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Last activity 21 June 2021 by MMuzzammil

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zahraiftikharrNew member19 June 2021 06:15:50

i got married around two years ago november 2019 . i am an educationist and was working woman who was earning 50k.. my husband was was earning 25k . my age was 35 years and he was also of the same age . arranged marriage it was, i compromised with his salary and got married and i had hope that he is educated he will do something to increase his pay , from day one i pay for my everything ,my clothes, accessories even i order food for myself and even for him as well .
The big point is he does not value me , he ignore this thing that everything i m doing in life by myself . in my life no change except my living place changed and he does sex with me .
in january 2021 he lost his job , i got to know that he is very lazy in my point of view and he is not capable to get a good job . In september 2020 i got to know after his medical test ,as we were trying for the baby , but according to his medical report he has no sperms . he has 0 sperms ,it was shocking for me , ,
presently i am at my moms place ,i came here to meet my mom 3 days ago , and he did not call me for once .
i am very disappointed , should i end this marriage ?

abyyy83Member19 June 2021 06:41:24

First of all don’t jumb into any decision . Sit together speak open your mind and share both your problems try to sort it if it’s not work out ask help from
Your close friends or family members : it’s very easy to break a relationship

instaday69New member19 June 2021 07:06:05

Dear,

First of all I'm sorry that you feel this way. You and your husband should take an appointment to see a therapist. Sit down and talk about your issues and concerns with them. Marriage is about equality. It's not about one person at all. Please before you do anything drastic kindly follow my advice. Thank you, stay safe. God bless.

sabeerepMember19 June 2021 07:45:12

dont jump into quick decission w/out thing more

BlackSeaDragonNew member19 June 2021 08:40:12

Do not break a marriage just like that. It's very painful to go through a breakdown of a marriage. Agree up with him to meet up with a proper marriage counseller.

EMMAROBINSONMember19 June 2021 13:14:08

You know everything about him already and it's up to you if you will tolerate those people in you life. If somene doesn't care about you why would you give them time. I don't know the context of the situation, you're the only one who knows the details. But it's your life and you choose the kinds of people who stay and those that is not improving it.

Santy100New member20 June 2021 08:00:33

dear friend,

what do you expect from a marriage relationship ?
are you clear in it - yes or no ?
and do you get at least 50% of your realistic expectations ?

here from your observations - you got a robot rather than a husband ...

so why should you hang around with someone who only exploits you ?

think and act wisely ...

revert for any support...
thanks ...

MMuzzammilMember21 June 2021 07:37:24

Hi, so sad .. you can plan your own life.

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