I'm an expat, of course I pack my suitcase with hometown favorites every time I visit home
Let's address one of the truest stereotypes! Many of us, especially those who seldom visit home, travel with nearly empty suitcases only to return laden with local delicacies. Who in France hasn't smuggled back some cheese or pastries? Italians are known for stashing homemade tomato sauce and various jars, pasta packages, and real Parmesan cheese. It's a cliché, sure, but there's immense comfort in opening your cupboard to find familiar foods from home.
I'm an expat, of course I mostly hang out with fellow expatriates
There's a kernel of truth here, but it's not the whole story. Often, connecting with other expatriates, particularly when you first arrive, can offer reassurance and make socializing easier. The initial challenges of engaging with locals due to cultural differences or language barriers can be daunting. Many factors might drive a newcomer to seek comfort among those facing similar adjustments. However, over time, many expats also form deep, meaningful relationships with locals, both platonic and romantic. It just takes time.
I'm an expat, of course, everyone thinks I'm on vacation all year
We've all heard comments from that one relative who thinks living abroad is a perpetual beach holiday. We wish it were true! Reality depends heavily on your host country. In places like Finland, beach days are few and far between. Like anyone else, expats must work to earn a living — not all are influencers or digital nomads. While we might post glamorous photos of scenic spots, our daily lives often involve more work than play.
I'm an expat, of course I have a dream job and earn tons of money
If only this were universally true! While many expatriates do land dream jobs that pay well, this isn't everyone's experience. Job satisfaction and financial rewards vary based on individual circumstances and the economic conditions of the host country. A high salary does not always equate to a high quality of life, particularly in regions where the cost of living mirrors or exceeds income. The true enrichment from expatriation often comes in the form of cultural wealth.
I'm an expat, of course I dine on exotic cuisine every day
Initially, the thrill of culinary exploration is irresistible. In Japan, you might savor exquisite ramen; in the US, perhaps the finest burgers; and in Mexico, authentic tacos. Eventually, the novelty may wane, and simpler, lighter meals become appealing — our waistlines insist on it! Regardless of location, basic staples like fruits, vegetables, meats, and grains are universally available, which we often end up cooking in our own style.
I'm an expat, of course I've become an expert on local culture
Living abroad does afford a deeper understanding of local culture than brief tourist visits or second-hand accounts can provide. However, mastery of local nuances is not guaranteed and varies widely depending on one's immersion and duration of stay. Some subtleties of culture are elusive, and despite years abroad, some expats may never fully grasp them. Still, many of us do gain significant insights and eagerly share these when we return home.
I'm an expat, of course, I can't stop talking about my experiences abroad
"Back when I was in New York..." (insert city of choice), some might picture the stereotype of the annoying braggart who compares everything to their life abroad. While nostalgia often colors our stories, discussing our experiences isn't about boasting but sharing the joy of our unique journey. It's rewarding, though we understand it might be tiresome for some, and we're open to that feedback.
I'm an expat, of course if I've returned home, I'm likely to move again
Returning from an extended stay abroad isn't straightforward. It's almost like re-adapting to a once-familiar culture, which is now made strange. This transition can be challenging, both mentally and logistically. Many choose to go abroad again, preferring their overseas lifestyle. However, others return eager to reconnect with their roots, their time abroad having satiated their wanderlust. As with all things expat, individual experiences vary.
What are your additions to the "I'm an expat, of course..." narrative?
