Menu
Expat.com

Getting married as a Foreigner in Belgium (to a local)

Post new topic

brusselspob

Hey guys,

I am a British Citizen living in Brussels for the past couple of years with my Belgian partner. We have been engaged for a while and want to get married, and I wanted to know if anyone can help with some questions about the process.

When I first moved here to register my presence in Dec 17 at the commune, I did enquire briefly about how this was possible to arrange, and they listed a huge amount of documents id have to get translated, legally validated, and made up under oath using the notary at the British Embassy. It all seemed like such a hassle ( I mean in 2020 do I really need to prove as a British Citizen that UK law forbids polygamy??? Are you serious???) .

Obviously since I first registered, I now am listed as officially living here, have a Belgian ID card (Foreigner Registration not citizenship, whatever category that is, I cant remember), have paid taxes and what not. Does this change the situation now I have lived here a while? Am I able to just do as the locals do and not have to go through the Embassy, lawyers, translators and all that nonsense?

Wondered if anyone (particularly Brits) have got married here and know what the best way to do it is.

Thanks
Rob

AlexFromBelgium

Hello!

well, let's not exaggerate. Even if I do understand your point of view on that matter~

Basically you've the conditions of age, celibacy, consent and each of the spouses must respect the conditions provided by their national laws at the time of the celebration of the marriage.

And you also have the "formal" conditions from the country you'll get marry in. (meaning Belgium)
In your case, the english laws apply, and Belgium authorities have to """"""""verify"""""""" that it comply with Belgian laws.
It's mandatory and written in the Code of private international laws (dunno if my translation is accurate, but it's the code of international laws about private stuff).......
They just don't have choice...

As you're not a national, you depends on the international code and not national one... :unsure
"National" peoples don't care with most of that and are not even aware about it..., because the governments know that everything is ok between nationals.
It would be exactly the same thing if I marry a English girl in England tomorrow...



So in the end, you'll need your certificate of birth (to proof you're 18 years old+), proof that you're single and most probably the custom certificate that annoy you so much...

Official documents (meaning with apostile!!!!) in english are recognized and do not need to be translated. https://diplomatie.belgium.be/en/servic … _documents
Don't worry that much, everything is easily done in your case, but it takes time to receive all the documents and you might need to go 1-2 time at your embassy in Brussels...

I'll live the same stuff in few months/years in Vietnam, where it's a bit more difficult than you and will take nearly one year...
Example: medical check that I'm not crazy in an asylum for the insane, verify that I'm not doing a white/grey wedding even if we're living together in Belgium together since xxxxxx, interview at the Belgian embassy then with vietnamese police.
I need the approval of Belgium first to get married, then Vietnam in a short timeframe because my certificates expire soon: I would need to go from 2 to 3 times at my embassy in Vietnam (11000km away) to fetch the documents and ask the next one, my significant other has to do the same even if it's easier for her as a national, and we need to make sure none of our document expire or we need to start nearly from the beginning... it's gonna be a nightmare compare to you! )

Yes, you're lucky even if you may not believe it, trust me! :D


Have a happy wedding :cheers:

Articles to help you in your expat project in Belgium

  • Doing an internship in Belgium
    Doing an internship in Belgium

    Students usually have to do an internship to validate their academic training. What's the process of doing an ...

  • A guide to Brussels' neighbourhoods
    A guide to Brussels' neighbourhoods

    A very safe and laid-back city to live and work in, Brussels has many different sides for expats and tourists to ...

  • Buying a car in Belgium
    Buying a car in Belgium

    Some formalities apply when buying a vehicle in Belgium, both before and after the sale. Here's what to expect.

  • Buying property in Brussels
    Buying property in Brussels

    Compared with other European capitals, buying property in Brussels is very affordable. Consequently, it's ...

  • Buying a property in Belgium
    Buying a property in Belgium

    The real estate in Belgium has the reputation of being relatively cheaper than its neighbors. We'll give you ...

  • Lifestyle in Belgium
    Lifestyle in Belgium

    Belgium is a diverse country that's very friendly with newcomers. What about its traditions, festivities, and ...

  • Driving in Belgium
    Driving in Belgium

    If you're moving to Belgium, you might be interested in learning about getting a driver's license. Read on ...

  • How to make new friends in Brussels
    How to make new friends in Brussels

    As Brussels is home to such an international crowd, there are many ways newcomers to the city can make friends and ...

All of Belgium's guide articles