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Tells me I'm her husband

Last activity 25 May 2021 by Richard Sanchez

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warmstrong92404

is this true I had her move in with me because she wasn't  working and her mother was helping her she worked for 2 weeks and quit now I'm thinking about asking her to leave Puerta plata  confusion

planner

There will be a lot of questions needing answers in order to help you.

I suggest you speak with a good lawyer and protect yourself immediately.  Sometimes being a nice guy can backfire!   See a lawyer right away and do not tell her or anyone you are doing that!

I can recommend a good lawyer if you don't know one!

Michita

Not after 2 weeks you are not her husband, but you definitely want to move her out, lock your place and take a vacation somewhere after calling a lawyer as Planner recommends. She's obviously interested in keeping you around for financial reasons, don't fool yourself into believing anything else.

Memo1234

YOU ARE AN ATM!! 90% of the time. In any country. LOL. Just get her out. Put new locks and surveilance system you can monitor. Get out of town for at least a month.   if you dont own the place.  MOVE!!    I wouldnt involve an attorney. You do that and then she will get one and then you are the only ATM in the mix!!  And. DONT EVER DO THAT AGAIN!!!!  Rescuers are victems!!  Dont be a tender dick!!

warmstrong92404

That's what I planned  to do July 17th flying to California  for 2 months thank you for confirming for me what I already knew thank you

Memo1234

As soon as possible!!

Guest123089

I have so many questions too.  She worked for 2 weeks then quit?  Worked for you or someone else?

Sounds like “your wife” found you and you’re going to solve all her problems.

Why would you take a person in if you’re not comfortable with them “falling in love”?  What were you trying to do?

Totally normal for people to call you their husband or wife and have you solve their life.  Try working for the Consulate where people list their spouse in their paperwork but they have not legally married.  It’s overstepping a boundary in a place where boundaries do not exist.  People will take and take until you stop them.

Don’t ask her to leave.  TELL her to leave. 

Anyi, tu te vas a ir hoy.   Adios.

Change the locks.

DRVisitor

Threads like these are better than soap operas these days!

Richard Sanchez

Be extremely cautious. This is common in DR. NEVER let your guard down.
Best wishes

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