Hi Priscilla
My name is Elizabeth and I live in Lae. The second largest city in PNG.
I think the most difficult part to adjust to for me was the restrictions. It is company policy that you stay within the safe zones so there is restriction to your movements. I was not used to this because we were free to go where ever we wished in my home country without the fear of being mugged or hi-jacked or hurt in general. This is not a daily occurence but it happens.
There really is no way around this. You just have to follow the rules for your own safety. Over time you do get used to this and there are places you can go to for recreational purposes like the Yacht Club, Golf Club and restaurants. There are gym facilities, pools, an eco park, botanical gardens, etc. There isn't a cinema in Lae.
I have been living in Lae for 2 years, my husband for 3 years. The first few weeks were the hardest part because I felt extremely homesick. So, it took me a good 2 months to feel at home. I just had to find things to do that helped occupy my time. WIth a house maid there wasn't much to do around the house so I began to learn how to crotchet, bake and even started writing about my experiences in a journal I keep. I also redecorated and added personal touches to the apartment that made it feel more homely. Slowly I became less and less homesick. You might find different methods (if you are a stay at home wife/mum) to keep yourself occupied and you'll soon discover that this place grows on you.
I believe that the key to a successful integration, not only in PNG, but any new country you visit is to treat all the locals with respect. The people of PNG are friendly. A kind word, a wave or a simple greeting is enough. As I've mentioned in another thread, you will need to be careful. Familiarize yourself with the safe and unsafe zones. Be careful when driving and always be aware of your surroundings. Don't dress too flashy or carry around too much money or valuable items. There is security at all shopping centers, pharmacies and restaurants so you should be ok to pop in and out or move around.
I hope this helped you in any way.
