oh wow, very interesting.
marriage is generally only allowed when two hearts meet and they agree with each other. not just simply find any reason and force them to be together. one should think what they like and dislike if both have most of the same then they are eligible for marriage. their commitment to each other is a commitment for life and growing their relationship. others have no right to interfere in their matter. they should feel ashamed of their act. this is a very interesting talk for many of the common workers here in Pakistan. they have the urge to steal, feel jealous very quickly and they also feel their standards are very shallow. and guess what i also happened to find out the secret of the men and women who force others adult children in to marriages that do not match and do not agree at all. they try to get the more beautiful one its just the entertainment of sex life that they want to enjoy. rest of the life they keep fighting and crying like babies whom never took care of. what all wars happen indoors no body knows.
Another thing found about the south Asian countries is that they go in the series in order to steal others precious wife or wives. something that Muslims takes a lot of time to work on and takes a decision which is late and expensive as well as problematic and painful. they say about the prophets that their work was not easy but i would say that it was hard work but didn't mention that it is painful.
and about the marriage thing others here show that they can afford more than the groom and they are better than the groom unlike what i feel should be. I believe men cannot control themselves from the urge of sex and they have to give in to the women or under their control and the last book given to the last prophet was the most accurate one in order to get to do the things the right way correctly. If tried to force more things into what is wrong and shown correct then that is falsification and that should be punished as it delivers the wrong name to the book and defames it. and there should be legal cases against such defamation as well as fine and punishments. but the problem comes in when people don't understand why they were punished by what was their desire in life. it is only a desire they either have made short cuts or they manipulated something which was important for someone in higher authority.