Going for a 2nd marriage

@Aaron Meekat ,  Have seen several 2 wife marriages here where I live , of mixed nationalities and of locals. The elder or first wife treating the new wife like a slave in most cases . Constant arguments to the point of bloodshed ,police involvement . The husband if a local working himself to an early death trying to satisfy both . Having to buy a second home if /when the new wife has kids and the first wife decides she can't live with them . Expat husbands divorcing both and returning to there home countries leaving kids to live in poverty. No signs of a happy loving relationship in any 2 wife marriages I've seen . If he wants kids ADOPT ! There's thousands of orphaned kids in Indonesia that need a loving home . And I've eaten/eat both , woof woof and oink oink .