interracial dating

Try one out?

As you wish; pop over and I'll see what I can do.
PS - I don't think this site allows dating posts so I'll have to charge you for my time.

No problem for myself and my Lao wife. 
I also have various friends married with Thai, Filipino, Chinese and Mongolian wives.

lauralyn wrote:

Does true love really exist between people of different races? I did like to know or possibly try out one.

Hello Lauralyn,

Welcome to Expat-Blog,Love exist between all the people whether they are from same race or different,secondly there is nothing like true or false love ....there is only LOVE.....You cant try love ...it is natural and it happens....

Regards,
Anil

I also have a bf from another country, another race, another religious belief!

An intercultural relationship can be more interesting and rewarding, but also more challenging than one within the same culture. Especially social or religious norms, which every culture presents as dogma ("It HAS to be like this!") are often questioned in such a relationship, and the partners must be openminded and willing to compromise on those.
Altogether, intercultural couples more often break up, but those who don't can became cosmopolitan global citizens who bring our globalized world forwards!

mal wrote:

I also have a bf from another country, another race, another religious belief!

But this the half part of the truth MAL tell the rest part also .....like going well no problem....i am happy....

Regards,
Anil

beppi wrote:

An intercultural relationship can be more interesting and rewarding, but also more challenging than one within the same culture. Especially social or religious norms, which every culture presents as dogma ("It HAS to be like this!") are often questioned in such a relationship, and the partners must be openminded and willing to compromise on those.
Altogether, intercultural couples more often break up, but those who don't can became cosmopolitan global citizens who bring our globalized world forwards!

Yes you are right beppy....i agree with you

aryavrat wrote:

mal wrote:

I also have a bf from another country, another race, another religious belief!

But this the half part of the truth MAL tell the rest part also .....like going well no problem....i am happy....

Regards,
Anil

Anil wants to know my story? shall I PM you or shall I stop saying..
I haven't met him in person yet!

Ok mal, i was not knowing...if i hurt you then i am sorry

aryavrat wrote:

Ok mal, i was not knowing...if i hurt you then i am sorry

Love means never having to say you're sorry. 

Of course that exist,lauralyn! I know that is cliché, but " the real love don't find barriers...".   

John C. wrote:

aryavrat wrote:

Ok mal, i was not knowing...if i hurt you then i am sorry

Love means never having to say you're sorry. 

Hello Sir,

Yes Sir there is no SORRY and THANK YOU in love...

Regards,
Anil

Graci2014 wrote:

Of course that exist,lauralyn! I know that is cliché, but " the real love don't find barriers...".   

Dear Graci,

Love dont accept  or know any barriers...but when we say about real and unreal love then we start creating a barrier...

Regards,
Anil

yes it does exist, and it is wonderful and painful at the same time, remember you can not pick or  choose who you fall in love with it  just happens even if they are living all the way across the world

Realistingly speaking, loving someone of a different race is possible but probaly not for different culture (in most cases)and it depends where. If you have a different colour boyfriend/girlfriend in Canada or America you will be socially insulted continuously but in many other countries people just don't care. Love is mostly a transient thing between men and women so if you find somebody that excites you go for it as long as it lasts. If it ends, look at it as an opportunity for a new relationship regardless of your age.

John C. wrote:

aryavrat wrote:

Ok mal, i was not knowing...if i hurt you then i am sorry

Love means never having to say you're sorry. 

Hey John, you are wrong. Anil and myself are not lovers but friends, thats why he said me "sorry!"

mal wrote:

John C. wrote:

aryavrat wrote:

Ok mal, i was not knowing...if i hurt you then i am sorry

Love means never having to say you're sorry. 

Hey John, you are wrong. Anil and myself are not lovers but friends, thats why he said me "sorry!"

Yeah, right. 
First online friends, then personal visits, then wedding, then lots of children to be in time with overpopulation, then lots of troubles, then crying, then divorce, then more crying, then a new friend to help stop the crying, then personal visits... etc., etc., 
You think I don't know? 

Did you notice a pattern? 

I do believe wrote:

Realistingly speaking, loving someone of a different race is possible but probaly not for different culture (in most cases)and it depends where. If you have a different colour boyfriend/girlfriend in Canada or America you will be socially insulted continuously but in many other countries people just don't care. Love is mostly a transient thing between men and women so if you find somebody that excites you go for it as long as it lasts. If it ends, look at it as an opportunity for a new relationship regardless of your age.

Hi there,   

1). Interracial dating is (supposed to be) a ritual on the way to interracial marriage.
It can work ONLY IF the two lovers are on the same wave length, meaning they fit mentally (same education, same income, same everything).

The exception is this: even kings had to marry women from the low class to bring new blood in the old, stale and damaged lineage.

2). The excitement today is the disappointment tomorrow. Getting involved with somebody just because the person is available means to take you away from waiting (and looking for) that special person to spend life with FOREVER.
Expediency is the enemy of perpetuity.
I shall never get involved with a lady who comes to me bruised from her 286 failed relationships ... 

Try to experience it .. No harm 😊

If love is blind then why would it care what race you claim?

MiaCulpa wrote:

If love is blind then why would it care what race you claim?

Who said love is blind....love is not blind but people becomes blind when they are in love...

jeshi wrote:

Try to experience it .. No harm ��

How many you have tried?

Posted twice.
Internet hiccup.

John C. wrote:

aryavrat wrote:

MiaCulpa wrote:

If love is blind then why would it care what race you claim?

Who said love is blind....love is not blind but people becomes blind when they are in love...

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"... people become blind when they are in love ".

Anil,
Mother Nature allowed for love across the entire animal spectrum (man included) to be consumed only during a (short) period of blindness.

If everybody treats love with cold logic, no mating would ever take place.
There are some insects which devour their male counterpart. Why? Because he was blinded. If he knew he would be eaten while still in an ecstatic trance, he would never get close to a female.

We see many people marrying in the church with great joy and then divorcing at the Court House with great hate, but we still believe such story won't happen to us, and everybody hopes his fate will be different.
Women do not eat their partner after consuming the act of courtship. Cannibalism starts later in camouflaged ways and the subtlest of forms.

Anil, we do not know the mysteries of The Creator but some of us can see clearly what goes on even if we are not completely hardwired for understanding His reasons. 

I agree with John C. As an older person I can tell you that most love is actually lust often coupled with a selfish need to feel needed or wanted. Many interracial romances are also the fascination with a physically different kind of person. If we can come to terms with the idea that love is actually not the romanticized version of the word, perhaps we can have more successful relationships knowing that our partners fill a need within us with different needs for different people. Is my preference for Vietnamese women deviant or normal? Don't know, don't care, but I know what I like.

John C. wrote:

John C. wrote:

aryavrat wrote:

Who said love is blind....love is not blind but people becomes blind when they are in love...

===============================================
"... people become blind when they are in love ".

Anil,
Mother Nature allowed for love across the entire animal spectrum (man included) to be consumed only during a (short) period of blindness.

If everybody treats love with cold logic, no mating would ever take place.
There are some insects which devour their male counterpart. Why? Because he was blinded. If he knew he would be eaten while still in an ecstatic trance, he would never get close to a female.

We see many people marrying in the church with great joy and then divorcing at the Court House with great hate, but we still believe such story won't happen to us, and everybody hopes his fate will be different.
Women do not eat their partner after consuming the act of courtship. Cannibalism starts later in camouflaged ways and the subtlest of forms.

Anil, we do not know the mysteries of The Creator but some of us can see clearly what goes on even if we are not completely hardwired for understanding His reasons. 

Hello sir,

I am totally agreed with you but i was just kiding ....she wrote love is blind ..i told her no but people become blind...in any case blindness is common ...if love is blind then people are also became blind and if people become blind then love too will be blind.

Regards,
Anil

yes inter racial dating brings real happiness in conjugal life,brings real happiness in twos life.

Hi, yes the relationship does work.  I am in a relationship with a german boyfriend ..soon to be married.  Am so in love and excited ;-)

aryavrat wrote:

MiaCulpa wrote:

If love is blind then why would it care what race you claim?

Who said love is blind....love is not blind but people becomes blind when they are in love...

Billions of people for a few hundred years.

wangariwolff wrote:

Hi, yes the relationship does work.  I am in a relationship with a german boyfriend ..soon to be married.  Am so in love and excited ;-)

Welcome to Expat.com.
Congratulation in advance...

Regards,
Anil

Billions of people for a few hundred years.

Love cannot be expressed or defined by others experience....if you had any experience and find it blind then its ok....and moreover people say by reading books and novels

The sun rises in the east and sets in the west.

MiaCulpa wrote:

The sun rises in the east and sets in the west.

People fall in love, fall out of love and the world keeps turning.

I'm less than subtle, or so I'm informed, so I'll say it as I feel.

I really don't give a flying rats about race, skin colour or whatever else; when I see a girl, I look at her body first (Mostly the lumpy bits) and move to her face.
Once I'm past the pure lust, I tend to try to see if she's a nice person.

Of course, I'm a married man now so I've stopped looking.
However, the other day, I noticed my wife wasn't white.
Should I start to ask questions about getting married to a lady of another race or is it too late after 7 years together?

mas fred. 

You have left your run a little too late to ask questions
I have always known that my wife in not white and am quite happy with that.

Very well said my friend.

stumpy wrote:

mas fred. 

You have left your run a little too late to ask questions
I have always known that my wife in not white and am quite happy with that.

I only noticed yesterday afternoon, I think it was about 2 o'clock.
I wondered why she always liked to stay in dark rooms; I thought it was because I'm so ugly but then I find out she's not white.
My world is in tatters.

stumpy wrote:

mas fred. 

You have left your run a little too late to ask questions
I have always known that my wife in not white and am quite happy with that.

Hi there,
How are the kids: genetically improved? 

All doing well at school, especially our 7 yr old daughter.