Filipina Online Dating - Questions for those experienced

Daytripper wrote:

Most of these women have seen hundreds of 'dic pics', and know how to manipulate you.

You mix up the bad and the good ones.
I suppouse GOLD DIGGERS have seen many dick pics,
while many GOOD women have told me they are frustrated at many MEN ask for nude, when the women expect serious conversation...

Daytripper wrote:

I really get tired of emotionally immature men. They are 'Desperados', and make it difficult for the adults.

Well.  They maked it easy for me to be very good in  comparing with them...      
There are rather many Filipinas, who like to talk with me also AFTER they approached me but I told them we cant suit as a couple.

Thanks for your comment. Sure, there are some good women on dating sites, but how many are there (5%), and why would you take the odds that 95% are scammers? You are disillusioned if you think you are someone 'special'. I have been to the Philippines, and the choices are more plentiful once you arrive. 'Desparados', are men seeking online entertainment, easy, short-term solutions, without committing to their objective. It's easy to date Filipinas once you arrive there, and like any country, there is the good and the bad. I'm headed back in April (3rd trip) for 2 months to Cagayan De Oro. I am serious about a partner, and will step away from Manila, Cebu, and 'touristy spots'. I will not marry someone within 1-2 years, and will invest the time to visit the 'right one' on a regular basis. A long-term relationship requires more than lust.

^DT, that's the disconnect -- YOU are already there.   Others are 2, 5, 10 years down that road and OL dating could be something as an option to pass time by while waiting for that day.    

I think at this time, all are aware of OL scammers.    I think those who got scammed were back when  OL dating was still new.  As long as y'all are being smart about it, I say enjoy.  

^"I think those who got scammed were back when  OL dating was still new."

Some people are stupid still 

@readey7 I found my gf on filipina Cupid, I was on there for 3-4 weeks and had already set a week to visit.

My biggest advice is to go to the Philippines and DON’T fly them over for a visit. Lots of reasons why.
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Bigger advice: Stay off filipina cupid & other dating sites, the women there are more skilled (from practice).

Lonely men don't have a chance. Better to be lonely than skinned alive.

@readey7 I found my gf on filipina Cupid, I was on there for 3-4 weeks and had already set a week to visit.

My biggest advice is to go to the Philippines and DON’T fly them over for a visit. Lots of reasons why.
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Bigger advice: Stay off filipina cupid & other dating sites, the women there are more skilled (from practice).

Lonely men don't have a chance. Better to be lonely than skinned alive.

- @Enzyte Bob

@readey7 I found my gf on filipina Cupid, I was on there for 3-4 weeks and had already set a week to visit.

My biggest advice is to go to the Philippines and DON’T fly them over for a visit. Lots of reasons why.
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Bigger advice: Stay off filipina cupid & other dating sites, the women there are more skilled (from practice).

Lonely men don't have a chance. Better to be lonely than skinned alive.

- @Enzyte Bob

Thanks for the errr advice Bob.  - @readey7

Thanks for your comment. Sure, there are some good women on dating sites, but how many are there (5%), and why would you take the odds that 95% are scammers? You are disillusioned if you think you are someone 'special'. I have been to the Philippines, and the choices are more plentiful once you arrive. 'Desparados', are men seeking online entertainment, easy, short-term solutions, without committing to their objective. It's easy to date Filipinas once you arrive there, and like any country, there is the good and the bad. I'm headed back in April (3rd trip) for 2 months to Cagayan De Oro. I am serious about a partner, and will step away from Manila, Cebu, and 'touristy spots'. I will not marry someone within 1-2 years, and will invest the time to visit the 'right one' on a regular basis. A long-term relationship requires more than lust.

- @Daytripper

Girls who have found themselves in dire straits with poor opportunities of meaningful work have turned to these dating apps to solicit sex with men. 

You missed writing "some"   

However, I do have much sympathy of older, albeit lonely men who may not be as technically savvy who have been swindled by these woman - and perhaps their 'handler', if they have one. It is a serious social issue to requires an education on the matter. 

- @kristopherryanwatson

* Females - or not 

Should I be concern my filipina girlfriend has 15 sexual ex and flings too in her 24s?

She firstly say it is 10, but after one more month in LDR she admit 15 and saying she lied coz she is shy. I personaly have 21 ex but in her age i was less. Should i be concerned? Also i know she dated with foreigners before, should i ask how many she slept with?

I trust her she is different now, she is hard working, i know well her job as she take care of old lady, i know it coz we videocall a lot of hours every day several months. She is no partying anymore like when she was younger but im still kinda jealous. Even if I trust her she is serious with me. What should i do? Thanks