Pros and Cons of Retiring/Living in the Philippines
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The more I think about this subject the more I seem to be persuading myself that the Philippines is not a great place to retire, contrary to what others think and every body is entitled to their opinion.So after reading some of the recent posts, I have broken it down into three big, big negatives. Firstly corruption, which seems to be everywhere in the Philippines. Secondly the amount of bureaucratic red tape just to do the simplest of things, and thirdly the Filipino attitude to learning new things and improving themselves...I just find it very hard at the moment, even to consider living in a country with these three problems. Eating rice three times a day does not help either. I am wondering if there is a better country to retire to although I would still want to be with my Filipina girlfriend and daughter. I understand Argentina and Costa Rica may be good choices. - @Cherryann01
@Cherryann01's questions.
3. And in regards your third point, the Phils folk are always wary of new ideas, so just be ready to grin and bear through their obstinacy. Accept their old fashioned ways, smile whenever you're with them as often and sincerely as you can. And, you'll be much happier.
"The World's Best Places to Retire in 2022 are:  10. Uruguay · 9. Spain · 8. Malta · 7. France · 6. Ecuador · 5. Colombia · 4. Portugal · 3. Mexico · 2. Costa Rica · 1. Panama."Of interest, the Philippines is not on their list ... for whatever reason, ... and for whatever that may mean- @PalawOne
One size does not fit all.
Yes - There is corruption; but not enough to affect what you need to do.
And yes, I am an Older Fella with a much younger Filipina which I admit that I appreciate for the companionship, affection, and caregiver benefits.
@Cherryann01
@Cherryann01 I am retired here now and am also a Permanent Resident. I wrote a blog about retiring here. It is at https://timotraveling.blogspot.com/2015/06/retire-in-philippines.html I see what you are saying, But, on the other hand there are also drawbacks to staying in our home countries. For me a big one is "chemtrails." Where I lived in the USA, not far from two international airports, the skies were covered most days with chemtrails. I must say that, in the Philippines, it is really comforting to look up and see clear blue skies (when it is not raining.) We are not being sprayed like bugs in the Philippines.
The more I think about this subject the more I seem to be persuading myself that the Philippines is not a great place to retire, contrary to what others think and every body is entitled to their opinion.So after reading some of the recent posts, I have broken it down into three big, big negatives. Firstly corruption, which seems to be everywhere in the Philippines. Secondly the amount of bureaucratic red tape just to do the simplest of things, and thirdly the Filipino attitude to learning new things and improving themselves...I just find it very hard at the moment, even to consider living in a country with these three problems. Eating rice three times a day does not help either. I am wondering if there is a better country to retire to although I would still want to be with my Filipina girlfriend and daughter. I understand Argentina and Costa Rica may be good choices. - @Cherryann01`One can well understand your thinking, Cherryann.But if one can say, don't let it upset you!  Thinking of retirement is meant to be an enjoyable past-tim
1. Corruption is endemic, so accept it. For a simple retirement, you won't face it all that often. But just ready to pay under the table. Set a limit, and go with their flow. Easy. Most things will only cost a pizza or two delivered to the office concerned.Â2. Your second concern, the red tape is annoying, but can often be related to again, pizzas. It's just an obstacle course, that with time, you will get through eventually.3. And in regards your third point, the Phils folk are always wary of new ideas, so just be ready to grin and bear through their obstinacy. Accept their old fashioned ways, smile whenever you're with them as often and sincerely as you can. And, you'll be much happier.So as to the question, is the Phils a good place to retire? Well yes, on balance, a lot of people do find it to be so.And numbers tend not to lie.But you're wise to question any assumptions about different places to retire, as you are doing, and you have obviously been giving your decision some thought.That's simply being very sensible indeed.So, maybe websites such as https://internationalliving.com/the-bes … to-retire/ maybe of help. This site has recently conducted a major study into the main world choices for locations for retirement, and found:"The World's Best Places to Retire in 2022 are:  10. Uruguay · 9. Spain · 8. Malta · 7. France · 6. Ecuador · 5. Colombia · 4. Portugal · 3. Mexico · 2. Costa Rica · 1. Panama."Of interest, the Philippines is not on their list ... for whatever reason, ... and for whatever that may meanSo I guess what I'm saying is .. get lots of info, as you are obviously doing .. and enjoy your selection process!- @PalawOne
When I watched the you tube video of retiring in Argentina I only saw the one, just caught my eye, so I checked it out and it does have a lot of appeal. Rather than a tropical environment, Argentina is similar to the UK with four distinct seasons (Not sure about Patagonia). The video I watched also mentioned that like the UK, free Health Care is available to all, including Ex Pats (It did recommend taking out private medical insurance though). All in all it looked like a good place to retire.
@Enzyte Bob A simple answer to that one Bob. Like I said before in another post, I was married before, the solicitors managed to get 45% of my main pension for my ex so doing some calculations, I would not have a very comfortable retirement here in the UK. There is also now my Filipino girlfriend and daughter to consider. Believe me, if I had the choice and enough cash, I would look to move us all elsewhere.
Noice
coach 53 said: Spain I skiped because it can be 200 meters deep to reach water in own well*************************************************************I would just call up the water company and have the water on.- @Enzyte Bob
I find this post useful. I’m considering our next move next June 2023.Phils or back to the States are the considerations.I’ve never been to Phils. Just the States and my current South Africa residence. I’m due for a move next June 2023.I’m 72 y/o with a much younger Filipina. Both of us are professionals - she a Civil Engineer with me a PhD ( Economist).With these inputs one is likely to strongly consider returning to the North Central Region of the States. This is her preference, which I was also considering.Corruption remains a mess. No justifying it however apparently enabling. Two pizzas or several hundred millions of dollars, so-called ‘success fee’, on an aerodynamic contract. Unfortunately, it’s a way of life couched in various guises, including in corporate tender bids.- @aerotoolkitr
Perhaps you can COMBINE your skills and start a business in Phils in which your wife's skills would be needed?  Phils is sure short of skilled Engineers... Its an other question if you can find enough of interesting paying customers. Some such can be solved though by KNOWLEDGE and better equipment making own business much more effective than competition and by that earn GOOD from just normal in Phils low paying customers...
I have told many times I want to live faaaaaar from neighbours, so it would be even more far from water companies...Â
@coach53I have told many times I want to live faaaaaar from neighbours, so it would be even more far from water companies...ÂI really don't think you have too much to worry about from neighbours - word travels fast in the Philippines- @Lotus Eater
@coach53I have told many times I want to live faaaaaar from neighbours, so it would be even more far from water companies...ÂI really don't think you have too much to worry about from neighbours - word travels fast in the Philippines- @Lotus Eater
how come you have NEVER managed to correct me...?
Depends on what you want in retirement. Are you married, single, have children, want children, your age, sex and wants in life. If married, is your wife a Filipina who misses her family? With the new Social Security rules now paying benefits to overseas born children of recipients, the Philippines is way more attractive to the single older man.- @Lat61
I'm sure the neighbors appreciated this.
You also need to take into account if you have children. Disease and lack of proper medical care is a nightmare. Education system doesn't meet minimum international standards either. It adds alot of stress to living in a third world country. I would have no issues with living in the Philippines if I didn't have children. But I have two now and we will be leaving as soon as my wife finishes college. My friend is about to have a baby and is also planning to leave after bearing witness to my experiences with my children. Notice those that hype living in a third world country never mention children.Â- @wrevans02
Summary:
If being interested - as soon as can read, most subjects can be learned self if have access to info.
If having own business, then no exams are needed (except if needing a licence demanding such) just needing knowledge.
@coach53 said. . . .I have told many times I want to live faaaaaar from neighbours, so it would be even more far from water companies...Â***********************************************************************- @Enzyte BobI'm sure the neighbors appreciated this.
Private schools are the answer, and not expensive, but means living in a larger city. Kept me in Cebu for several years but worth it. Also the medical, dental are all better. By the way, a few medium sized cities like Dumaguete have care and schools that meet western standards also.- @pnwcyclist
@Cherryann01 Ok, thanks for the nice response, I appreciate it. Terrorism, yes it's definitely possible with the Islamic extremists situated in Mindanao, but in the US you can get shot repeatedly at a school or a McDonalds, so. Also, if you do your research, you will see that it's not so rampant as the Phils govt would like you to believe.  The govt here doesn't take kindly to any thoughts that oppose their ideology so they would consider anyone who opposes them terrorists. I kept asking my wife when I first arrived here why they have guards checking vehicles for bombs at the malls and inspecting peoples purses and back packs upon entering the malls. She replied "prevention is better than the cure" and then I asked "how many bombings have there been at the malls or anywhere in Cebu" and the replied "none that I know of". People here give up their civil liberties for fear. I understand, I really do, but I don't like it! In regards to food, they have lots of flavored yogurt..are you kidding? I've bought strawberry, mango, peach, raspberry to name a few, also they have good bread if you know where to look and what brand to buy. I like wheat bread, but usually it's really dry, but there is a brand of wheat bread called Ichipan that is awesome. Furthermore, they have lots of different kinds of jam as well, but like I wrote in my previous post, quality food here is about the same as it is in the US, not inexpensive. Affordable, but again, not inexpensive. Anyway, it sounds as though you've been to the Phils enough to make an informed decision so good luck with your decision. One last thing. The obstinacy here is suffocating to say the least and the customer service. I'm sorry, what customer service. Most stores, and I mean like at the malls and such, have the most horrific customer service ever. I asked on many occasions about if they carried an item and the most popular response from any clerks is "no stocks" even though when I walked around the isle, I would find the item I was searching for! I know the reason for this. These clerks get paid a pittance, so why bother knowing about the products in the store. If the employers here payed the employees a little more money, they wouldn't huddle in groups of 5 or more in the store doing absolutely nothing but shooting the BS. Anyway, however annoying things can be, I still enjoy living here. Again, good luck!
 Most stores, and I mean like at the malls and such, have the most horrific customer service ever. I asked on many occasions about if they carried an item and the most popular response from any clerks is "no stocks" even though when I walked around the isle, I would find the item I was searching for! I know the reason for this. These clerks get paid a pittance, so why bother knowing about the products in the store. If the employers here payed the employees a little more money, they wouldn't huddle in groups of 5 or more in the store doing absolutely nothing but shooting the BS. Anyway, however annoying things can be, I still enjoy living here. Again, good luck!
- @whackerdog123
whackerdog123 said:
I asked on many occasions about if they carried an item and the most popular response from any clerks is "no stocks" even though when I walked around the isle, I would find the item I was searching for! I know the reason for this. These clerks get paid a pittance, so why bother knowing about the products in the store. If the employers here payed the employees a little more money, they wouldn't huddle in groups of 5 or more in the store doing absolutely nothing but shooting the BS. Anyway, however annoying things can be, I still enjoy living here. Again, good luck!
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I agree with many of your with your assessments, but I've had excellent customer service, it may have changed since covid-19. I'm in the Manila area, with trips to big name stores in the mall, it seemed the service was overkill. Especially in Ace Hardware, lots of customer service people, too many if you like to browse around.
When I've purchased things that were packaged (small appliances) they would open the box and inspect it, one time they checked a remote doorbell to see if it works and when I bought an electric fan, they plugged it in. I find customer service in larger retail business in the states very poor.
Generally retail customer service people are all paid poorly in the US/Philippines.
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For food and diet, I met and married my Filipino wife in the states. So we always had an Americanized diet, when she had Filipino friends over she would have Philippine dishes for them.
Now that we live in NCR (National Capitol Region) with her family, I still get mostly my American diet while the rest of the family (wife, stepsons, daughter in law, housekeeper) have Filipino meals.
My American diet is only limited on what's available at S&R or Lander's, so my meals are expensive.
Now when it comes to sweet pasta, I love it. My wife likes the Hunts Tomato products (sauce and paste). Also while the rest of the family eats Spaghetti, my pasta is Fusilli (miniature Rigatoni). I suppose the reason for Filipino nationals are using hot dogs in their spaghetti because it's cheaper and more available than ground 80/20 beef imported ground beef. Â
I miss my Angus ground beef and my cold cuts on onion rolls with Land of Lakes Cheese.
I also miss Ham & Cheese Hoagies & Steak Hoagies while watching Sunday afternoon football.
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