Dear amw1955,
On 05 May 2012, you posted concerning a question about going around Ecuador for 30-days via bus. It's now been over seven years since you wrote your question and also said that you planned to move to Ecuador at some point in your future. I'm just wondering how things have gone for you over these past, over-seven-years. I hope that you've been able to experience really positive things and that you have good feelings about how things have gone for you.
Did you go on ahead and take that bus trip as you thought you would? And did you ever move to Ecuador? If so, how did that go for you? If so, how has been your adjustments to living in a country on the equator when you are from a northern-latitude-state, Wisconsin. Also if so, have you made trips home during those ensuing years?
You wrote that you would be studying, learning, and using Spanish. I wonder how that's gone for you? At what level of comprehension and use of Spanish as a second language have you become? Please let readers know the various ways in which you have learned the beautiful language that native Ecuadorians use.
Thinking about studying and learning and using Spanish in everyday situations, I have a question about which you might be able to offer me some guidance. I have bilateral hearing loss from my U. S. Army days (Vietnam War Era vet from 1966-1970). I wear bilateral hearing aids and, even with the aids, I have some difficulties hearing what's being said in my primary language, English. Over the years I have learned to compensate by learning to rely on my vision. I'm very much more a visual learner than an auditory learner.
My husband speaks fluent Spanish and English. And although I comprehend and use Western Hemisphere Spanish at an intermediate level. he says that I need to learn conversational Spanish by listening to it spoken at the rate of native-born Ecuadorians. Therefore, when he converses with me in Spanish, his use of the language is rapid. He says that I need to learn conversational Spanish at the rate with which he uses his native tongue. I ask him to slow down because of my hearing disability.
I write all of this in order to ask a question. Do you have any helpful hints as to how I might better and more rapidly learn Spanish than I do presently in spite of the disability? (I am rated by The Department of Veterans' Affairs as 100% service-connected disabled because of not only my hearing disability but also because I have been diagnosed as a veteran with post traumatic stress and major depressive disorders.)
I'm married and am thinking of moving to Ecuador at some future time. Tony (my husband) was born and grew up in Quito and knows his native country very well. So, I shouldn't be running into a lot of problems that other ex-pats may have to face or have had to face. For sure, he said that I won't "be sold a bill of goods" because I'm a gringo. He said that he will shelter me from being exploited by unscrupulous folks who take advantage of those who were born and grew up outside Ecuador.
Any additional thoughts that you may think would be helpful to me and other non-Ecuadorians who consider moving to and becoming ex-pats are very, VERY much appreciated.
I close this post by saying, "THANK YOU," for reading, thinking about, and responding. And I again hope that things in these ensuing seven plus years have gone well for you. I send positive thoughts and regards, John Cox