Hi all,
I'm a 34 year old woman from Europe, and met an Egyptian man, 33, in a restaurant in a touristic place last January. We have seen eachother a few times during my stay, while I was there with my friend. He wanted to see me every day, take off from work and take us to beautiful places. We didn't do this because it felt a bit overwhelming and my friend and I also wanted to enjoy our own holidays.
We did stay in touch after I went back home. Since then we talk by phone every day. He has been very open and honest from day 1 about the fact that he wants to go and live in Europe and he doesn't want to spend his life with an Egyptian woman but a European.
We would like to spend some more time together, because we want to get to know eachother better. I will return to Egypt soon. He keeps telling me he will give me the best time of my life and show me how good of a man he is. The thing is.. I am actually really confused about some things:
1. (I have one daughter.) He told me after 4 weeks (?) he wants to have a child from me and really wants a future with me. He even asked me when we could have a child, if it turns out we are good for eachother? He is thinking about next year?? I wonder why the rush. He says he wants to and will be happy to bring me to his family to introduce me and meet them. He told me his family asks him for a family/children because of his age..
2. He is muslim and I am non-religious. He talked about marriage quite often to me, and then in all of a sudden he told me (he remembered) it's impossible to marry me because a muslim is not allowed to marry a non-religous. (We knew this and discussed this subject from day one because we spoke about us having very different cultures/ways of growing up) He tells me he wants to find a way/solution to be with me because he really wants a future together..
I don't know about any of this yet, because I have to get to know him, his culture and religion better (and he needs to know more of where I come from) before I make decisions in life such as starting a relationship and more. While he can't wait to make our relationship (Facebook) official for the people around us, I still have so many questions..
After reading all the bad stories, I can't keep myself from wondering what he is driven by..
Any opinions/insights from people familiar with lifestyle, culture, religion etc. of/in Egypt?
Thank you!