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marrymel

Hi Im Mel i was married to an egyptian nationality we have plan to exit from saudi arabia, he went to lebanon for his study for 2 years and the i came back to philippines because i resigned for my work, and to follow him in lebanon, suddenly the plan was changed he divorced me. Any advise please im really getting crazy. Our wedding held in saudi arabia dammam court.

mugtech

Where was the wedding?  Where was the divorce?  Do you have a copy of the divorce papers?  When I married in the Philippines I needed a notarized copy of my divorce from the USA.  Good luck.

bigpearl

Obviously found some one else,,,,,,, as they do.

Cheers, Steve.

bigpearl

Sorry but I have to ad that perhaps you should have sorted this out with your now, Ex Husband. Too late if as you say "divorced" The horse has bolted. Move on and prosper.

Cheers, Steve.

marrymel

thank you soon.. but it’s really unfair he left miserable and jobless, he let me go home to the philippines instead of getting visa going to lebanon he PLANNED EVERYTHING just to scape from me and leave me because im far from him

mugtech

Agree best to forget about him, but if you ever want to marry again Mel you need to find out if you are legally divorced or just abandoned.

marrymel

Yes i will, but i cannot tell or soon maybe.. i need healing first thank you Peter 😊😊

marrymel

i mean mugtech not Peter 😊😊😊

marrymel

i got marami in Saudi Arabia, no paper divorced yet.. he is Egyptian.. and Muslim

Sergey#12

I heard many hundreds of story like yours. You are not the first one and not the last one.

Sex without marriage is prohibited in Saudi Arabia and in order to go along with rules many people get married in Saudi while working and then divorce after work completion. So many people who come to work in Saudi are doing it to adapt to the situation.

Good things is that its very easy to get married in Saudi as well as to get divorce (which is impossible in Philippines).

I understand that they do this marriage with same culture (Muslim) people. But why are thousands FIlipina's getting married with Arabs? They have different culture, religion and different mentality. They treat woman differently.

So don't complain that they cheated you. They used you because you allowed them and you have no brain. Unfortunately you are not the one and there are many thousands girls like you. Hope that someday God will give you a little of brain!

PS. Sorry being harsh, but someone has to open your eyes.

bigpearl

I think one of our members stutters? But definitely agree with Sergey that one is a fool without eyes wide open. As myself and others have said you need to move on and you can only do that if the mess is cleaned up, good luck marrymel.

Cheers, Steve.

marrymel

excuse me SERGEY i don’t have brain?  well you cannot tell what will happen next, im not a kind of person about sex and money, it is all about love.. it’s easy for you to say that because you are not in my shoe, well you don’t know what’s the real story. Well that’s your opinion..

bigpearl

Perhaps Sergey was harsh, mayhap a realist and then some. We all make our beds and lie in them or if the shoe fits (you are not in my shoe) wear it. Due diligence and then some to all no matter the country or interracial relationship, honestly it could be no different if you had a Pinoy partner, there are always 2 sides to a story,,,,,,,, I constantly say "walk softly but always carry a big stick." while others say "fools rush in where angels fear to tread.)
Good luck sorting out your issues and moving on.

Cheers, Steve.

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