Is my Tunisian boyfriend just using me

GuestPoster542 · 2019-02-11T03:41:03+01:00

I am 31 and my boyfriend is 24, he lives in Tunis with his mother as he says it is very hard to find work, he has asked me for some money, I've only sent him $20 that gave him 40 ,he knows I'm a single mother and have bills to pay,and i was planning to come marry him and convert to Islam ,my major problem is trust,I feel like he's keeping alot from me and money wise I feel like he could find something? He sometimes comes home around ten at night saying he was just able to sort himself credit,he uses orange I believe for the service and says they rip him off,like he will have it for a few hours or maybe a whole day? I still don't get what it is he does to "sort himself" some change for coffee,smokes and such everyday. I swear I love him,but sadly with the money situation I can't be his provider and getting him to the states is like a struggle it seems, please share what you know or been through..if me ending things is right because he's lying..ugh anything

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Bhavna Team

Member since 01 June 2015

BhavnaTeam08 March 2023 01:07:00

#81

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Hello Windy6996,

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All the best

Bhavna

Windy6996 Active member

Member since 05 March 2023

Windy6996Active member08 March 2023 16:05:28

#82

@Bhavna thank you!

suzielewis31 New member

Member since 17 March 2023

suzielewis31New member17 March 2023 07:53:05

#83

@GuestPoster542 my friend is currently in a very similar situation however she has 5 children and rent and bills to pay and he knows she is single and pays for everything and works 2 jobs to be able to live and yet he wants her to pay the rent for the house he lives in with his mother which I think is a joke as why should she have to pay when his mother owns a shop they both smoke and have nice stuff he also has 6 dogs which he said he would like help each month with feeding them , I told my friend say no as you shouldn’t be providing for any man and his mother to live bloody rent free his mother should be the one to

do this stuff and not his girlfriend. He also don’t work because he said he wants a business with dogs and showing them. I’ve said well how can he do all that with no money I think something really isn’t right please does anyone else agree with me or am I being an overprotective friend

Ozitoun Contributor

Member since 29 November 2016

OzitounContributor17 March 2023 07:57:24

#84

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@suzielewis31 right on

lina matera Active member

Member since 14 August 2018

lina materaActive member17 March 2023 10:14:06

#85

I CAN SAY YOU ARE RIGHT.

lina matera Active member

Member since 14 August 2018

lina materaActive member17 March 2023 10:17:41

#86

@Ozitoun I also have to say your friend has a great heart to care for dogs. This is the other side of the coin....

lina matera Active member

Member since 14 August 2018

lina materaActive member17 March 2023 15:01:16

#87

@GuestPoster542 I think you are righe.

laurencenoel4 New member

Member since 18 August 2023

laurencenoel4New member21 August 2023 14:05:03

#88

Watch the movie "Bezness" from Nouri Bouzid (very famous movie maker). You'll discover the way some boys are raised... I don't know where you're from but when the balance is not balanced trustable commitments can't be comfortable.

Stop the relation as soon as possible.. It's painfull but

Be strong..

Doublezed Member

Member since 07 July 2023

DoublezedMember22 August 2023 21:37:13

#89

Moral of the story follow your gut and what your heart and mind tells you .

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GuestPoster4996Guest18 June 2024 21:21:09

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@bmordah

He is 100% scamming you! I know so many men in Tunisia and they only date the older women to use them, how can you be so stupid? TUNISIAN MEN actually prefer women younger or the same age...

kuriako Active member

Member since 13 June 2021

kuriakoActive member19 June 2024 00:41:26

#91

Love is blind..!!! 😂
@bmordah
He is 100% scamming you! I know so many men in Tunisia and they only date the older women to use them, how can you be so stupid? TUNISIAN MEN actually prefer women younger or the same age...

-@WolfBaneandHowl

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