@roddiesho My personal experience in Brazil is different
I find officials in Brazil to be very helpful and willing to go the extra mile to assist vs the US where officials are more authoritative
My comment above is based on the below experience
I have a child born in Brazil and another born in the US
The Brazil born Child left the Hospital two days after birth with his birth certificate. The official responsible for registering the birth and issuing the birth certificate was very friendly and helpful. We couldn’t speak Portuguese so she went out of her way to help us complete the form by using Google translate on her PC
We applied for a Brazilian passport for the child and it was ready for collection in less than a week without having to pay any extra fees. When it was time to take a photo for the passport application, it was a challenged because the baby was very young but the officials did their utmost best, took their time and allowed the baby to rest in between, went the extra mile to make sure that all was done
With the US born child, we were told to wait at least 3 weeks before requesting a copy of the birth certificate and it took about 5 weeks to arrive after requesting a copy, 8 weeks in total
Routine US passport application for the child took 9 weeks to process
I recently applied for family reunion visa at the Brazilian Consulate and it was processed in just 3 days. The consular officials were very friendly and down to earth, unlike the US were officials are always on their high horses
Arrived in Brazil and went to my PF appointment to register my Consular Visa. From the Security guard at the door, up to the PF officials were nothing but good, friendly and helpful. They went out of their way to help me by calling on other officials who could speak English to come and assist and they were very happy to help. I was out of there in about an hour with my RNM number.
If an American wants to bring their spouse over to the US, they are looking at a minimum of 3 years to accomplish that and you must provide an affidavit of financial support, meaning if you are poor and Jobless then you are not entitled to love or marry a foreigner.
At the same time the spouse won’t qualify for a non immigrant visa as the spouse will be considered a potential immigrant, they don’t care if the relationship suffers
The problem here is that Americans are brainwashed to believe that anything American is the best, American travel to other countries with that mindset, tend not see anything good in other countries and expecting a red carpet to be laid down for them everywhere they go
So base on my experience, I don’t know what you or your wife is talking about.
I think your wife has a point, westerners should come down their high horses and not go and try to teach the officials how to do their Job because they feel that they are better as American/Canadian