Networking etiquette in Copenhagen
Now that you know how to network socially and build a professional network, its time to talk about the dos and donts of networking etiquette in Copenhagen. Here are some tips for getting started.
Acceptable topics to discuss in Copenhagen
Most of the Nordic countries keep conversation topics light: politics, personal matters, and questionable conversation starters are best left at home. Asking about places to check out in Copenhagen or upcoming holiday plans are good casual topics, especially if you are the new guy in the office.
The dress code in Copenhagen
Networking is all about first impressions. Although the dress code in Denmark is generally casual, putting on a nice outfit and making yourself presentable will help kick your networking up a notch.
For ladies, a skirt suit or dress pants with a nice blouse is a good idea. Keep the makeup light and natural as heavy and dramatic makeup is not the norm in Copenhagen. For men, a good pair of slacks in navy, beige or black with a button-down shirt in a neutral colour is a safe option. Skip the tie ' even if you are in the financial sector or need to dress up for an event, a bowtie will suffice.
If you are working with high-profile clients or socialising in circles with company executives, expect a formal dress code: three-piece suits for men and evening gowns for ladies are the norm.
The do's and don'ts in Copenhagen
Do arrive on time: Danes are very punctual. Arriving on time is the best option unless you are attending large events. Sizeable meetups and networking opportunities give you a bit of leeway to arrive once people have relaxed with a drink in hand.
If you are running late and won't be able to make it on time for a smaller dinner party or event, let your host know that you are on your way. Read more about adjusting to the local culture [hyperlink to article].
Do shake hands when you meet new people, whether ladies or gentlemen. Skip the popular European protocol of kisses on the cheek and rather work on perfecting your firm handshake.
The same goes for touching, even if it is just a casual tap on the shoulder or pat on the back. Observe how Danes in the workplace act and behave accordingly.
Don't wear your shoes inside for small get-togethers and informal dinners: Perhaps one of your new colleagues has invited you to dinner at their home. Remember to take off your shoes when you step inside.
Don't be surprised if you visit a young company or tech start-up and find that some of the employees have left their outside shoes at the door. If you are uncomfortable walking around in your socks, take along your own pair of indoor slippers.
Don't feel pressured to drink alcohol at events, whether formal or informal. Alcohol consumption in Denmark is common at scheduled workplace events. It is perfectly fine to stick to juice or water if you do not drink alcohol. However, do remember to participate in toasts by lifting your glass when someone gives a toast and says 'skål'.
