I got a problem. a fiance working as a nurse in Riyadh.

stigandre-norway wrote:

the thing is, we were supposed tosget married and establish  a life together. now that she has been there nearly 9 months she just got more strange by the minute  and I've  had it. cheating, dating patients and so on.. one of her patients  sent me a bunch of naked pics and videos. what should i do. hand it over to whom. im so mad i don't  care what will happen . as long as killing her isn't  the option.

I do sympathize with you. I would say the best thing to do would be to have anything more to do with her. Make a fresh start elsewhere.
Dwelling on what might have been will only make you bitter and twisted. Destroy the pictures and videos, cut all ties and contact.
There is a saying "there are plenty more fish in the sea "   

She violates many rules and take advantages of her position as a nurse to patients.
This has to be stopped and therefor you need to contact her HRM and to the police or immigration with all the evidence.
She will be banned or jailed for these actions.

hi, i do sympathize with you but before you decide to report her remember you will be questioned about the stuff related to her. Perhaps you will land yourself in huge trouble.
"While seeking 'revenge', dig 2 graves, one for yourself". ~ Douglas Hourton
Its time to move on, and on one note, you must be thankful that you found out before getting married to her, think about it with a cool mind.

stigandre-norway wrote:

the thing is, we were supposed tosget married and establish  a life together. now that she has been there nearly 9 months she just got more strange by the minute  and I've  had it. cheating, dating patients and so on.. one of her patients  sent me a bunch of naked pics and videos. what should i do. hand it over to whom. im so mad i don't  care what will happen . as long as killing her isn't  the option.

What should you do? Well, regarding the fiance just forget her completely, she's not worth it. Just adopt the position that she never existed and go on with your life. It will be much better from now on.

Regarding the photos sent by her patient, if you know how to use photoshop or any other graphics program then download each photo into the program, in big bold RED letters write "SECOND HAND / USED GOODS" across each one of them and return them to the sender. He'll get the message loud and clear, and if he doesn't then he'll be stuck with a woman who'll be just as unfaithful to him as she was with you.

Sure, you could probably cause her legal problems by reporting her to her employer or police, but why bother? Is it going to do you any good? Will it make anything better? Won't you just be sinking down to her depraved level by doing so? Just let it go, and consider it a lesson in life and how to choose more wisely the next time around.

Cheers,
James    Expat-blog Experts Team

the staff at her hospital is unreachable but yes i want her to learn her lesson. shes not serious evem if she is in such a strict  country. she's  ignorant. and her mother lived there 26 years ... and also sleeps with arabs there beside work. tjis her own daughters  told me.

im not in Saudi, so how would it affect me? the thing is. they are 2 sisters and one mother there. the mother stayed there for 26 years in riyadh. and she also had her side flings beside work. im sorry but i wish to  teach them a bad lesson. they fucked me over with a bigger amount  of money as well

Am surprised that although the whole family "swings", you still want to marry her!!?? Just like the ones before me said....just forget her and cut your costs (emotional as well as material) continuing on life. If swinging and cheating people of money and emotions is "their" way of life, they eventually will gotten big time sooner than you think.

stigandre, it's very understandable that you are hurt, and badly... i saw your other post about how to get married in here and i understand that you were serious.. anyway taking revenge and teaching her a lesson might sounds reasonable to you now. but what you are doing is letting the pain consume you instead of just letting it go.. and things doesn't always look like the way it seems and i am not giving her an excuse for what she did..

All i am saying is, be happy that you knew about her before it's too late. and you live in Norway! i am sure there is plenty of girls that you can meet and fall in love with, you just have to let go of the past.

Hi all,

I don't think this type of subject is appropriate on the expat forum.

To avoid any drift, this discussion may be close subsequently.

Thank you,

Marjorie

Someday you will forget the hurt, the reason you cried and who caused you the pain. You will finally realise that the secret of being free is not revenge but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. After all, what matters is not the first , but the last chapter of your life which shows how well you ran the race. So smile, laugh, forgive, believe, love all over again and last but not the least, just MOVE ON !!

stigandre-norway wrote:

the staff at her hospital is unreachable but yes i want her to learn her lesson. shes not serious evem if she is in such a strict  country. she's  ignorant. and her mother lived there 26 years ... and also sleeps with arabs there beside work. tjis her own daughters  told me.

hi stig, she's not worth it and not worth the trouble. dude forget her. you'll find better woman near your place. btw, i saw lots of pretty cute ladies in bryggen, last year. i was just too shy to approach one. but they're friendly.

hi, i do sympathize with you but before you decide to report her remember you will be questioned about the stuff related to her. Perhaps you will land yourself in huge trouble.

How is it going to affect him? He doesn't live here.

hehe.. sorry to say im not attracted and haven't  found European  girls interesting  for at least 8 years.. i prefer asians or arabs complexion.

Turn to other page of your lifes. There are many pages for you to explore. Move On and best of Luck with the NEW CHAPTER👍

just a suggestion. any how.

so what we can help you brother

LOL - an excellent concluding question!

learningall wrote:

so what we can help you brother

@ stigandre-norway > I think that you have got some good advices from the members here.

Can we please close the topic now?

Thanks

Priscilla

i am not asking you its question to another my brother and he knows me ok.

nice said

Hello everyone,

I think everything has been said.

This topic is now close.

Thank you.