The one u love more, will hurt u more. How do u think ??

in a way, that is correct.

for the one you love you let down all your barriers, u become defenceless before them, you rely on them and share all your hopes and dreams, as well as fears and nightmares.

in effect, you give them the tools to love you more, or to hurt you more, if they so choose to use ur fears against you.

it is part of life, for to truly love, you have to be willing to be at your most vulnerable.

yeah..i've been there

yes , but when u say u love him more that is mean you love somebody else less than him so u can love more than one person...

i agree with you:)

we get hurt from the one we love easily, coz simply we highly expect from the loved one so many special and fullfiling things, and usualy we dont get what we expect.

and the problem here is, it gets worse when we ask for what we want or how we want to be treated, and even by doing this, still it is not the way out. Coz we wish they just do what makes us happy without us asking, and it is always dispointing to ask and not to ask too !

it is so complicated and senstive when it comes to feelings : (

I can say that is the truth, my wife is in Australia with my children and she says that they are never coming back to China.  It was simple for her, and so very difficult for me.

Because the one you love more, matter more to you. So whatever they do, will have more impact in your life, as compared to someone whom you have no feelings for.

being in love is a big risk, as you are opening the core of your heart to someone you feel will forever be there for you and make you happy, just like the fairy tales. but when thing goes sour, well...the pain is unbearable.but hey...that's just part of life.

In all ways it is correct. This is cus, we love the person so much we allow them to hurt us.

So true. Cause every little thing they do is important to you. Not only breaking your heart, the are high capable making you happy too with a tiny thing.

Well yes of course this is true. "The one u love more, will hurt u more."

But what is the alternative? Give up?

I think not.

it's true...ever just happened to me of recent.

I would say that the one u love the most has the potential to hurt u the most. that person knows quite well and knows a lot about you and where it hurts as well. they have more of an opportunity to do real damage than someone in another position. Heartache is really an awful thing but on top of that if u lose ur house, car or life because of someone u trusted and loved.

because the more u love the person the more chances of getting hurt..
but not necessarily .. he won't hurt you intentionally if he really loves you.

simple cus there something on him/her that makes you hurt and if you stop this connections things will go well.......i think.

its true,,the people you love the most its also the people who hurt you most,thats why its so hard,,but thats life need to learn from it,,,

I totally agree with that, however it's important to make sure it doesn't happen.