Moroccan fairytale or after my money?

@SYatime You are right to some extent. It is important that we should not rush into any decision. We should take our time to know their true colors.

We aren't generalise they are scammer, most Moroccan are good people, just in case about choosing for marriage with them even Moroccan advice to trust your gut because you may get genuine one like 100:1

@Popolushka maybe you are lucky if you have not met any scammers. But I have heard many love scamming stories. They use lovebombing and gaslighting to make those vulnerable women to believe their love and to depend on them. Their purpose are money, visa or sex.

I am not in romantic relationship with Moroccan guy so I can not judge what happens when emotions and feelings are involved.  But for sex there are two people. if you are not being raped or forced to do sexual intercourse it is not using because both benefit from it, unless other person had different  expectations.  What do women expect from this guys if they live in two different countries? Nothing wrong with having fun and enjoy their company.

@Popolushka If you have no experiences you should not judge those victims. Yes I totally agree that both benefit from it. But the problem is the Moroccan I met actually did not love me. But he declared his love to me in a sincere way. He pretended he loved me in order to have s** with me. And I believed his love to me. That is the only reason why I have s** with him because he made me believe his love to me. Of course s** is only one thing he needed from me. He soon let me know his seriously sick father and mother and how he was not satisfied with his job. He sent me his bank account with the expectation that I will send him money. After I begged him back to me he gave me the ultimatum: if I did not marry him I did not need to contact him🤷‍♀️I swear you every word I wrote here is true.

@Popolushka

I agree with everything she says. Moroccan women are known for their reputations throughout the muslim world. They are even banned from some Middle Eastern countries.

@katebeebee50 can you tell me which countries have banned them in the Muslim world or the middle east.

Yes there are bad women in all societies but do you mean to tell me that all Moroccan women are bad??

Hi. Sure. No one said "All Moroccan women are bad" but they Have made a reputation for themselves in the muslim world of being Imoral or loose. Anyone who is Arab, North African or otherwise familiar with them know this. We are not speaking about others but Moroccans in this topic ok.

Secondly they were banned from Kuwait ( Unless they are with a first degree relative) also Saudi Arabia

"The decision last month by Saudi Arabia to ban Moroccan women [Ar] of a “young age” from traveling to Mecca, the holiest meeting site in Islam, to perform the Umrah, or minor pilgrimage, has stirred outrage in Morocco. Saudi authorities justified the ban on the suspicion that young female visa applicants (whether accompanied by their parents or not) “may have something else in mind” than strictly pious intentions, in clear reference to underground prostitution"

There was a Moroccan woman also at the center of a Prostitution scandal years ago with an Italian politician.

I am a woman and even had them flirt with me when I go there for tips or just to hang out. I will say in retrospect Moroccans are some of the nicest hospitable people. Not all are bad. Relationships for financial or material gain is rampant.

@Popolushka

Moroccans are some of the nicest hospitable people I have ever met. I agree. Wonderful. I love Morocco and Moroccan people but there is that dark side when it comes to opportunist Moroccan is an Amazing country with a nice infrastructure.  Many people want to escape the menial low paying jobs or life there. There are men on the internet who have their scripts down to a tee. They use this with people who are not familiar with them and their deception to escape poverty.  They cry about low paying jobs, wanting to go abroad,  the sick mother the responsibility and the burden of the family. Some unsuspecting people get caught up in this. They can't do that with me. I enjoy many things here. I have been on many adventures. I have some Ancestry from North Africa but I am American. I am always treated well.

@Popolushka

This is true. Yes......but the deception is the issue Popo

@Rchaudary I just like your text and your opinion!

***I lived in Morocco for 10 years. Since I was 23

I was married and have children who I was raising in Morocco.

From what I experienced from my neighbours, heard from locals in shops and saw with my own eyes, I decided to leave and take my kids with me.

Morocco has become the center of prostitution, deception and just shame for Muslims and humans in general.

I'm disgusted at how fast things took a horrible turn and how it felt like almost every person I spoke to from the qaid to the qadhi felt like they had no shame in being a total fraud and unjust baboon!

I'm planing on using all the recordings and pictures that I have from the town hall, wilaya, hospitals and the shops to expose the scams, fraud and corruption in Morocco bevause people still aren't aware.

Alhamdulillah I got my kids out and I will never allow them to marry a moroccan even who is born abroad!

I see the only pek people going hard at defending Moroccans on here is usually a moroccan so you have to wonder why that is since almost every moroccan even the scammers and disgusting users cuss out their own people.

Here in London the whole moroccan community is fractured, they don't trust eachother, they hate their own country except for a holiday and they complain about their family in Morocco basically just always wanting money and expecting hand outs.

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@katebeebee50

what do you mean? what is it about the women? excuse me for my ignorance

@Casa2022 The only thing i will say review this forum and you will be able to understand that how many people (both genders) got into chaos and it became toxic. The only thing i can say is better to be connected in your own destination , i wish not to see another post asking advice about the divorce procedures

Hi i would be very cautious. Make sure you meet his family for sure. The economy is low there having i have been there 3 times. Many dont have great jobs or have low salaries. A typical salary is like 200 USD per month which clearly isnt alot here. id be super cautious. id discuss a game plan, if you want kids or not, a plan to live in morocco first to see if hes truly after the green card. if he is defensive or says no then he probably wants a green carde. also if he doesnt have you on social media or claim you thats a huge red flag, please beware.

@aishahm asalamualaikum are you Moroccan too? I agree with everything you've said.

@aishahm 500DH is $50 USD

@aishahm no wonder moroccans in the UK date foreigners.

@Casa2022 DO NOT MARRY HER, I REPEAT DO NOT MARRY HER BUT RATHER AVOID HER !! I hate to generalise, but moroccan women are known worldwide (particularly in the arab world) for their deceiving ways. Buddy i promise you with all my heart that this woman does not give two tosses about you and her intentions are the Spouse visa and citizenship in the UK, and in this case she can only obtain this through YOU.  Also, moroccan women are renowned for their sorcery and witchcraft worldwide (Its not an urban legend either, its facts), even if they don’t personally practice it, they have connections and links who may do. They can turn your life upside down, hence for all those reasons, they should be avoided ! You have all the women in the world to fall in love with, it doesn’t have to be a moroccan woman.

At the end of the day the decision is in your hands, but if things do go horribly wrong just remember that i’m one of the guys who warned you along with many others on this thread.

    Hii have met a beautiful Moroccan lady a couple of months ago and we are going to marry soon. I am divorced with children and she has never been married. She is around 13 years younger than me. She will be living with my family when she comes to the U.K. and she is okay with this. We get along great and things appear to be fantastic and I am looking forward to marrying her. however, a few people have warned me against this, they are telling me that she will have a problem living with my family when she gets here and that she may be after a passport/money. They are questioning why she would choose a man with children from another country.  She has given me no indication that she’s a fraud and appears very genuine. I haven’t met her whole family just her immediate family and I’ll be travelling again soon to finalise the marriage. I have travelled there a few times already to sort paper work out etc each time staying in a hotel. My close friends are saying that this is odd and her male relatives should have provided me with a place to stay. They find it odd that whilst I was there I was never invited to dinner at her family home but I believe this is because the woman is religious and we had not done our nikah yet. I am spending a lot of money on buying her gifts for the wedding which she seems eager to receive. She doesn’t want to invite many people to our wedding ceremony and prefers a small do. Surely this is a good sign as she would have wanted a lavish wedding if she was just after money? Personally I have no doubts about her but other peoples opinions promoted me to make this thread, I’d be interested in other opinions. I don’t think anything I’ve described would be an immediate red flag which is why I am quite positive that she is genuine        -@Casa2022 D

ANGER ALERT !!!!

@javava88you oh my gosh seems that you have been personally hurt, btw. this could have happened to you anywhere in the world even in 1st world countries.

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@cataliyaichou I just wanted to share my experiences here. even though I was not lucky in love with moroccan guys, i still love this country. You should not be rude to me. Thank you, administrator of the forum! You have guaranteed the freedom of the speech 👍

@TheRedSeaExplorer

Women and men … and yes the chances of being a  scammer are very high. Be careful, you have children. I got my heart seriously hurt.

@inescoreiadasilva You have said it all , precaution is better than treatment

@Casa2022

@Casa2022

Can we get an update on your situation? Did you marry?!

@aishahm

i second that, you are spitting true facts.

@Casa2022

married twice to morroccan

look just save yourselve

look at statistics

close to 70% of their foreign marriages end i  well

theg are not raised well

women are like men and men are women

women are expected to work and provide for the men

but its your choice

you would be better finding a english woman and reverting her

@Popolushka

sorry sister but i think you should look at statistics  your divorce rates are very high for a muslim country.

i have met 100 of morocan people

your women are like men and men act like women

moroccan women do lie alot and are gold diggers not all, but generally

they will lie to get to the uk or france or wherever

once visa is gotten you start to realise

@Broken7766 I am not a Moroccan so dont know about divorce rates in Morocco. The problem is many foreign women meet moroccan guys on social media and danger starts here. But people I met in Morocco were Angels and very good and helpful. Men as Women should be aware of Social media danger.

@Casa2022

When you don't get introduced tonth family that's ated flag especially when you are going to marry here.

If religious then they would ensure you are Muslim and good for her deen else ita not about religious

Small wedding because the family will ask for money after and she will be sending it back by the bucket loads but that is understandable...a sacrifice to move from your country to improve the lives of more than just yourself is Common amongst morrocaans z but that can be seen as a positive too depending on your financial position

To for it, but protect you assets as far you can if in doubt and get a pre nup?

Else don't worry z your intentions are honourable and hopefully she will be one of the good ones and appreciate her opportunity for the life she is seeking.

@TheRedSeaExplorer

Be careful as my dad was in same situation,,they after money

Believe me

@aishahm a freind of mine is currently going through a very similar situation,  he found a lady in one of the clubs in morroco, she is prob 20 years younger than him,  since he has knkw her, must be 4 years now, all he has done is kept sending her gifts, and not so long back was paying for her mothers medicine, then It was medical expenses for her, she was either sick, or had an accident and needed to fund the fees. Mother passed away, and then soon after sister and her husband has a very serious car crash, I even remember going one time with him to Morocco,  he bought her a new phone, and she kept complaining about the colour....I saw red flags and tried to tell him, but he keeps saying I am just being daft assuming the worst ..

@Casa2022

Hi casa, how are things progressing? Please post an update. I too am ina. Similar position with a child and have been in a relationship with a Moroccan lady for 6years, 2 of which were through the Covid lockdown.

she wants me to buy a property in her town and suggested we use it for rental after marriage, but it’s her lifestyle that worries me, always wanting nice things and expecting gifts and support like it’s the norm.

she has a past but never talks of it because I think she knows what she was. The truth is you have to be careful because 2 months is no way enough time to see her true character. And trust me there have been moments I thought she’ll end up milking you and leave.

the problem is girls in Morocco have generally a desire to be westernised they want and act this way because most Moroccan men wouldn’t entertain this.

stay in touch with your updated post and I might share my details with you so we can have a proper chat.

@Casa2022

Don't do it! Warning. Moroccan women are ALSO notorious for being gold diggers and opportunistic..Secondly are you a muslim? You cannot marry a non muslim and marry a muslim woman. After she arrives there with you  and get a foothold she will change. Then return to her lover in Morocco with your money and citizenship and buy her family a villa. Save yourself the headache.

@aishahm

Excellent..I agree

@katebeebee50

I don't understand this statement:

"You cannot marry a non muslim and marry a muslim woman."

What......?!??!!?

@Casa2022
You cannot marry a non muslim and marry a muslim woman. - @katebeebee50

Anyone - matter what their religion - can marry anyone else - no matter what their religion - if they get married in a non-Muslim country. If they then want to *register* that marriage in Morocco then a non-Muslim male will need to show a certificate of conversion to Islam, but otherwise religion does not come into it.

@Casa2022

I like to think that not all morrocons are fraud. And I love the country and the people. However. I am currently married to a Moroccon man. He introduced me to his mother. Then very quickly proposed.  Kept our Marriage and secret. Asked me to pay for everything on the pretencebthat he would pay me back. I mean wedding. Visa. Flights. Tests. Clothing. Gifts and money.  He arrived in UK and within 4 weeks he was a different man. Not the person I fell over heels inlove with and who promised to never hurt me. We married last April. In June he met a girl who became his girlfriend.  He told he was married in UK for the paper and after 5 years he would bring her here. He became abusive. Arrogant and within 4 weeks I discovered all I ever was was a visa.  I have since cancelled his visa and I am now faced with death threats and disgusting abuse. My marriage is legal and I am only starting to put my life together. Be careful and cautios.