week (Singapore).

All this while I have been either in Saigon or Singapore.

After few months of "practical" conversation with the local, I think I am ready to start my classroom class next month. I will start exploring some schools next month (again)

How about you? How's life in Vinh City, hope you are getting on well.

thorny_rose wrote:

Henry, where r u now? you were missing in a long time. This time, i could see your post comment. Thanks, i photo it in Sai Gon. ^^ welcome you come back

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Rose, been busy lately, mainly on focusing on my personal studies (not Vietnamese language), but something that worth my exploration. My exam will be in next week (Singapore).

All this while I have been either in Saigon or Singapore.

After few months of "practical" conversation with the local, I think I am ready to start my classroom class next month. I will start exploring some schools next month (again)

How about you? How's life in Vinh City, hope you are getting on well.

thorny_rose wrote:

Henry, where r u now? you were missing in a long time. This time, i could see your post comment. Thanks, i photo it in Sai Gon. ^^ welcome you come back

Nice to hear that, you were missing because... busy ^^ what is your individual classes? What matter? Everything is so good for me. I came back aften a trip works to the mountain at last friday.

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henrylamcs wrote:

Hello, Lee. Your butt is still in Sg

Hi bro,

Yes, my butt is still in SG because Im having my worst ICT now. Tomorrow is the last week. Then tentatively in Aug I will go.

Hi,
Nice to meet you !
I like movie, I usually go to see movie alone.
If you have free time, I want to invite you go with me?

Hi Blacktiger (what an interesting name ), I like to watch movies too. Easy to past time.

The last movie I watched was Transformer 3, but quite dissappointed by the story line and it is too long either.

blacktiger_1402 wrote:

Hi,
Nice to meet you !
I like movie, I usually go to see movie alone.
If you have free time, I want to invite you go with me?

A tiger gain, Henrry, can you respond to the invitation to watch movie with her? ^^
Hey blacktiger, You was born in 1986???

I am so shy

thorny_rose wrote:

A tiger gain, Henrry, can you respond to the invitation to watch movie with her? ^^
Hey blacktiger, You was born in 1986???

Hi Lee, I like white tiger leh.

lostsouls wrote:

http://www.ethantiger.com/dad.jpg

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Lee, I like white tiger leh.

Henry, please.......... There are 2 types of white tiger. The animal & the "other type"...

Both I like.............

lostsouls wrote:

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Lee, I like white tiger leh.

Henry, please.......... There are 2 types of white tiger. The animal & the "other type"...

http://www.indianchild.com/images/wt.jpg

Hello everybody!

Please concentrate on the initial topic.

Thank you,
Harmonie.

henrylamcs wrote:

Both I like.............

lostsouls wrote:

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Lee, I like white tiger leh.

Henry, please.......... There are 2 types of white tiger. The animal & the "other type"...

http://www.indianchild.com/images/wt.jpg

Oops.........

Sorry mod.

Back to topic, Henry.....

henrylamcs wrote:

I am so shy

thorny_rose wrote:

A tiger gain, Henrry, can you respond to the invitation to watch movie with her? ^^
Hey blacktiger, You was born in 1986???

what? you are so shy? haha. Who are you? a bravery and confidence sir, probably, you are so shy in front of a pretty and sweet lady? ^^ hobby of you and her is the same. Why not??
@ lostsoul : finish july, preparation to august, you should be focus into professional, You want to me kill you when you go here ?? I'm a gentle tiger, don't want to be " war " la ...

thorny_rose wrote:

@ lostsoul : finish july, preparation to august, you should be focus into professional, You want to me kill you when you go here ?? I'm a gentle tiger, don't want to be " war " la ...

Im so scared.............

Please dont kill me. Please treat me good. I will treat you good too....mmmmmmmmmmm:D

it's a long time I'm out Expat.com. How are you all ??

thorny_rose wrote:

A tiger gain, Henrry, can you respond to the invitation to watch movie with her? ^^
Hey blacktiger, You was born in 1986???

Hi thorny_rose !,
Yes, I was born in 1986.

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Blacktiger (what an interesting name ), I like to watch movies too. Easy to past time.

The last movie I watched was Transformer 3, but quite dissappointed by the story line and it is too long either.

blacktiger_1402 wrote:

Hi,
Nice to meet you !
I like movie, I usually go to see movie alone.
If you have free time, I want to invite you go with me?

Hi Henry !
Why do you shy  with me? hihihi
I'm a black tiger, not white tiger and  i am pure vegetarian and i will not  kill or eat you.
Don't shy or scared with me!
I like to see cartoon, on 5 August, galaxy  wiil have " Smurfs" cartoon.
Do you like to see ?

blacktiger_1402 wrote:

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Blacktiger (what an interesting name ), I like to watch movies too. Easy to past time.

The last movie I watched was Transformer 3, but quite dissappointed by the story line and it is too long either.

blacktiger_1402 wrote:

Hi,
Nice to meet you !
I like movie, I usually go to see movie alone.
If you have free time, I want to invite you go with me?

Hi Henry !
Why do you shy  with me? hihihi
I'm a black tiger, not white tiger and  i am pure vegetarian and i will not  kill or eat you.
Don't shy or scared with me!
I like to see cartoon, on 5 August, galaxy  wiil have " Smurfs" cartoon.
Do you like to see ?

Hi Tigress, I feel safer now

I have reserved this show to watch with my son in Singapore Maybe you should invite someone else instead.  I am sure this show will be interesting, from cartoon to 3D.

henrylamcs wrote:

blacktiger_1402 wrote:

henrylamcs wrote:

Hi Blacktiger (what an interesting name ), I like to watch movies too. Easy to past time.

The last movie I watched was Transformer 3, but quite dissappointed by the story line and it is too long either.

Hi Henry !
Why do you shy  with me? hihihi
I'm a black tiger, not white tiger and  i am pure vegetarian and i will not  kill or eat you.
Don't shy or scared with me!
I like to see cartoon, on 5 August, galaxy  wiil have " Smurfs" cartoon.
Do you like to see ?

Hi Tigress, I feel safer now

I have reserved this show to watch with my son in Singapore Maybe you should invite someone else instead.  I am sure this show will be interesting, from cartoon to 3D.

Ok, no problem. Tks your information.
Maybe i will go with my boyfriend. See you later.