i married with a person in November 2019 , i m working in private firm and my salary at the time of marriage was 50k ,but we told my my husband that my slalry is 30k . my age was 35 , we got a proposal and his salary was 25k and age was 35 equal to me , and we wanted to get married because of my age , in his family he has his father mother and an elder sister , for complete one year i was living on ground floor and rest of three people were residing on the 1st floor , they have double story house , in this one year whatever i bought for me , or i shop whatever i needed , even i went lab for tests i paid for that. i bought everything with my own money . because he has to give 10k to his mom , and rest 15k he used to keep with him , i did not say anything ever and compromise with this, i shop for him even , i gifted him 4-5 shirts , shoes wallet jackets . but i did this out of love . he bought me two dresses in one year .whenevr i ordered food we both eat that
i use to go at my moms place weekly for a day and sometimes after 2-3 weeks i go to moms for three days , he doesnot like it and said it to me why u go to your moms so frequently . he askei d me that our freezer in home is old so place your new freezer , our washing machine is old so give your new washing machine .. i denied it and clearly said No . i have arranged car for him , 2lacs he arranged and 1lac 25k i have added , but i told him that my mom given this money ,
i used to make his breakfast before leaving for my work , lunch his mom made , when i came back from job at 3 lunch has been ready and i do lunch after lunch i sleep and at night , i help my mom in law in dinner .and on sundays i cook at home.
my husband lost his job a month ago .
few days back i was going to moms and i ask him to drop him he said car is not in running condition i will drop you in my bike , i said i will not go on bike i will call the cab and i will go , i said why you arranged a car, he said what a good car you arranged for me , i got angry and i came in the cab , he came to the cab ,but he did not say anything , after this he did not message me or call me for three days, after three days he called me and got angry that why i don come back to his home ,i said i m not coming because of your behaviour , he said you did misbehave with me , and then cut my call and directly he called my father . that she is not coming home , after this everything i told to my papa and my mom that he doesn't take my responsibilities and he has objection that i m coming to my mom ,please note i did not tell anything to my parents or anyone else in this 1 year of my marriage ,
papa called his father and ask them to come , father came and he was blaming me that i did everything and destroying relationships . other day my husband and his father came to take me with them , my husband apologise and ask me to come home , i came with him ,
my mom saying now i don have to cook or make anything on sundays, because i am earning , my mom saying that if your husband ask you to cook or help in the kitchen ask him to give you a separate kitchen , you will not do anything for his family now .
Nowadays i dont go out of the room and i dont talk to his sisiter and father , i spent half an hour with my mother in law , i have arranged my diet food so my breakfast ,lunch and dinner are ready made ,so i dont need to go in kitchen for my needs.
what should i do now ?
how should i move on in my life ?
should i demand for a separate kitchen ?