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Last activity 20 August 2006 by Sinbad

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dmscvan

It seems as if it's been rather quiet around here lately. So what's everyone been kept busy with? For me it's my thesis...

Some guesses:

many are too busy watching the World Cup to wander the expat forum...
many are enjoying the start of summer and spending all their time outside!
many of us in the Southern Hemisphere are sitting here PO'd about the arrival of winter...
or maybe all of us are waiting for someone else to post an interesting topic to respond to!

How about you? What have you been busy with?

Julien

I've got quite a lot of things to do but ... should I say it or not?

My better half left me a couple of weeks ago, and I can't concentrate on anything at the moment. Can't say I am busy but I am "somewhere else" :/

dmscvan

Ooo - sorry to hear that. I can see how you'd be somewhere else. Not able to concentrate... Perfectly understandable!

Julien

You don't have to be sorry, don't worry. I should animate a little by more the website but I can't think about it at the moment.

Pat

Julien wrote:

I should animate a little by more the website


Animate more??? You're already doing it very well! You participate to all the discussions, you never leave a topic without an answer, you always get interested in people's introductions and ask them relevant questions...

Personally I'm a bit lazy at the moment (because of the heat???). I regularly read the messages but don't take the time to reply. I'm also a bit sad because I'll soon have to leave Italy (and probably go back to Belgium) so I try to convince myself it isn't true by avoiding the topic!!!

dmscvan

Yup - I agree with Pat! Completely.

Actually, when I mentioned it's been quiet, I was just referring to what seems to me to be a general drop in activity. But I think you do a great job with the forum! Really - we're all here because of you (obviously) but I think we also all stick around because of you. Probably a lot of people are like Pat - reading but not replying (nothing wrong with that!). That's usually me too. I never start new threads, so I thought I'd make the effort this time.

Pat - Sorry to hear you're leaving. There's always so much involved with leaving a place. I can understand the avoidance! Why are you leaving?

CLGinDE

Julien: Sorry about your "somewhere else" feeling.  But you are doing a great job here.  I just found it and already check in almost every day.

As to the drop in activity, I guess it's partly World Cup.  But I'm here just about every day and don't always post because I just don't know what to say.  I'm new and still nervous about starting topics! (Not that I have a bunch of ideas rolling around in my head or anything)

Gary

Julien wrote:

My better half left me a couple of weeks ago, and I can't concentrate on anything at the moment.


I'm sorry to hear that, Julien.
Take your time. Time will heal the wounds.
A word of advice of an old fart who has 'Been there and done that', try to find something which forces you to set you mind on it, so you can forget about your problems for a while. It helps!

Julien

Thanks for your support and your friendship guys. Don't worry, I'll feel better one day. I just hope it won't take me too much time to think about something else.

How can we make the website more active? I've got a few ideas, like trying to push up the contributions in the resources-wiki ... I must write something about it as soon as I'll get enough time.

Pat

dmscvan wrote:

Pat - Sorry to hear you're leaving. There's always so much involved with leaving a place. I can understand the avoidance! Why are you leaving?


Have to go back to work on the site I depend on (I was detached here for a temporary mission).

If I had left for a new place, at least there'd have been a bit of excitement. And I've lived all too long "in the north" (I realise I feel more Mediterranean than European, but that's another debate). Anyway... still one month left, a miracle can happen in the meantime ;)

Julien

Is everybody on holidays? Looks like the website is more than very quiet now!

Gary

Julien wrote:

Is everybody on holidays?


I'm not - I refrained from posting for a while, because it seems that you 've had database problems and had to install backup versions a couple of times.
Is everything sorted out now?

manu

Not in holidays too (don't have time for that), but we have a lot of work (as usual, i know ;) )... but I visit this board twice a day :)

Julien

Yes Gary, my database was duplicated and I had to manually sort out everything (it stressed me a bit by the way). Everything should be ok now, and we're on a new server!

abitblue

I am new to this site- very cool! Actually home sick for a few days so spending lots of time online. Hopefully better before holidays in a few weeks! Julien is this site your creation?

Julien

Julien is this site your creation?


Yep ;) far from being finished but little by little ...

Sinbad

We've been zooming around between various relatives in our *whisper* 2 and a half month holiday. Quite a lot of the time we have been beyond the reach of the internet but we should be back to the civilised world soon.

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