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How to ID ladyboys/transgender, positively?

Ahyes

Ok. So that I’m only interested in meeting genuine 100% natural born females. But there are some  transgender who are not forthcoming about themselves. How can we positively ID if someone is or isn’t the gender they claim to be?

In Thailand their ID card identities them as their birth sex even if they had transgender surgery. How about in the Philippines?

I’m not discriminating here btw. I’m only trying to keep it real so I’m not tricked. Thank you.

Ahyes

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Fred

Well, when you hug a lady, just ask if that's a pile of loose change in their pocket.

FindlayMacD

If they stretch their arm out as far as possible a mans arm will only go around 95% straight but a womans arm will go past 100% to around 105 to 110%, this is because the upper arm muscle in a man develops much more in a man. Try it out, you'll see I'm right.

Yogi007

Depends how old they are.

As they get on in years ,,they’ve usually got hair growing out of their ears like the rest of us.

If they roll their own cigarettes , drink pints of Guinness & have axle grease under their nails,,that’s probably another indication they might be a bloke.

Fred

I wait to see if they fart in bed. Only men do that.

FindlayMacD

Hahahaha.

pej1111

Just ask them.  Filipino's don't lie about this, why would they?  As they know that one day/night you will find out if they are a LB or Filipina.


One thing you will learn about expat life here in the Philippines, people don't care what you do, as long as you don't hurt anyone one.

Enzyte Bob

Well if you get your mind off walking street 99% of the guess work will be solved.

daenr

Most ladyboys overdo their ersatz feminity. Look for broad shoulders and exaggerated or over-effeminate body language, and you are well into differentiating them from those who are women from the get-go. I suspect that if you ask them what they are looking for in a man, the women will give different answers than the average ladyboy or bar girl. Practice, practice...

lasvegan

I agree! Just ask! They will be flattered I'm sure!

Yogi007

daenr wrote:

Most ladyboys overdo their ersatz feminity. Look for broad shoulders and exaggerated or over-effeminate body language, and you are well into differentiating them from those who are women from the get-go. I suspect that if you ask them what they are looking for in a man, the women will give different answers than the average ladyboy or bar girl. Practice, practice...


The last time I asked a woman here “ what she was looking for in a man”.      MONEY.😆😆

But back to the point....

Yogi has noticed the feet......the man toes are a good sign.
Problem is....it’s when you see them.    Better hope it’s not next morning & you see TWO sets of men’s feet sticking out from under the sheets.

That’s how Yogi found out.   Gave the grog away after that,

danzb

Men have Adam's apple. Look at their neck, feel it if you have to.

FilAmericanMom

ID's can be forged.

Men have an Adam's apple. But it is also possible that women might develop a lump on their throat, which might be mistaken as an Adam's apple, due to a medical condition.

A man might try to emulate a woman's voice. It will sound a bit nasal. But then again, I sounded like that for 2 weeks while recovering from laryngitis. LOL.

Profiles of men and women are different. With men, they tend to be broad at the shoulders and taper towards the hip. With women, it's the opposite. Though it might not be possible to make shoulders narrower (it could be painful too), hip augmentation can be done to make the tapering towards the hip more subtle. Also, some women have narrow hips, which might make one mistake them for a man.

So, how can one truly positively identify whether one is male or female?

An MRI, or a DNA test.

We could change how we look, or speak, or act. But we can't change what's inside us or the genetic identity that flows in our veins.

Just my 2 cents.

Ahyes

Thanks fellas. I was hoping for the ID check. Like I said in Thailand that’s how you can tell. IDs these days are very difficult to forge but I suppose it can be attempted.

So it’s a No on the ID check?

Fred

A friend told me the perfect way to identify them.
Seems you get to bed and, if there's a sword fight between two sausages, it's a ladyboy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lqki8_Z51Ig

Burgos24

New to this post. Just came back from Manila which is over-crowded with ladyboys. One thing that doesn't get mentioned is the ladyboy scam. The physical traits suggest female. She shows photos of her naked (red flag) to confirm her female ness (fake photo). Shows fake ID because you never know their real name. Even if you ask they lie. So now begins the scam. So you go to the hotel where all is revealed after you have handed over your money. When you ask for money back they refuse. At which time they msg their uncle on the basis of violence. And the uncle threatens to call the police unless you hand over 10,000 pesos. I respect the honest ladyboys but the scams and lies are worse. When you ask and they outright lie then what more can you do. If you have a problem with a bar girl you can often complain to mama. If you scammed by a street worker then you are on your own. Basically avoid all street workers and pay a bit extra for a ar girl.

Another physical feature I think is feet. Men have longer and wider feet and thicker toes. Pays to look down if you can. Also ladyboys who wear sandals will tend to slap their sandals when walking. Another red flag is price. Ladyboys will often quote you a low price compared to real females as way of luring you-the bargain trap.

Fred

So you go to the hotel where all is revealed after you have handed over your money. When you ask for money back they refuse. - @Burgos2

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Of course you're going to get ripped off, you're dealing with people who are out to screw you.

This isn't as filthy.

Enzyte Bob

Burgos24 said. . . . New to this post. Just came back from Manila which is over-crowded with ladyboys. One thing that doesn't get mentioned is the ladyboy scam. The physical traits suggest female. She shows photos of her naked (red flag) to confirm her female ness (fake photo). Shows fake ID because you never know their real name. Even if you ask they lie. So now begins the scam. So you go to the hotel where all is revealed after you have handed over your money. When you ask for money back they refuse. At which time they msg their uncle on the basis of violence. And the uncle threatens to call the police unless you hand over 10,000 pesos. I respect the honest ladyboys but the scams and lies are worse. When you ask and they outright lie then what more can you do. If you have a problem with a bar girl you can often complain to mama. If you scammed by a street worker then you are on your own. Basically avoid all street workers and pay a bit extra for a ar girl.
Another physical feature I think is feet. Men have longer and wider feet and thicker toes. Pays to look down if you can. Also ladyboys who wear sandals will tend to slap their sandals when walking. Another red flag is price. Ladyboys will often quote you a low price compared to real females as way of luring you-the bargain trap.

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Your name tells the story, Sexcation gone wrong. So you respect honest Ladyboys? I have some news for you, whether they are ladyboys, bar girls or free lancers, the scam is on.


What do you think they are? Sunday School Teachers?


Excuse Mam, can I see your toes?

Fred

What do you think they are? Sunday School Teachers?
- @Enzyte Bob

For the right money, I'm sure they can be.

However ......


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Cherryann01

Just watch Crocodile Dundee

pascal varenio

@Burgos24

they can have ID card Female....

Lotus Eater

Make no mistake there are some devastatingly attractive ladyboys in the Philippines. The first timer to the country can easily be taken in especially when they have imbibed on one too many libations. " Hi my name is Nigel from Sutton Coldfield, I'm the new guy in town, pleased to meet you🤓"


Ladyboys will catch your eye quickly and give you the come on and before you know it you're hooked.

Many Filipina's are attracted to ladyboys that are highly respected for their intelligence and 'street cred' confident manner which many filipina's lack. I have had conversations with ladyboys that I could never have with a Filipina.

The one major giveaway that has not been mentioned here is height. If you are perusing dating sites check the physical details . Any female over the height of 5'5" should ring alarm bells. My first GF in Phils was 5'6" but one of the exceptions wink.png

Enzyte Bob

Lotus Eater said. . . .Make no mistake there are some devastatingly attractive ladyboys in the Philippines. The first timer to the country can easily be taken in especially when they have imbibed on one too many libations.


Ladyboys will catch your eye quickly and give you the come on and before you know it you're hooked.

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Just think if Burgos24 was looking for a ladyboy and found out she was a woman and demanded his money back.


When in doubt: I'll show you mine, if you show me yours.

Lotus Eater

@Enzyte Bob

Just think if Burgos24 was looking for a ladyboy and found out she was a woman and demanded his money back.


Yeah but what if she said she was ok with anal sex?

Enzyte Bob

Caveat Emptor


Mr Burgos Street 24 seemed to know his way around bar girls & freelancers. He mentioned he saw her picture so he must have used a dating site.


He would have been smart to use one of those rent a room by the hour and instead of taking her to his hotel. I use the term her because he under that opinion.

Fred

@Enzyte Bob
Just think if Burgos24 was looking for a ladyboy and found out she was a woman and demanded his money back.
Yeah but what if she said she was ok with anal sex? - @Lotus Eater

This thread invites dirty comments.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I see men who use prostitution as bad jokes open for ridicule.


It might be a good time to close it.

Lotus Eater

@Fred

I do not see the term ‘anal sex’ as a dirty comment. The gay community would take offence Fred. This is a cosmopolitan open minded Forum that does not need puritanical statements like that.

Enzyte Bob

Fred said.  .. .This thread invites dirty comments. I don't know about the rest of you, but I see men who use prostitution as bad jokes open for ridicule.It might be a good time to close it.

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Well Fred the only implied bad comment was your photo on post #19 and your links on post  #15  #16. Plus your comment on post #5.

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