Thanks for the responses, After reviewing some more info, I think Costa Rica's crime rate is just getting too high for us to consider it.
According to the Tico Times article re crime stats, yes crime has increased in Costa Rica but it's kind of misleading. It's like there's tons of crime in any big city in the USA but if you don't involve yourself in criminal activities or hang out in "bad" places you are very unlikely to get hit by any crime in those big cities.
I parked my car down town the other day and forgot to lock it, came back 3 hours later, not a thing missing. Do car thefts and car breaks ins happen in Costa Rica? Yes. And in Chicago or NY or St Paul, too.
If you live in a good neighborhood out in the country side and have some common sense and some semblance of security, you are unlikely to get hit by crime. It's all about location.
If you live in a gated community you are more likely to get hit by burglary than if you live out on your own IMHO. This is not scientifically backed up but is based on many friends I have here and all the people I know who've been robbed live in a gated gringo community (it's usually an "inside job") and all the people I know who've not been robbed do not live in a gated community.
To me, living in a gated community makes you a target, especially if you live in a big luxury home along side other big luxury homes . I live in a small modest home out in the boonies, not visible from the road, I have a camera security system set up with lights that come on if you approach at night, a locked gate, the house pretty far off the road...An automatic timer that turns the lights on and off at night... a radio that stays on to talk radio... So far never a burglary.
None of my neighbors have ever been robbed, except for one Tico who works all day away from home and people knew it so he was hit. Now he has someone living with him so always someone home, so no more burglaries. Burglaries are most often done when people are known to be away for days at a time and have no security set up. And it's often an inside job where someone knows your schedule.
I don't know where you will move to where you will find less crime than Costa Rica. Certainly not Mexico, which was recently named "the #1 retirement location" by some stupid poll! Certainly not any major city in the USA either... Malaysia was named as a top place to go as was Colombia. (RU kidding me?)
I think you're over reacting to an article about stats . Stats don't tell the whole true story.
On the other hand if you are a rich gringo looking to live in a rich gringo gated community, yeah, maybe Costa Rica isn't for you. You'd be a target.