Who is right

YOU are the person they invented paragraphs for!

Likely they are young and, if the male is under 25-6, not too mature. Males only achieve parity with female mentality after this age.

Men are also slow to 'commit'.

The problem with VNese females are mothers, When a daughter hits her twenties, the mother is busy encouraging her to get married. Then, when the mother has achieved that, she is after having a screaming grandchild.

So many things make a viable relationship, even more so when it involves different cultures, it's smart to to take your time and step back occasionally to revue the situation. And if he's checking out the action on dating web sites, he is obviously still in his selection process phase.

There is little you can really do other than to be a supportive friend. Anything more might cost you a friendship.

Then them work their differences out, themselves. Better to part now, than divorce later.

Anh chang nay biet co nay bao lau?

I think ur friend really love him. No any girls can accept that. I have no idea about he still love ur friend or not? Because we are not him. Anyway I'm too young for give advice hehe just read ur story. Like it

Well I think you should let her be, let her learn from her mistakes. "If it is a mistake or not"

Love or lust. People need to just be honest with one another. If I had a daughter I would tell her: "no matter how good looking, charming, generous, loving; someone before you were already tired of his bullshit".

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i was in your situation, but it's much worse than that, she's totally a golddigger. U should stay away from the relationship, coz if anything happens, they flame you for d faults.
in sex we blind haha

Hi Phuong Mai,

Love is blinded, and only your friend knows what is good to her. Even she knows that hes not a good guy for her, she still loves him. Only people who are not into the relationship can see the truth, but the ones who are into it are blinded.

And sometimes, telling them what the truth is is not a really good way. No matter who is right or who is wrong. Point is how your friend re act with the truth. Let's think about 2 cases as below:

1/ You tell her the truth, and she believes you then break up with that guy. But there are something between them/ or just because she is too much in love with him, she will come back with him and be hurt deeper and deeper. That would break her trust, then she may stay in the pain. Do ya wanna see ur friend hurt?Or if that man is not really same as what you think about him, you are the one who ruin their relationship. If she does not believe you, the relationship between you and her would be broken sooner or later

2/ In love, we always follow the heart, not the brain, if someone always follow the brain, its not a real love. Sometimes, its better for her to stay happily in the fake happiness than letting them know the real pain. Whatever will be will be. I know you worry for your friend, but you cant do anything for her in my opinion. What you can do is just be with her when she needs. If their relationship is not really serious, she will find out sooner or later then she will stand up and be stronger. Just let her experience and learn from life herself. Bad experience is not bad at all. Its just an experience that we have in life and who should thank the one who give us it as you will be stronger and know what do do from that for the next time

Anyways, I hope you can show your care to ur friend in another way. Do not stress her just let her decide for her life

One suggestion, you can also talk with her boyfriend to improve your English if you consider him as a friend :-D

Nice day to ya

Sarah

wish I had read this before posting " communication breakdown "